LAM Application

Registration Form for
Love After Marriage Intensive Workshop
at La Bac Estate
October 2023

Instructions:

To register for LAM completing this participant application is necessary for both the husband and wife. There will be sections of the application where each spouse will answer questions independently of each other.
Please don't answer for your spouse.
With both of you answering these questions, it helps our team to place you in a small group that best fits you. This application is confidential and only viewed by our team. Please be as accurate as you can while answering the following questions. Thank you!

Please note that the workshop dates/times are as follows:

Friday 20 October:         18:00-21:00
Saturday 21 October:     09:00-21:00
Sunday 22 October: 13:00-18:00
Wednesday 25 October: 18:00-21:00
Friday 27 October:         18:00-21:00
Saturday 28 October:     09:00-17:00

Venue:
Shofar Church
Le Bac Estate
Malmesbury Road
Paarl

The workshop fee is R600 per couple, payable to the following account:

NEDBANK
Shofar Wellington Events
Branch: 198 765
Account number: 1148153624
Type: cheque
Reference: LAM+Surname

Please send you proof of payment to gerhard.kotze@shofaronline.org

*If the workshop you want to attend is not listed here, please contact Gary_HilaryP@nothinghidden.com.

Joint Information
Husbands and wives, please fill out the information below together.

First NameLast Name / Surname

Street Address

Street Address Line 2

CityState / Province

Postal / Zip CodeCountry

If so, please provide details

His Survey
Husbands, please fill out the information below.

We want to learn to teach marriage workshops.We already have a good marriage but we always want to learn how to make it better.We need help to make our marriage better.We’re trying to save our marriage from divorce.My spouse wants me to attend.I don't know why.

I feel comfortable talking with God about my problems but not with people.I am willing to open up and share with people if I feel safe.I want to learn to be more open and vulnerable and create safe relationships.I have a high value for transparency and vulnerability, and I don’t keep any secrets from my spouse.I am unwilling to share certain parts of my life with others.

I love God but I sometimes struggle in my spiritual life.I don’t really know God but I would like to.I love God and currently have a close relationship with Him.I know about God but don’t have much of a relationship with Him.I don’t want a relationship with God.

I feel hopeless and alone most of the time.I feel closer to friends and family than my spouse.I love my spouse but we have some major issues to work through.I love my spouse but we could definitely be closer.I love my spouse and we both feel well connected.

I strongly desire to do this.I'm completely willing.I'm willing but I have some apprehension.I don’t want to but I'm willing.I don't want to at this time.

The structure of LAM requires that we choose one couple to co-facilitate each small group of 3 or 4 couples during the workshop. We choose the facilitators based on the surveys and the Lord's leading. If we choose you, it is because we feel that you are the best choice for your group. As co-facilitator, you and your spouse will be able to wholeheartedly go after your breakthrough while facilitating. By leading your group with your own openness and vulnerability, your example will lead the rest of the group to their breakthroughs.

* If you are chosen, there will be a Facilitators Meeting before we begin the workshop to prepare you and pray over you.

I would be willing, but I'm a bit hesitant.I love to facilitate people to hear from the Lord and support them.I love to teach and lead people so I would like to facilitate.I love to encourage and strengthen people so I would like to facilitate.People seem to naturally open up to me and I am a good listener, so I would like to facilitate.I don't want to facilitate at this time.

Her Application
Wives, please fill out the information below.

I love God but I sometimes struggle in my spiritual life.I don’t really know God but I would like to.I love God and currently have a close relationship with Him.I know God but don’t have much of a relationship with Him.I don’t want a relationship with God.

I strongly desire to do this.I'm completely willing.I'm willing but I have some apprehension.I don’t want to but I'm willing.I don't want to at this time.

* If you are chosen, there will be a Facilitators Meeting 45 minutes before we begin the workshop to prepare you and pray over you.

Disclaimer:

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