Marital Intimacy Test
Lifebridge Counseling
Choose a number for each question, based on this scale:
(4-Often; 3-often enough; 2-not enough; 1-rarely and 0-never)
1. How often do you show affection for each other?
*
Never
0
1
2
3
Often
4
0 is Never, 4 is Often
2. How often do you laugh at each other’s jokes?
*
Never
0
1
2
3
Often
4
0 is Never, 4 is Often
3. How often do you say something nice to each other?
*
Never
0
1
2
3
Often
4
0 is Never, 4 is Often
4. How often do you compliment your partner in front of other people?
*
Never
0
1
2
3
Often
4
0 is Never, 4 is Often
5. How often do you enjoy sexual intimacy together?
*
Never
0
1
2
3
Often
4
0 is Never, 4 is Often
6. How often are you playful with each other?
*
Never
0
1
2
3
Often
4
0 is Never, 4 is Often
7. How often do you make eye contact when talking with each other?
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Never
0
1
2
3
Often
4
0 is Never, 4 is Often
7. How often do you make eye contact when talking with each other?
*
Never
0
1
2
3
Often
4
0 is Never, 4 is Often
8. How often do you surprise one another with small acts of kindnesses or thoughtful gifts?
*
Never
0
1
2
3
Often
4
0 is Never, 4 is Often
9. How often do you say “please” and/or “thank you”?
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Never
0
1
2
3
Often
4
0 is Never, 4 is Often
10. How often do you say “I’m sorry, please forgive me”?
*
Never
0
1
2
3
Often
4
0 is Never, 4 is Often
Your Results:
What insights may you glean from these questions?
Could you improve the intimacy level by being more intentional with your affection?
Do you find yourself creating mental roadblocks to increasing your intimacy with your spouse? If yes, what are you willing to do about removing those roadblocks?
Submit
Should be Empty: