The 10 Love Styles Quiz
Magali Peysha created the 10 Love Styles after years of working with couples and seeing that there are patterns to how people need to give, receive and experience love. "By getting to the heart of your Love Style, you can quit blaming yourself or blaming your partner and start understanding how love works" Answer each question as honestly as you can and click to submit to receive more information about your love styles. El concurso de los 10 Etilos de Amor Magali Peysha creó los 10 Estilos de Amor después de años de trabajar con parejas y ver que hay patrones en la forma en que las personas necesitan dar, recibir y experimentar el amor. "Al llegar al corazón de tu estilo de amor, puedes dejar de culparte o culpar a tu pareja y empezar a entender cómo funciona el amor" Responde a cada pregunta con la mayor sinceridad posible y haz clic en enviar para recibir más información sobre tus estilos de amor.
1 When you were dating your happiest moments were full of/Cuando salías con tu pareja tus momentos más felices estaban llenos de:
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Intimacy and sharing of feelings/Intimidad y compartir sentimientos
Physical passion/Pasión física
Shared active fun experiences/Experiencias de diversión activa compartidas
Appreciating spontaneous beauty/Apreciar la belleza espontánea
Winning and impressing others/Ganar e impresionar a los demás
Knowing he or she was right there with you taking everything in/Sabiendo que él o ella estaba allí contigo, asimilando todo
Knowing you were free - he or she would take care of everything/Sabiendo que eras libre, él o ella se encargaría de todo
He or she could fix anything/Puede arreglar cualquier cosa
Feeling like this other person really gets my unique, sometimes weird self/Tuve o Tengo la sensación que mi pareja realmente entiende a mi como persona única y a veces extraña
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2 A perfect night at home involves/Una noche perfecta en casa implica:
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A Sc-Fi movie or TV show/Una película de ciencia ficción o un programa de televisión
Planning our future/Planear nuestro futuro
Trying something from the Kama Sutra/Probar algo del Kama Sutra
Talking about an alternate world, utopia, or how we are different from others/Hablar de un mundo alternativo, de una utopía o de como somos diferentes a los demás
Truly listening to each other/Escuchar de verdad al otro
Friends in any form/Amigos en cualquier forma
Anything we've never done before/Cualquier cosa que nunca hayamos hecho antes
Working side by side towards our dreams/Trabajar codo con codo hacia nuestros sueños
Anything as long as he or she is next to me, and I know I'm number one/Cualquier cosa mientras él o ella esté a mi lado, y yo sepa que soy el número uno
If he or she plans it, I'm happy/Si él o ella lo planea, soy feliz
A home improvement project that lets us be creative/Un proyecto de mejora del hogar que nos permita ser creativos
3. My partner shows me he or she loves me when/Mi pareja me demuestra que me quiere cuando:
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He or she allows me to forget what I should do and makes it okay to just be together, away from the world/Me permite olvidar lo que debo hacer y hace que esté bien estar juntos, lejos del mundo
He or she turns me on in a new way/Me excita de una manera nueva
He or she flirts and teases me/Coquetea y bromea conmigo
He or she plans our weekend to include the people I love/Él o ella planea nuestro fin de semana para incluir a las personas que quiero
He or she appreciates art, books, music, films with me/Aprecia el arte, los libros, la música y las películas conmigo
He or she helps me solve a problem that has been upsetting me/Me ayuda a resolver un problema que me molesta
He or she holds me and nurtures me/Me abraza y me cuida
He or she uplifts my mood/Me levanta el ánimo
He or she plans a trip with me, the week schedule, helps organize and envision our future/Planea un viaje conmigo, la agenda de la semana, me ayuda a organizar e imaginar nuestro futuro
He or she enjoys what I enjoy/Él o ella disfruta de lo que yo disfruto
4. This matters most to me:
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Laughter
Art
Relationships
Sex
Ideas
Being real
Commitment
Flexibility
Solving problems
Confidence
5. I couldn't live without:
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My schedule
Sex with him or her
Surprises
Knowing he or she supports my decisions
Family coming first
Him or her understanding my mission
Connecting with nature
Seeing new places
Games, sports, and entertainment
Sleep
Physical movement
My partner's support
Friends
6. I know my lover wants me when
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He or she looks at me in that special way that says "I am yours."
He or she tells me I am the only one who understands him or her
He or she nurtures me with touch, sound, hugs, or words
He or she tells me, “I want you.”
He or she gets moody and I know that only I can help
My partner acts like he or she needs me and or my support network
He or she plans our weekend so it is sexy and intimate
He or she surprises me with a new act of love
He or she helps me forget the stress of work and life
7. This is one of my rules in a relationship:
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We must be each other’s rock
You must never cheat on me
We will never bore each other
We will have a big social group
I need to come first
Success depends on having a plan together
Show interest in what I say and think
Respect trumps lust
You need to show me you want me sexually every day
Love my hobbies and I know you love me
8. I'm at my emotional best when I am
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Out with friends
Alone and focused
Planning my/our future
Fixing a problem
Helping somebody
Creating something of beauty for myself and or the world
In a gorgeous setting where I can connect with my lover and environment
Playing games, watching movies, hanging out
Listening to another's truth, whatever it may be
When I'm loved, happy, and appreciated, anywhere I am feels good
Making love with my partner
9. I am so grateful when…
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You do something for a friend or family member
You show me through sex and intimacy that you love me
You create a scenario that shows your love
I feel your loving presence and it grounds me
Together we make sure to feel peace
You get me out of myself and I become playful
You take care of me
You get things done
You show me I'm the person you can always confide in
10. Our relationship feels most alive when:
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We're alone together
We're with our nuclear family
We're with people at an event
We're in a new place
We're at home
We're doing our own thing - but together
We're making something
We're feeling passion
We're talking and sharing
You surprise me
You whisk me away
We're creating our own tradition
We're being our true selves and joking around
11. My idea of a good time is:
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Making love in an exotic place like the car, a beach, or anywhere that is new for us
Crossing off one of our big “experience musts” from our bucket list
Playing and being goofy like kids - or with kids
Going to the movies, theater, museum, or concerts together.
Talking until late at night with our good friends
Eating a gourmet meal at our favorite restaurant
Traveling and exploring
Seeing or experiencing something in a new and creative way
Connecting over an idea, concept, or book
Going on an adventure
Keeping each other company
12. My favorite type of movie or TV show is:
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Romantic Comedy
Anything with romance or intimate relations
Adventure
Sci-Fi or Fantasy
Drama or Reality Show
Deep character-driven films
Artsy/Independent
History
Documentary
The entertainment matters less than how we share it with others
Stand Up Comedy
Movies or TV with passionate characters
13. When I complain to him or her, my focus is on:
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My feelings
What he or she lacks
Work not getting done
Our lack of money
His or her neediness
Our need for goals and plans
My past
Our future
She/he is ignoring what I think is so cool or important
Getting him or her to understand the way they used to
Getting some time off
Getting away
My need for him or her to like my family
14. The most important part of my day is:
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When I get lost in my imagination
When I feel close to one person
Being with my family
Being with friends together at work or at play
Feeling that I am part of something bigger than just myself
Time spent making or creating something
The end of the day when I can relax and feel complete
Moments or hours focused on another person
Figuring out how something works
Feeling that private sense of connection where the rest of the world disappears
15. The best vacation together would be:
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On a deserted beach with just sand, water, sky and you
In a castle full of history
With friends new, old, or in between
Exploring a new and exciting landscape together
Investing in our own success at an event with like-minded people
At a tantric sex retreat
Learning a new form of art in a beautiful place
A trip where everyone is laughing and enjoying themselves
We could go anywhere on vacation as long as we have each others' backs
16. If I had lots of extra money, I would invest in:
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Our forever home together
My partner's dream business
His or her passion
Our children's future
Our parents' sense of certainty
Life-changing travel
My family
A world tour
Helping the world at a higher level
An adventure we would never forget
A health retreat
Art to enrich our lives
Teachers to guide us
My dream getaway
Ideas that make life better for others
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