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example@example.com
Age
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Current Relationship Status (check all that apply)
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Divorced
Widow
Never been married
Separated from current spouse
Current City and State
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How do you meet people to date?
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Dating apps
Through friends
At bars
At church
Traveling out of state
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Non-negotiables! When looking for a solid partner, somebody who you want to spend the rest of your life with, we have to identify OUR non-negotiables. What are things you are not wiling to compromise? What kind of person do you want to spend the rest of your life with? When filling this out, try to not think of a specific person, just your ideal partner. Click the six statements that stand out to you the most (we can't have it all ladies).
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I want somebody who is attractive
I want somebody who cares about their physical shape
I want a good balance of sexual chemistry but not crazy, kinky stuff
I want somebody who is somewhat close to my age
I want somebody who is available for a serious relationship
I want somebody with stable mental health
I want somebody who is a reasonable height to me
I want somebody who owns their own home
I would love somebody with vacation homes
I want somebody who is not a drug user
I want somebody who drinks, but is responsible most of the time
I want somebody who likes going to parties
It is important to me that somebody practices regular religion religion
I want somebody who I have leisure interests in common with
I want a guy who knows and enjoys sports
I want somebody who likes to travel
A solid education is important to me
I do not want somebody with a major criminal record
It is important to me that the person has a steady job
I want somebody with a decent sexual background, but who is not a whore
Extend family is important, but I don't want to have to spend all my time with their family
It is very important to me that my friends approve of him.
I love kids, but I don't know if I want to raise their kids.
I want somebody who has a good variety of friends
I want somebody who values my role as a woman in the family (ex: job, taking care of children, household activities)
I want somebody who dresses his age, but still somewhat trendy
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Pick a Man!
For the next section, think about a specific man who you are dating or considering to date. Answer the next questions in this section about that specific man.
What do you think of this person?
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I should marry him
I should date and take my time to learn more about him
I should only have fun with him during the day or night, nothing serious
I should only hook up with him at night
I should stay the hell away from him
What is this person's first name?
Looks
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Cannot take in public
Can take in public at night
Can take in public, but does not stand out
Nice looking
Gorgeous
Relationship Status
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Still married
Been married multiple times
Married once, divorced once
Never been married
Widowed
Where does this person currently reside?
Lives with spouse
Lives with extended family or at a friend's house
Rents an apartment
Rents a home
Owns a home
Describe his sexuality
He does not have a lot of interest in sex
He has suggested a three some before
He wants to have sex but very traditional, nothing experimental
He talks about sex all the time with me and wants to do super kinky things
He wants to have sex and open for trying new things within reason
What is the kid status for this person?
Has kids, but no custody
Has kids full time
Has kids partial time
No kids
Has grown kids who live outside the home on their own
What is this person's relationship with their extended family?
Has sued family at some point
Does not talk to family at all
Talks to family all the time
Talks to family all the time, but doesn't expect you to
Talks to family occasionally
What is their highest level of education?
GED
High school graduate
Some colleges or vo-tech degree
Graduate college
Advanced professional degree
What is this person's leisure activities like?
No leisure, sits at home most of the time
Leisure, but nothing in common with you
One similar leisure activity as you
Two similar leisure activities as you
More than two leisure activities in common with you
What is this person's use of drugs?
Frequent use of illegal drugs
Frequent use of legal drugs
Occasional illegal drug use
Occasional legal drug use
No drug use
How is this person's physical shape?
Doesn't work out at all and overweight
Works out all the time, obsessed with body
Works out occasionally
Doesn't need to work out, naturally good body
Works out on a regular basis but not consumed with their body
What is this person's use of alcohol?
Does not drink
Drinks where others have to take care of them
Drinks frequently, controls self, mostly without you
Drinks frequently, controls self, mostly with you
Drinks mostly for social reasons, mostly with you, controls self, and a "happy" drunk
What is this person's relationship like with their friends?
Has less than two close friends
Parties or hangs out with friends all the time
Has less than five close friends
Has more than five close friends
Has multiple groups of friends
What is this person's party personality?
Doesn't want to go to any party
Goes to parties but doesn't drink and complains
Goes to parties, drinks, but wants to come home early
Goes to parties, drinks and stays to the end (even without you there)
Goes to parties and leaves when you are both ready
How is this person's height?
Shorter than you
Same height as you
Slightly taller (0-5 inches)
Over a foot taller
Approximately 6-12 inches taller
What is their job status?
No job
Part time job
Full time job but been fired multiple times
Same job for less than five years or primary income from family/trust fund
Same job for more than five years
What is this person's age?
Twenty years younger or older than you
15-20 years age difference
10-14 years age difference
5-9 years age difference
Less than five years age difference
What is their status with vacation homes?
No vacation homes
Vacation trailer
Access to a vacation home, owned by extended family
Owns own vacation home
Owns multiple vacation homes
How is their spirituality?
Satanic
Atheist or agnostic
Practices regularly, judges other frequently, somewhat of a hypocrit
Believes but does not practice
Practices regularly
What is their preference for travel?
Never wants to travel
Primarily travels with friends in the US
Travels with family and friends in the US
Travels in or outside the US 1-2 times per year
Travels in or outside the US at least 3 times per year
Criminal Background
Still in jail
Criminal record
Been in jail, but over ten years ago
Never been in jail, but multiple tickets or law suits
Clean record (besides a few speeding or parking tickets)
What is this person's interest in sports?
Hates sports and will not watch sports
Will watch sports, but has no idea what's going on
Watches sports constantly
Will watch sports, but he's a fair weather fan
Watches his favorite teams when playing and a few others
What do your friends think of this person?
Most of them hate this person
You won't let your friends meet this person
At least half of them hate this person
None of them hate this person, but they don't really want to hang out with this person either
They all like the person and want to hang out with this person
Sexual Activity Background
Been with many partners, at least one of your friends
Virgin or only with previous spouse
Been with many people, multiple one night stands, but none of your friends
Been with several people and a few one night stands
Been with a few people, less than 2 one night stands
What is his style like?
He dresses like he probably did in high school
He dresses like a current high schooler
He dresses somewhat nerdy
He dresses like most men his age
He dresses trendy, but still age appropriate
Mental Health
Has been in a mental hospital before at least over night
Medication only
Medication and counseling regularly
In counseling, no medication
No medication or counseling
Family Values
He thinks the woman's role is to make all the money, he wants a sugar momma
He thinks the woman's role is to stay home and to not be a part of any family decision making
He is ok with the woman working, but also thinks the woman needs to do most of the things around the home.
He wants you to stay home and wants you to be part of family decisions
He agrees that the woman's role is just as valuable as his role and that all decisions needs to be done together, shares household roles
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