Eight Keys of Marriage Growth Quiz
Find out which of the Eight Keys of Marriage Growth may need some work in your marriage and get occasional updates from Jessica Short. Just enter your name and email address below! Quiz taken from Rhythms of Relationship: A Guide for Creating Purposeful Patterns to Strengthen Your Marriage by Jessica Short.
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COMMUNICATION
This refers to communication between you and your spouse, especially in quality, frequency, and type.
We usually understand each other when we communicate.
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We communicate regularly.
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Communication is important in our relationship.
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We are on the same page with when and how we communicate.
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We know each other's communication styles.
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VALUES & GOALS
This includes your shared short-term and long-term goals, as well as what you value in life.
We have identified our shared values and goals.
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We talk about our values and goals regularly.
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We are on the same page with our values and goals.
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We have an action plan to pursue our goals.
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We periodically reevaluate our goals.
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FINANCES
This includes how you spend your money, your financial plan, budgeting, and the degree to which you agree on financial matters.
We have identified financial goals.
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We talk about our finances regularly.
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Finances are important in our relationship.
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We are on the same page with our finances.
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We have a plan for how to use our shared finances and agree on if and/or how to maintain private funds.
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COMMUNITY
This includes your group of family, friends, coworkers, church members, etc. and your involvement with them.
We know who our community is.
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We interact with our community regularly.
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Community is important in our relationship.
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We are on the same page about our community.
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We agree on how much time to spend with our community.
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FAITH & SPIRITUALITY
This includes your belief systems and the degree to which your faith and spirituality impact your lifestyle. If you would rather apply this to your overall worldview or approach to life, please adjust each aspect to your needs.
We understand each other's spiritual beliefs.
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We talk about faith regularly.
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Faith is important in our relationship.
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We are on the same page about key spiritual beliefs.
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We agree on how to live out our faith.
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ROMANCE & INTIMACY
This includes what you consider to be "romance," your dating life, and sex life.
We spend a similar amount of effort on being romantic with each other.
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We talk regularly about romance and intimacy.
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Romance is important in our relationship.
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We are on the same page about what "being romantic" means.
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We make time for sexual intimacy with each other.
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RESPONSIBILITIES
This includes things like chores, paying bills, and recurring maintenance items.
We understand who manages each responsibility.
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We talk about responsibilities regularly.
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Managing responsibilities is important in our relationship.
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We are on the same page about responsibilities.
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We agree on how we divide our responsibilities.
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REST & RECREATION
This includes things like hobbies, vacations, and how you spend your free time both together and separately.
We have activities we like to do together.
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We each have enough time to recharge by ourselves.
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Rest and recreation are important in our relationship.
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We are on the same page about what it means to rest.
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We agree on how much time should be spent on rest and recreation.
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