Chastity Rules, Terms, Punishments & Obligations
As with many things in BDSM, there are risks involved. For many people, risk is part of the appeal. However, if everyone follows the golden rules of BDSM, everything should be fine.
The golden rules? Active consent, communication & mutual respect.
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Obligations:
1. The slave will have the following obligations under the chastity contract:
2. The slave understands that all power and authority lies with the keyholder.
3. The slave will purchase or obtain the chastity cage of his keyholder’s desire. The cage will be worn at all times during the contract with the keys solely held by the keyholder.
4. Under the lockup period, the slave submits ownership of his genitals to the keyholder.
5. The slave agrees to wear the chastity cage to ensure the keyholder’s newly acquired property is secure and properly functioning. The slave also agrees to not masturbate or orgasm without the keyholder’s express command.
6. The slave agrees to use the toilet seat sitting down for all bathroom matters. If the toilet seat is caught in the upright position, it will result in two additional days added to the lockup period.
7. The slave is not authorized to access the keys to the chastity cage at any time except during emergencies.
8. The slave can request the chastity cage to be removed two times a week for personal hygiene purposes under the strict supervision of the keyholder. If an emergency arises, the keyholder will review the situation to see if it is appropriate for the slave to remove the chastity cage.
9. The slave is not permitted to touch, rub, fondle, or otherwise receive sexual gratification without the keyholder’s express consent.
10. The keyholder will decide if and when any sexual gratification will be experienced by the slave. Any infractions of this rule will result in additional days added to the lockup period at a rate of no more than 10 days.
11. If the lockup period coincides during the slave’s birthday, the slave will be allowed a ruined orgasm on his birthday.
12. The slave understands that any orgasm (ruined or otherwise) during the lockup period is at the complete discretion of the keyholder and no guarantees are made at all.
13. Any unauthorized orgasms or premature orgasms will result in an automatic reset of the lockup period.
14. The slave is required to wear no clothing (just the chastity cage) at all times while in the privacy of the home when the keyholder is present.
15. The slave must provide photo or video evidence proof that he is wearing the chastity cage when the keyholder demands a chastity spot check. Failure to comply with this request within a timely manner (generally no more than 5 minutes) will result in 1 day being added to the lockup period.
16. The user is allowed to implore the keyholder to be let out of the cage. However, excessive begging will result in additional days added to the lockup period at the sole discretion of the keyholder.
Hygiene and safety:
1. The slave is responsible for daily cleaning of the chastity cage and the keyholder’s property (i.e. her genitals). Twice a week the slave may request freedom from the cage for a deep cleaning, including shaving pubic hair. This process must be supervised with the keyholder physically present.
2. The slave must notify the keyholder of any concerns regarding personal hygiene or personal safety/health when they arise. The keyholder will then decide if this constitutes an emergency for temporary release from the chastity cage until the problem has been resolved.
3. Before the lockup period, the slave will shave his pubic hair to be neat and presentable.
4. Once a week the keyholder will inspect the slave’s cage to ensure his personal hygiene is up to her standards.
Sexual Obligations:
1. Sexual release for the slave will be at the sole discretion of the keyholder.
2. The slave understands that it is entirely possible that the keyholder will not allow the slave any sexual release during the lockup period.
3. The slave is not allowed any sexual gratification unless permitted by the keyholder. The slave is not permitted to stroke his penis or testicles without the express permission of the keyholder.
4. The slave will not watch any form of pornography and read erotica unless he has permission from the keyholder.
5. Any violation of the above conditions will result in swift and hard punishment by the keyholder.
6. There is no obligation for the keyholder to give the slave any sexual relief even if she had previously indicated so in writing or verbally.
7. The keyholder shall determine the slave’s sexual release at all times.
8. The slave will not ask for sexual release (i.e. an orgasm) unless ordered to do so.
9. Upon signing of the Chastity Contract, the keyholder becomes the legal owner of the slave. As a result, the keyholder may use the slave in any manner she chooses as long as there is no permanent harm.
10. The keyholder may perform any sexual act on the slave no matter how crude it may be.
11. The slave acknowledges and accepts that the keyholder will have certain sexual needs that need to be fulfilled during the lockup period.
12. The slave will provide cunnlingus to the keyholder any time she desires no matter the location. In addition, the slave agrees to satisfy the keyholder in any way she desires without concern regarding his own sexual gratification.
13. The slave acknowledges and accepts that during the lockup period, the keyholder may choose to engage in sexual relations with other men. The slave also acknowledges that this does not constitute infidelity on the keyholder’s part.
14. The slave acknowledges and agrees that the keyholder may use various methods of teasing to torment the slave at any time. Further, the slave understands that he has no say for when such teasing ends.
Locking of the chastity cage:
1. The locking of the slave’s genitals will be supervised by the keyholder with the keyholder physically present. After the chastity cage has been put on, the keyholder will inspect the fit to ensure it is secure.
2. The keyholder will acquire the lock and key for the chastity cage and keep two sets of keys for safe keeping. One key will be kept on her person and the other in a safe location for emergencies.
3. The slave will not have access to the key except in certain emergencies.
4. If the slave cannot reduce the size of his penis to fit the chastity cage, the keyholder has the authority to shrink the slave’s penis in a manner of her choosing. This may include: cold showers, applying icy hot on the slave’s penis and testicles, or kicking the slave’s testicles.
5. The keyholder will keep two sets of keys to the slave’s chastity cage. One key will be kept in a safe place (only to the keyholder’s knowledge) for emergency situations. The other key will be worn by the keyholder in one of the following places: around the keyholder’s neck, around the keyholder’s ankle, or around the keyholder’s wrist.
6. Emergency access to the key is at the keyholder’s sole discretion.
DUTIES/RULES FOR THE SLAVE:
The SLAVE agrees to wear the DEVICE as long as the KEYHOLDER demands it, and there are no health or safety issues.
The SLAVE agrees to not try to escape the DEVICE in any way, for no reason, unless there are health or safety issues.
The SLAVE agrees to submit to the KEYHOLDER completely and give them complete control over themselves.
The SLAVE agrees to obey any pleasure orders from the KEYHOLDER.
The SLAVE agrees not to watch pornographic movies or read pornographic magazines without permission from the KEYHOLDER.
The SLAVE agrees to do all the chores the KEYHOLDER might ask them to do.
The SLAVE agrees not to spend any money without the permission of the KEYHOLDER.
The SLAVE agrees to be punished for not obeying the rules set by the KEYHOLDER.
CONTRACT TERMS:
The initial contract duration is ________ and is valid until that date.
Both partners, the SLAVE and the KEYHOLDER are signing the contract and agreeing to all the terms on their free will, without any influence or bribes from the external sources.
During the initial contract duration, the contract can be terminated at any time by either the SLAVE or the KEYHOLDER if there are any health or safety issues.
If, however, there are no health or safety issues, only the KEYHOLDER has the power of terminating the contract.
Contract modifications can be made if both parties, the SLAVE and the KEYHOLDER, agree to them while the contract is signed.
Rules for Long Term Chastity:
The key will always be securely under the supervision of the keyholder.
The key-holder has the obligation to pay attention of the user’s health condition and arrange necessary suitable treatment, when any disorders are identified on the user’s body.
The key-holder will remove the chastity belt at least once every 5 days to allow the user to be cleaned properly. This time will also be used to check that there are no health issues in regards to wearing it. Cleaning will involve users hands being fastened behind back, and hood applied with blindfold before device is removed.
Hair may be removed to help keep the user clean
The key-holder will not allow the chastity period to exceed 3 months without break.
The key-holder will make the user aware of how long the expected chastity period is to be, when locking the chastity belt.
If the chastity period is increased it is the key-holder’s obligation to let the user know how long it has been increased by and why.
It is up to the key-holder’s discretion how long each chastity period is to be. The key-holder may increase or stop any chastity period as he sees fit.
The key-holder can humiliate the user at any time by mentioning that he is kept in chastity.
The user must show device on request
PUNISHMENTS:
If the RULES are broken by the SLAVE, the KEYHOLDER has a right to enforce light physical punishment like spanking, slapping, biting.
If the RULES are broken by the SLAVE, the KEYHOLDER also has a right to enforce the loss of privileges like access to finances, entertainment like TV. This is usually combined with increasing the chore list for the SLAVE.
If the RULES are broken by the SLAVE, the KEYHOLDER has a right to deny any sexual pleasure until the SLAVE learns their lesson, which can be up to a few months.
Privacy:
1. Both parties agree that life outside their sex life will remain its status quo. As a result, their sex life will be kept separate from their professional and social lives.
2. This chastity contract is strictly confidential between the keyholder and the slave. The contract’s existence will not be made known to other parties in whole or part.
End of contract:
1. The contract will come to the end at the agreed upon end date or in the rare case, a breach of contract.
Breach of contract
1. Breach of contract by either the keyholder may constitute a cancellation of the chastity contract.
2. Breach of contract by the slave will be determined at the sole discretion of the keyholder.
3. Cancellation of the contract will result in the immediate release of the slave from its chastity cage.
End Date:
1. At the end of the lockup period (the “end date”), the keyholder will remove the chastity cage from the slave’s penis.
2. The slave will then be allowed to use his penis in any way he desires.
Slave Punishments:
1. Over the course of the lockup period, the slave may be punished by the keyholder for any reason she deems appropriate. The slave will accept all punishment willingly as long as they do not cause long-term harm
2. The keyholder may carry out punishments based on the level of infraction by the slave – which are classified into three categories: 1) minor infractions, (2) moderate infractions, and (3) severe infractions.
3. The list of possible punishments in each category include:
Minor infractions:
1. The list of minor infraction punishments include:
2. Additional days in chastity: At her sole discretion, the keyholder may add an additional 1 to 3 days of chastity to the lockup period.
3. Tease and denial session: The slave will ensure a cruel 10 minute tease and denial session while tied down.
4. Spanks: The keyholder will deliver 10 spanks to each of the slave’s butt cheeks with a wooden paddle or metal spoon. If those tools are not available, the keyholder may elect to use her bare palm.
5. Wearing panties: The slave will be required to wear a pair of panties for 24 hours. They keyholder will decide which panties the slave will wear.
Moderate infractions:
1. The list of moderate infraction punishments include:
2. Additional days in chastity: At her sole discretion, the keyholder may add an additional 4 to 7 days of chastity to the lockup period.
3. Kicks to the testicles: The keyholder will kick the slave’s testicles 10 times with her barefoot.
4. Kneel over rice: The keyholder will make the slave kneel over rice for 10 minutes.
5. Slaps to the face: The keyholder will slap the slave 5 times on each side of the face with her bare palm.
Severe infractions:
1. The list of severe infraction punishments include:
2. Additional days in chastity: At her sole discretion, the keyholder may add an additional 8 to 10 days of chastity to the lockup period.
3. Breach of contract: Under a breach of contract, the chastity contract will be terminated and the slave will be immediately released from the chastity cage.
4. Pegging: The keyholder will peg the slave with a strapon while using a generous amount of lubricant.
5. No orgasms: The slave will go 30 days without sexual release.
6. Spiked chastity cage: The slave will be required to wear a spiked chastity cage for 24 hours.
"Under the terms of the Chastity Contract, the slave will be offering his chastity key to the keyholder under his own free will and trusting her to manage his sexual affairs".
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