The (R)Evolutionary Man Initiation

Hi there, thanks for your interest in the (R)Evolutionary Man Initiation.

I would like to begin by congratulating you on taking this courageous step and making the choice to become the engaged and conscious author of this next chapter of your life. This decision is no small thing and our work together should begin by acknowledging the gift you are giving, most importantly to yourself, but equally to your loved ones, your community, and the world as a whole. Awesome job!

Secondly I would like to personally and whole heartedly thank you for inviting me along for the journey and engaging me as your coach in this exciting and transformative time in your life. Nothing stokes my fire more than being gifted the opportunity to walk alongside a brave adventurer as guide, mentor and companion along their journey. It truly is an honour!

We are living in an extremely challenging, yet hugely exciting chapter in the human story, a time of great change, where many of society’s old paradigms are shifting to make way for new, more positive, healthy and sustainable ways of being, doing and relating.

Great changes like this can bring feelings of fear and uncertainty, but they also offer us great opportunities to re-examine the way we have lived, the way we have shown up, and the way we have held back. They invite us to re-evaluate what is most important to us and how we can do things better now for a more positive future ahead.

A critical part of this monumental shift in human culture is the way in which we define gender and how we, as men and women, relate to ourselves, each other and our world.

Men are being called to step up and participate in a radically important project; a Revolution in Manhood!

• To challenge the outdated ideas of what it means to be a man.
• To acknowledge and learn from the goals and the misses of our past, and of our forefathers.
• To own and master the strength, wisdom, passion and compassion of our own authentic masculine and feminine gifts.
• To explore, embody and express our own unique version of manhood free from the masks that have hidden our fear, shame and self-judgement.
• And to have the courage to stand up, present in our power, impassioned and on purpose, and alongside our women to co-create the future of humanity on our beautiful planet.

The (R)Evolutionary Man Initiation is an answer to this call. It is a customised, Soul centred, initiatory program which uses a fusion of group coaching, psycho-emotional processes and Soul technologies to equip you with the tools, the self awareness and the motivation to align your life with your own unique expression of manhood.

 

I'm excited to start our journey together but before we begin, please complete the form below to provide me with as much information as possible so you can get the most out of your program.

As we embark on this journey together it is important that our relationship is clearly defined and agreed upon so we are both clear on what is expected of each other within the timeframe and the context of our work together.

The Coaching relationship is one of collaboration, cooperation, trust and equality. We are both equally committed, engaged and accountable partners for the duration of our work together. Ultimately this is your investment in yourself and as such the work is guided by you, your world view, your life circumstances and your desired outcomes. If at any time throughout the program you feel our approach is not working for you, or you would like to change direction or our meeting schedule, then please speak up.

My responsibilities:

• As your Coach I am responsible for providing you with the framework, the tools and the support within my skill set so you can best achieve your desired goals.
• To encourage and challenge you to lean in and step beyond your comfort zone.
• To be a mirror and reflect your blind spots, shadow aspects, excuses, and limiting beliefs with compassion and respect.
• To provide honest, challenging yet constructive feedback.
• To provide advice, guidance and suggestions.
• To keep you accountable to your goals, objectives and homework.
• To keep all information confidential according to professional and ethical guidelines, except in very rare circumstances where decreed by law; ie. Mandatory Reporting.
• To be present and on time for our agreed appointments unless in emergency.
• To provide at least 24 hours notice for any change in appointment time.

Coaching and Counselling are quite different approaches although the skills, techniques and outcomes can overlap very well. Counselling can be beneficial for moving through traumatic or difficult emotional situations and gaining understanding of the past. Coaching is more action oriented, solution focussed and directive.

Whilst I am a qualified and registered Transpersonal Counsellor I am not acting as your counsellor in the context of your program. That being said, throughout our work there will be times when we are dealing with deep personal and often challenging emotional content, and as such my skills as a counsellor will serve you and be utilised as appropriate. If at any time throughout our work together I feel that you would benefit from more of a counselling/psychological approach I will inform you of this and we can then discuss your options. Additional to this I am required by law as a mandatory reporter to notify the appropriate authorities if I deem that yours or anyone else’s safety is in danger.

Your responsibilities:

• Ultimately what you get out of our work is directly proportionate to how much you want put in. You can choose to engage the work 100%, 50% or 20% its up to you.
• To step up, show up and commit to giving our work your best shot whilst facing your limitations with compassion and humility.
• To be ruthlessly honest with yourself and with me, no matter how uncomfortable it feels.
• To complete your homework tasks in preparation for the next session. If this is not possible then speak up and we can adjust the workload.
• To respect the intellectual property of Nic Tovey and refrain from distributing any material, recordings, etc without prior permission.
• To be present and on time for our agreed appointments unless in emergency.
• To provide at least 24 hours notice for any change in appointment time.
• To pay the agreed fees prior to commencement of the coaching program or as agreed and outlined.

 

While I am understanding of our unconscious attempts to sabotage our process by being forgetful, resistant or tardy I strongly encourage self-responsibility throughout our work. Therefore I run on a 3 strike rule; if you fail to adhere to the above, the first time we will discuss reasons why and you will be supported to make changes. The second time I will challenge you to self-reflect, rectify and adjust. The third time I reserve the right to discontinue our work together without refund.

 

Thank you for taking the time to complete this form.

I will review your submission and will be in contact soon with more information.

See you soon!