The Role of a Godparent
The primary role of a godparent is to assist the parents in raising the child in the Catholic faith. This involves:
Spiritual Guidance: Helping the child grow in their understanding and practice of the Catholic faith.
Witness of Faith: Serving as a living example of Catholic life through their own actions and commitment to the Church.
Support for Parents: Offering support and encouragement to the parents in their duty as the primary educators of their child in the faith.
Prayer: Praying for their godchild's spiritual well-being.
Practical Advice for Parents in Choosing Godparents
Beyond the canonical requirements (see below), parents should consider several practical aspects when selecting godparents:
Active Faith Life: Parents should look for individuals who are not just nominally Catholic but actively practice their faith. This includes regular Mass attendance, reception of sacraments, and a commitment to living out Catholic teachings.
Moral Character: Godparents should be individuals of good moral character who can serve as positive role models for the child.
Relationship with the Child and Family: While not a canonical requirement, it is often beneficial for godparents to have a loving and supportive relationship with the child and the family. This can foster a closer bond and facilitate their involvement in the child's spiritual life.
Stability and Availability: Parents might consider individuals who are likely to remain a stable presence in the child's life and who are willing and able to be actively involved.
Understanding of the Role: It is important that potential godparents understand the responsibilities they are undertaking and are enthusiastic about fulfilling them. Parents should have open conversations with prospective godparents about what is expected of them.
One Godparent or Two: While only one godparent is strictly necessary, it is customary to have two (a godfather and a godmother). If only one godparent is chosen, they must meet all the canonical requirements.
Christian Witness (Non-Catholic): If a baptized non-Catholic Christian is chosen alongside a Catholic godparent, they can serve as a "Christian witness" to the baptism, but not as a godparent in the full canonical sense. This individual must also meet certain criteria, such as being baptized and believing in the Trinity.