AM I SEX ADDICTED?

  • AM I SEX ADDICTED?

    Be honest in your answers — they allow me to better understand your situation and customize our approach for your free strategy call. Once you've reviewed your score, take the next step by scheduling your call. I’m here to support you in finding the right path toward meaningful, lasting change in your life, and I’m excited to begin this journey with you.
  • 1. Were you sexually abused as a child or adolescent?
  • 2. Did your parents have trouble with sexual behavior?
  • 3. Do you often find yourself preoccupied with sexual thoughts?
  • 4. Do you feel that your sexual behavior is not normal?
  • 5. Do you ever feel bad about your sexual behavior?
  • 6. Has your sexual behavior ever created problems for you and your family?
  • 7. Have you ever sought help for sexual behavior?
  • 8. Has anyone been hurt emotionally because of your sexual behavior?
  • 9. Are any of your sexual activities against the law?
  • 10. Have you made efforts to quit a type of sexual activity and failed? Like dating apps and pornography?
  • 11. Do you hide some of your sexual behaviors from others?
  • 12. Have you attempted to stop a sexual behavior you find addictive?
  • 13. Have you felt inferior or degraded by your sexual behaviors?
  • 14. When you have sex, do you feel depressed afterwards?
  • 15. Do you feel controlled by your sexual desire or fantasies?
  • 16. Have important parts of your life been neglected because you were spending too much time on sex?
  • 17. Do you ever think your sexual desire is stronger than your will power?
  • 18. Is sex all you think about?
  • 19. Has sex (or romantic fantasies) been a way for you to escape your problems?
  • 20. Has sex become the more important than your work, marriage, relationships, health, and finances?
  • 21. Are you in crisis over sexual matters?
  • 22. The internet has created sexual problems for me.
  • 23. I spend too much time online for sexual pleasure.
  • 24. I have purchased services online for erotic purposes .
  • 25. I have used the internet to make romantic or erotic connections with people online.
  • 26. People in my life have been upset about my sexual activities online.
  • 27. I have attempted to stop my online sexual behaviors.
  • 28. I have subscribed to or regularly purchased or rented sexually explicit materials.
  • 29. I have been sexual with minors.
  • 30. I have spent considerable time and money on strip clubs, adult bookstores and movie houses.
  • 31. I have engaged prostitutes and escorts to satisfy my sexual needs.
  • 32. I spend more than 20 hours weekly surfing pornography online.
  • 33. I have used online pornography even when there was considerable risk of being caught by family?
  • 34. I have regularly purchased romantic novels or sexually explicit magazines.
  • 35. I have stayed in romantic relationships after they became emotionally abusive.
  • 36. I have traded sex for money or gifts.
  • 37. I have maintained multiple romantic or sexual relationships at the same time.
  • 38. After sexually acting out, I sometimes refrain from all sex for a significant period.
  • 39. I have regularly engaged in sadomasochistic behavior.
  • 40. I visit sexual bath-houses, sex clubs or video/bookstores as part of my regular sexual activity.
  • 41. I have engaged in unsafe or “risky” sex even though I knew it could cause me harm.
  • 42. I have cruised public restrooms, rest areas or parks looking for sex with strangers.
  • 43. I believe casual or anonymous sex has kept me from having more long-term intimate relationships.
  • 44. My sexual behavior has put me at risk for arrest for lewd conduct or public indecency.
  • 45. I have been paid for sex.

  • Congratulations on completing these deep and thought-provoking questions.

    You might feel overwhelmed or uncomfortable facing some of these truths, but recognizing them is a crucial step toward freeing yourself from this addiction.

    Together, we will use this awareness as a foundation to create real, lasting change.

    Your answers give me valuable insight into where you are right now with your sex addiction.

    I'm grateful you took the time to fill out this form — it shows your willingness to reflect on your journey and your hopes for a healthier, more fulfilling future.

    Starting today, you have the power to take control, break free from your compulsive behaviors, and fundamentally transform your life.

    Review your score results below, then schedule your FREE strategy call by answering a few more questions.

    Together, we can create a plan to help you regain control and embrace the positive change you deserve.

  • YOUR SCORE | ACADEMY OF LIFE CHANGE

    0-6 : It seems like you're looking to explore the possibility of having a sexual addiction, however it is unlikely that you are. It's important to understand that seeking help or information doesn't automatically suggest an addiction, but rather a proactive approach to understanding oneself better. It's commendable that you're open to self-reflection. If you have any specific concerns or questions, feel free to share, and I'll do my best to assist you.

     7-11 : You possbily have a sex addiction but may not be experiencing significant consequences at this time, but keep in mind sex addiction is progressive.You may be developing a sex addiction and be keenly aware if your sexual behaviors progress. It's important to acknowledge that recognizing the possibility of a sex addiction is a positive step towards addressing any concerns you may have regarding your behavior. Understanding that addiction can be progressive highlights the importance of seeking help and support early on. If you would like more information or resources on this topic, feel free to ask. Is there anything specific you would like to discuss or inquire about regarding sex addiction?

     12-20 : You likely have a sex addiction and areas of your life may be at risk. Some areas of your life may already be a bit unmanageable. It sounds like you're recognizing certain patterns in your behavior that are causing concern, particularly in relation to the possibility of a sex addiction and its impact on different aspects of your life. Seeking help through coaching or counseling could be a beneficial step in addressing these challenges and regaining control. If you need guidance on finding appropriate support services or have any questions about how to proceed, feel free to share, and I can offer assistance.

     21-30 : Your life is likely becoming a bit unmanageable as your sexual behavior is getting in the way.It seems that the consequences of your sexual behavior are starting to impact various areas of your life, such as work, family, or relationships, making it challenging to manage effectively. Seeking counseling, therapy, or coaching can offer valuable support in addressing and altering these behaviors before they escalate further. Taking proactive steps towards change is commendable, and I'm here to help if you're seeking advice on how to begin this process or locate appropriate resources.

     31-60: You are likey sex addicted. It sounds like you may be grappling with the challenges of sex addiction, which can often lead to feelings of secrecy, shame, and guilt. These emotions can indeed strain your career, family life, and relationships. Seeking support and guidance to navigate these complexities is a positive step forward. If you need assistance in finding resources for overcoming these obstacles or have any specific questions, feel free to reach out. Remember, you're not alone in this journey, and help is available.

    60+ : You are sex addicted and it could be quite severe. It seems that you're indicating a significant level of concern regarding a potential sex addiction that may be quite severe. Recognizing the progressive nature of addiction is crucial, and taking proactive steps to address it is essential. Seeking professional help and making substantial changes to your behavior can be instrumental in managing and overcoming this challenge. If you would like guidance on how to seek help or have any questions about the process of change, feel free to share, and I'm here to assist you.

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    I understand that this is a deeply personal experience, and our work together will be handled with the utmost respect and discretion.

    Your journey toward change is safe with me — everything we share will remain private, empowering you to be honest and open as we work toward your transformation.

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