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What Is Your Dating Archetype?
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What is your relationship status?
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Single, never been married.
Single and divorced.
Currently in a relationship, not married.
Married.
Widowed.
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Which of the following best describes you?
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I am a single professional who has been more focused on my career. Time has just passed me by and I want a relationship.
I am recovering from a long-term relationship or marriage and need to get back out there. It has been a while and I feel like a fish out of water.
I have very little dating experience. I really wish I knew what to do and where to go to meet men.
I keep getting into unhealthy relationships and want to stop this pattern. I am not sure how to go about changing this.
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You are on a date and things are going well. Your tendency is to feel...
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Out of control. I don’t like it as I don’t feel level headed. I need to be smart about this.
Desperate. I really hope this works out because I don’t want to do this any longer. I think he’s the “one”.
Unworthy. Not sure why a guy would really like me like that. I’d rather be his friend...it’s easier.
Fearful. The last time I felt this way I got hurt so why should this be any different.
Unimportant. I am going to continue to make him feel good so he’ll continue to like me. It’s easy to get guys to like me as long as I don’t rock the boat and say things he doesn’t like.
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On your first date, you typically wear...
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Work outfits such as blazers, pants and suits. I don’t have time to change when running to a date after work.
Something conservative. I need to get to know him better and be totally interested in him for me to show that sexy side of me.
Casual attire like jeans and a T-shirt. I want to be comfortable and don’t see the point in “dressing up” for a date when a dress and heels are not “me.”
Clothes that are more covered. I like big sweaters that I can wrap myself in, high-neck shirts or turtlenecks and baggier pants that I can be comfortable in.
Something very put together and polished. I put a lot of thought into what to wear and care very much about looking and feeling attractive to a man.
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When you are at a public place or social gathering, you tend to...
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Run the show. I organize where to go and what to do. I tend to focus on orchestrating a nice night out and don’t really pay attention to being open to talking with men.
Be very selective with whom I will talk and flirt with. I only show interest and pay attention to guys who have potential or am attracted to.
I feel funny or embarrassed flirting and turning up sexual energy around men.
Look at and talk to just my girlfriends. I would rather sit at a table with my friends in a corner than at a bar with men.
Focused and attentive to men. I enjoy talking to men and making them feel important.
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Your communication style with men on a date tends to be...
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Looking for assurance. I sniff too early for reassurance that my growing intimate feelings are mutual, or that a guy wants a relationship so I can control the situation.
Like an interview. I ask a lot of questions making sure he is the right candidate for me.
Very factual. I would rather talk about fun and interesting facts rather than personal stories or feelings.
Very guarded. I don’t want the man to know too much about me and I will only divulge small, safe things when asked. Men have a difficult time feeling or reading me.
Inquisitive. I usually end up in conversations with men where I am a great listener, offer advice and are supportive.
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Which description best describes what you think your body language is like around men?
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Mannerisms are harsh, quick, tense and fast paced.
I tend to have a serious or “bitchy” look on my face. Men have told me that I am intimidating.
I tend to slouch my shoulders and really not into touch with my body or sensuality. I never wear heels and are more shuffling around in my flip flops or sneakers.
There is a stiffness to my body language, which sends the signal that I am closed off and reserved. I often look down and fold my arms.
I am highly observant of others. I find myself constantly looking around and reading the environment and others but not usually aware of myself necessarily. I actually can mirror men’s body language to make them feel comfortable.
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What typically happens after your first date?
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I usually have to ask the men out again or throw out the first text after the first date.
I only go out with men the second time if I really feel chemistry and see a future with them.
I almost never get asked out again after the first date.
I may get asked out for the second date but then men disappear after that.
I almost always get asked out again.
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What phases in conversations do you find difficult the most?
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Meaningful Connection: your ability to really connect where they want to see you again and follow up.
Engagement: keeping it going, being engaging and creating attraction because you are always asking questions like an interview.
Sustainability: keeping it going, being engaging and creating attraction because you get caught up in facts rather than sharing personal stories.
Initiation: approaching someone or being approached.
I don’t have any challenges when it comes to initiating, engaging and connecting in conversations as long as the man is driving the conversation.
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When I’m talking to a man, I tend to...
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Argue or debate men to prove that I am intelligent. I don’t want a man just to like me for my looks. I am smart and capable too!
Get in my head a lot and go in and out of being present.
Keep things on a surface level. I like to talk about hot topics and factual stuff that is interesting.
Not know what to say and freeze up. I’d rather not engage in conversations.
Be a great listener and make others feel good. I’d rather share less about myself and focus on the man.
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You are sitting at a bar and a man is looking at you with interest. Your typical reaction is to...
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Say hello to him with a firm handshake as I introduce myself.
Discern whether or not I am attracted to him. If I am, I will send signals that I am open to talking but he needs to be man enough to take the lead. I will never make the first move. If not, I will look away...I don’t want to waste time if he’s not someone of interest.
Greet him and start shooting the breeze with him. I usually have no idea and don’t think that men are attracted to me and flirting is non-existent.
Not even see that a man is looking at me. I have no awareness that men check me out.
Catch his eye and flirt back. I love getting attention from a men.
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When you look back at the patterns in previous relationships, you notice that...
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I always end up with these weak or “beta” guys who are not my equal or who I take care of. It’s hard to find a man who is at the same financial bracket as me and I usually am the breadwinner.
I tend to have a “bad picker” and generally feel there are no good men out there. Dating is a big waste of time
I don’t have enough experience in relationships to have a pattern. I haven’t dated someone more than a couple of months.
I have been hurt a lot and have experienced some abusive relationships. I avoid intimacy in fear of getting hurt again. I don’t feel I am good enough.
I have difficulties setting boundaries and usually put men’s needs before mine. I tend to give away my personal value by doing too much, too soon and too fast and end up in a lopsided relationship where it’s all about him.
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When it come to flirting...
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Men usually don’t comment or make me feel sexy. I tend to use sex as a way to feel feminine and attended to.
I will only turn it on when I really like someone. I am comfortable in my femininity and flirting can be fun with the right guy.
I don’t know how to flirt. I find it weird and fake. I am not comfortable in my sexuality.
I am scared to show that side of me when I first meet someone. I don’t want to give a man the wrong impression.
I enjoy flirting and love the attention it brings. Men often tell me how hot I am and they love the way I look.
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What is your name
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