Snark feedback
I’m currently working on a book about online harassment, “snark” culture, and internet commentary spaces. This project looks at these environments from all sides whether you’ve been talked about, or have participated in discussing others online. This is not a book specifically about me, the author, in any way. It is about snark as a broader concept, how it functions, why it exists, and why people engage in it. I’m not asking why you dislike any one individual including myself. I’m asking you to think about snark as a whole: what draws you to it, what role it plays in your life, and how it shapes your perspective of others and yourself. I’m especially interested in how these spaces affect mental health, sense of community, and personal behavior, as well as what motivates people to participate in them in the first place. A large part of this book is dedicated to real stories from people who have experienced online hate, dogpiling, or public scrutiny in any form. You do not need to be an influencer or public figure, if you’ve been affected, your voice matters. You’re also welcome to share from the other side. If you participate in snark or commentary spaces, I’d love to hear about your experiences too, what it gives you, how it impacts you, and why you engage with it. You can share in whatever way feels safest to you. That can be a full story or personal experience, a short reflection or quote, or something informal, messy, or unfinished. Please include a name to credit, an internet @ handle, or “anonymous” if you’d like to remain anonymous. You can share as much or as little as you’re comfortable with. Everything will be handled with care and respect. This section of the book is about documenting impact, not deciding who was right or wrong. It exists to help people understand what these experiences actually feel like from all perspectives and participants. Thank you for being here and for trusting this space.
Which role best describes you?
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I have been the target of online snark/harassment
I have participated in snark/discussion about others
I’ve done both
I mostly observe but don’t participate
Where have you experienced or participated in snark?
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Reddit
Tiktok
Instagram
Facebook
Discord
Gossip forums (Kiwi Farms/ Guru Gossip/ LOLCOW/ other
Other
What initially drew you to these spaces?
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Curiosity
Entertainment/drama
Wanting accountability for someone
Wanting to feel part of a community
Boredom
Personal dislike of a specific person
Recommendation / algorithm pushed it to me
Other
How would you describe the tone of these spaces?
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Mostly harmless / light commentary
Mixed (some fair critique, some cruelty)
Mostly negative
Actively harmful/ toxic
If you’ve participated in snark, why?
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It felt justified
It was entertaining
I felt like holding someone accountable
Everyone else was doing it
I was going through something personally
I didn’t think about the impact at the time
Do you regret participating?
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No
Yes
If you’ve been targeted, what impact did it have on you?
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Anxiety
Depression
Paranoia
Changed how I use social media
Affected relationships
Affected my safety
No impact or does not apply to me
Do you think snark communities can ever be ethical?
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Yes
Sometimes
Rarely
No
Unsure
Do you think people in these spaces consider the real-life impact of their actions?
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Yes, often
Sometimes
Rarely
Never
Have you ever changed your perspective on snark culture?
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Yes I’ve become more critical of it
Yes I’ve become more supportive of it
No my views haven’t changed
Unsure
Before today, were you aware that people have experienced severe mental health crises or died by suicide after sustained online harassment or snark communities?
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Yes very aware
Somewhat aware
Not aware
Do you believe online commentary or ‘snark’ spaces can contribute to someone harming themselves?
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Yes significantly
Yes but only in extreme cases
Maybe/ unsure
No
Do you think people say things in group or anonymous settings that they wouldn’t say directly to someone?
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Yes
Sometimes
Rarely
No
Who do you think is responsible when online spaces contribute to serious harm?
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Individual commenters
The group/community as a whole
Moderators/admins
The person being discussed
Other
At what point do you think online criticism crosses into something harmful?
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When it becomes repetitive/dogpiling
When it includes personal attacks (appearance, identity, etc.)
When it involves known speculation or misinformation
When it affects their real life (job, safety, etc.)
I don’t think it ever crosses a line
Name (can be anonymous or your reddit username)
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First Name
Last Name
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