• NSCS- Prenatal

  • Nurturing Skills Competency Scale (NSCS-3.0*)

  • Prenatal Families

    Long Version
  • Check One:
  • This inventory can only be scored online at AssesingParenting.com

    Please Print:
  • 1. Date Inventory was administered:*
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  • Directions:

    Please circle the letter of your response in each item AND write the letter in the space provided. For example, For item #6, if your are Female, circle letter b, and write the letter b in the space provided. Answer all items.
  • PART A- About Me

  • 5. Birthday:*
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  • 6. Gender:*
  • 7. Race/Nationality:*
  • 8. Marital Status:*
  • 10. Highest grade you completed:*
  • 11. Current Employment- School status:*
  • 12. Annual Household Income:*
  • 13. Are or were you and/or your partner in the military?*
  • 14. As a child, did you experience any type of physical, emotional or sexual abuse by someone OUTSIDE of your family?*
  • 15. As a child, did you experience any type of physical, emotional or sexual abuse by someone INSIDE of your family?*
  • PART B- About My Childhood

    As a child between the ages of 4 to 18, did you:
  • 16. Ever feel that no one in your family loved you or thought you were special?
  • 17. Ever feel your needs were ignored?
  • 18. Ever feel that either of your parents used street drugs, abused alcohol, or misused prescription drugs?
  • 19. Feel the quality of your relationship with your mother or mother figure was:
  • 20. Feel the quality of your relationship with your father or father figure was:
  • 21. Ever feel your mother or mother figure was physically, verbally or sexually abused by her partner?
  • 22. Ever feel your father or father figure was physically, verbally or sexually abused by his partner?
  • 23. Ever feel your parents had marital problems?
  • 24. Ever feel any of your brothers or sisters were physically, verbally or sexually abused?
  • PART C- About the Father/Mother of My Child(ren)

  • My responses to the following statements refer to (Please circle one):
  • NOTE:

    If there are children from different parents, please refer to the parent partner of the most recent child.
  • 25. Is your parent partner a problem drinker or alcoholic; abuses prescription drugs or uses street drugs?
  • 26. Do you think your parent partner was abused or neglected as a child?
  • 27. Do you think your parent partner had brothers or sisters who were physically, verbally or sexually abused as children by their parents?
  • 28. Has your parent partner physically, verbally or sexually abused you?
  • 29. Have you physically, verbally, or sexually abused your parent partner?
  • 30. Please rate the quality of the relationship you have with your parent partner:
  • 31. If you were to do it all over again, would you still choose your parent partner as the mother or father of your children?
  • PART D- About My Children/Family

  • 32. Have any of your children ever experienced any type of physical, verbal or sexual abuse by a person OUTSIDE your family?
  • 33. Have any of your children ever experienced any type of physical, verbal or sexual abuse by a person INSIDE your family?
  • 34. Do any of your children have now or had a problem with alcohol, prescription drugs or street drugs?
  • 35. Do any of your children have special learning needs that require a specialist or special education?
  • 36. Do any of your children have a history of mental health problems?
  • 37. Has anyone in your family ever been referred for counseling?
  • 38. Overall, I would rate my parenting skills:
  • 39. Overall, the degree of happiness I feel being an expectant parent is:
  • 40. Knowing what you know now about being an expectant parent, would you still choose to be expecting if you could do it all over again?
  • PART E- About My Knowledge of Nurturing Practices

  • 41. The importance of prenatal care has grown due to:
  • 42. Stressful partner relationship can affect the development of the baby's brain.
  • 43. During pregnancy, changes to the Mom usually occur in three areas:
  • 44. Drinking alcohol during pregnancy is:
  • 45. Which statement is TRUE?
  • 46. This mineral is needed for proper bone development:
  • 47. A newborn a few minutes old is capable of recognizing his father's voice.
  • 48. Parental empathy means:
  • 49. A high quality diet during pregnancy consists of:
  • 50. Smoking during pregnancy:
  • 51. Drinking coffee while pregnant:
  • 52. What is the main reason why parents spank their children?
  • 53. Which of the following is a healthy way to manage and reduce stress?
  • 54. The baby's brain is fully developed at birth.
  • 55. The type of touch a baby receives can change the chemistry of the brain and body.
  • 56. Sexual activity during pregnancy generally:
  • 57. Parents can spoil children by:
  • 58. Possessive and violent relationships between parents can be dangerous to the baby.
  • 59. Parents can help children develop their empathy by:
  • 60. Being a parent is a job 24 hours a day, 365 days of the year.
  • Turn the page and continue on to PART F ...

  • PART F- About My Use of Nurturing Skills

  • INSTRUCTIONS:

    Rate how often you practice the following nurturing parenting and nurturing self-behaviors.
  • 0= Don't practice the skill at all

  • 1= Sometimes

  • 2= Often

  • 3= Regularly

  • -Column A-

    Respond to these items if you are pregnant And DON'T have other children
  • 61. Make time to nurture myself
  • 62. Recognize my personal strengths
  • 63. Respond to my partner with empathy
  • 64. Consider the possible consequences of an action
  • 65. Have expectations for myself to succeed
  • 66. Enjoy life by making time to play and have fun
  • 67. Praise my partner or other family member for "being"
  • 68. Praise my partner or other family member for "doing"
  • 69. Practice appropriate ways to manage stress
  • 70. Practice appropriate ways to handle anger
  • 71. Work on improving my self-worth on a daily basis
  • 72. Discuss with my partner our plans for discipline
  • 73. Make sure I eat proper food and get proper nutrition for me and my baby
  • 74. Have awareness of my own needs
  • 75. Make time to get my needs met in healthy ways
  • 76. Maintain a loving relationship with my partner
  • 77. Avoid smoking and second-hand smoke
  • 78. Avoid alcoholic drinks
  • 79. Sing, talk and read to my baby
  • 80. Express unconditional love for my baby
  • -Column B-

    Respond to these items if you are pregnant and DO have other children
  • 61. Make time to nurture myself
  • 62. Recognize my personal strengths
  • 63. Respond to my children with empathy
  • 64. Give my children choices and consequences
  • 65. Have expectations for children to succeed
  • 66. Spend time with my children reading, singing and playing
  • 67. Praise my child for "being" a wonderful child
  • 68. Praise my child for "doing" their best
  • 69. Model appropriate ways for my children to manage their stress
  • 70. Teach my children appropriate ways to express feelings of anger
  • 71. Help my children improve their feelings of self-worth
  • 72. Refer to our family rules to help guide our children
  • 73. Feed my children proper food and nutrition
  • 74. Have awareness of my own adult needs
  • 75. Make time to get my needs met in healthy ways
  • 76. Maintain a loving relationship with my partner
  • 77. Avoid smoking and second-hand smoke
  • 78. Present a proper role model of health and exercise
  • 79. Established a nurturing night time routine for my children
  • 80. Express unconditional love for my children
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  • Should be Empty: