Map of Me - Short Guide to Values Workbook

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Select your 3 core values in the below in order of how strongly they resonate with you. i.e. the value that resonates with you the most should go into number 1.
Achievement
Benevolence
Conformity
Hedonism
Power
Security
Self-Direction
Stimulation
Tradition
Universalism
Achievement
Benevolence
Conformity
Hedonism
Power
Security
Self-Direction
Stimulation
Tradition
Universalism
Achievement
Benevolence
Conformity
Hedonism
Power
Security
Self-Direction
Stimulation
Tradition
Universalism
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Value 1What words come to mind when you think about your strongest value?
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Value 2What words come to mind when you think about your second value?
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Value 3What words come to mind when you think about your third value?
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What's an example of a time where you were at your best and fully living into this value?
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What's an example of a time where you weren't in alignment with this value or perhaps you turned the volume down on it?
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How do you know when your aren't aligned with this value? (how do you think, feel, act)
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How do you behave when you perceive that your personal values are being threatened or not recognised?We often call these behaviours "slippery behaviours" and they are more likely to appear when we feel the most stressed, threatened or vulnerable. Examples could be seeking approval, perfectionism, gossiping, being less inclusive, disengaging or being more directive.
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What does it feel like when you are fully in alignment and living into this value?
I feel:
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The Personal Values Circumplex

You may remember the circumplex from when you did the personal values game.

Take a moment to study it and note the position of your three values.

You're more likely to be accepting of values closer to your own, and more likely to come into conflict with values sitting on the opposing side.

Now let's explore the interaction of different values.
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Which Values are you most likely to come in conflict with?
Achievement
Benevolence
Conformity
Hedonism
Power
Security
Self-Direction
Stimulation
Tradition
Universalism
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Are any of your 3 core values in conflict with one another? If so, can you think about a time when this has played out?
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Can you recall conflict you have had where perhaps it was your values conflicting with another persons? If so what was it like?
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What do you think their personal values might be?
Achievement
Benevolence
Conformity
Hedonism
Power
Security
Self-Direction
Stimulation
Tradition
Universalism
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How do you know? What behaviours, emotions, language did you observe?
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Do any of their personal values potentially clash with yours? If so, which ones and how do you see this play out?
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What behaviours have you observed when they might perceive their values are being threatened or not recognised?
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The Personal Values Circumplex

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