Answer yes if your parents) had any one or more of the traits listed.
a.
If you were raised by both parents (up to age 15 or 16), was your father more outward and demonstrative in showing affection for you than your mother (e.g., by hugging, verbalizing feelings, compliments)?
b.
If you were raised by your father only, was he outward and demonstrative in showing affection for you?
C.
If you were raised by your mother only, was she outward and demonstrative in showing affection for you?
Does "b" more closely describe what you usually feel at the culmination of the sex act than "a"?
A sudden end to all pleasurable feelings (stimulation may turn to an irritation or ticklish frustration) and a feeling of wanting to back off and stop the sex act momentarily or completely.
b. physical and emotional release with contractions, spasmodic shivering, body warmth, moisture and capabilities of multiple releases.
If your partner breaks off a relationship that you don't want to end, do you find that all your energies and thoughts keep drifting back to them and you are unable to concentrate on anything else?
During an argument, do you bring up things from the past, that your partner did that hurt you?
After a disagreement with your partner, do you usually make up first?
Are you more jealous or possessive of your partner than they are of you?
Do you often desire repeated or prolonged sex with your partner?
Is it important to you to have your partner show you attention by opening doors,
helping you with your coat, pulling out your chair before you sit down, etc.?
During sex, do you verbally express the different emotional feelings you are experiencing?
If rejected by your partner, are you capable of expressing extreme anger, tantrums or physical violence?
Do you enjoy buying gifts for your partner?
Do you have a tendency to walk and stand with your feet pointed more outward than inward?
Are you still willing to have sex with your partner, even after arguments, rejections or periods of neglect?
Do you enjoy receiving outward affection and flattery from your partner?
Does your sex drive seem to be stronger than your partner's?
Do you feel that you are better able to express intimate feelings and attitudes than your partner?
Do you feel that you put more energy into making your relationship work than your partner does?
Do you agree with your partner at times, to prevent them from turning off sexually, even when you know they are wrong?
Do you feel the family unit is the most important part of your life?
If you were raised by both parents (up to age 15 or 16), was your father more passive and undemonstrative in showing affection for you than your mother?
If you were raised by your father only, was he undemonstrative, passive, cold, withdrawn or overly strict?
If you were raised by your mother only, was she undemonstrative, passive, cold, withdrawn or overly strict?
Does "a" more closelv describe what you usually feel at the culmination of the sex act than "b"?
A physical and emotional release with contractions, spasmodic shivering, body warmth, moisture and capabilities of multiple releases.
Would you feel satisfied sexually, if your partner reaches climax or orgasm even if you did not?
Would you prefer to avoid the use of verbal voyeurism (talking about or hearing the sex act
described) during the sex act?
Do you find that as the newness of a relationship wears off, your sex drive towards your partner diminishes?
Would you rather stay at home than go out alone and seek contact with strangers?
Is the expectation of sex often greater than the actual physical act?
Do you have the attitude that you would never have sex, if you felt the same way before the sex act that you feel five minutes after?
Would you rather avoid verbally expressing love, tenderness and affection
immediately following sex?
Do you turn off sexually during heavy kissing or heavy handling?
Do your hands and feet usually feel colder than the rest of your body?
Does prolonged or repeated sex turn you off?
Are you constantly searching outside your relationship for the "romance" you feel is missing in your life?
Does your partner desire sex more often than you do?
Do you turn off during sex, if distracted by small talk, or by a comment you feel criticizes you?
Do you feel embarrassed or self-conscious if your partner touches or handles you a great deal in public?
Do you have a tendency to walk and stand with your feet pointed inward rather than outward?
Would you avoid or refuse to have sex with your partner after an argument?
Instead of complimenting your partner, do you usually take the attitude that as long as you don't complain everything is OK?
Do you make excuses to avoid sex with your partner at times?