Love & Support Survey
What is your gender?
Male
Non-binary
Female
Prefer not to say
Do you know your personality type?
Yes
I'm still sorting between several options
No
I prefer not to say
What is your personality type?
INFJ
INFP
INTJ
INTP
ENFJ
ENFP
ENTJ
ENTP
ISFJ
ISFP
ISTJ
ISTP
ESFJ
ESFP
ESTJ
ESTP
Prefer not to say
Unsure
If you know the way you receive love, which of the following best fits?
Quality time
Physical affection
Acts of service
Words of affirmation
Gifts
I'm not sure yet
Do you feel like one of the above choices really encapsulates (describes) the way you receive love best? Or do you feel like it's "not enough"?
Yes
I'm not sure
No
Is it easy for you to offer emotional support and affirmation?
Yes
I'm not sure
No
Is it natural for you to want to "fix" someone's struggles with logical solutions?
Yes
I'm not sure
No
Is it easy for you to share your feelings with a loved one?
Yes
I'm not sure
No
Is it easy for you to take charge and handle things when someone you love is going through a rough time?
Yes
I'm not sure
No
How do you feel when someone gives you a gift?
I love it!
I hate it
It's awkward, but I appreciate it
It's okay, but I'd prefer something intangible
Do you show your love more through actions or words?
Actions
Both equally
Words
I'm not sure
Does physical affection make you feel loved?
Yes
Sometimes
No
Often
Rarely
How do you feel about compliments?
I love them!
I don't like them
I like them most of the time
I'm not sure/It depends
I'm suspicious of them in general
Which makes a bigger impact on you?
When someone quietly listens to me without judgment and gives me space to be whoever I am
When someone interacts with me, shares similar experiences, and affirms and verbally supports me emotionally
I'm not sure/It depends
Which do you like more?
When someone tries to lift my mood and bring an aura of positivity and joy to my life
When someone meets me in a dark place and helps me explore more negative and complicated feelings
I'm not sure/It depends
When do your feelings for someone you love feel the most vibrant, intense, and rich?
When I'm alone thinking about them on my own
When I'm with them, interacting with them
I'm not sure/It depends
Which of these best describes how you show love?
Troubleshooting/giving constructive advice
Showing someone a good experience
Empathy and emotional support
Offering practical assistance
Commemorating favorite memories
Giving someone space to be "real" and express good/bad/messy emotions
Sharing insights and patterns to guide and mentor
Sharing possibilities and inspiring with ideas
Which type of support tends to feel not "good enough" for you when others give it to you?
When someone gives you advice
When someone tries to show you a good time
When someone hugs you
When someone offers hands-on practical support
When someone gives you an insight they had about you
When someone tries to help you explore the real, sometimes messy feelings you're going through
When someone shares a possibility with you
When someone reminds you of times you've overcome or succeeded or been happy in the past
What 3 things make you feel the most loved (if you know them)?
What 3 things do you do to show love (if you know them)?
Do you have any other thoughts you'd like to share?
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