PART 4 DISCUSSION QUESTIONS
QUESTION 1
In the message, Andy gave an example of a friend who lives with such peace that you would never guess her past is so complicated. Do you know anyone like this?
QUESTION 2
When was a time you decided to forgive someone? Did the decision affect how you thought or felt toward that person?
QUESTION 3
Below is a list of some areas in which people commonly believe they are owed. Check off the “costs” from the list that resonate with you. You cost me my . . .
Ability to have children
Best years
Career
Childhood
Finances/money
Future employment options
Future plans
Happy childhood
Health
Hope for a certain kind of father
Hope for a certain kind of mother
House
Marriage
Peace
Plan for how things should have worked out
Purity
Relationships with my children
Relationships with my friends
Relationship with my parents
Reputation
Safety and security
Success
Time
Other
QUESTION 4
From the list on the previous page, which ones do you think people have the hardest time “releasing”?
QUESTION 5
If you feel comfortable, share a personal example from a box you checked.
QUESTION 6
Do you think it’s possible to forgive someone without the other person seeking forgiveness from you first?
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