Baby Dedication Conditions, Guidelines, & Application

Please read these conditions carefully before you complete the application form and consult us if you have any questions. Before reading more about Baby Dedication, we want to draw you your attention to our expectations, if you want your child to be dedicated at City of Hope Church.

1. It is important to be an attending member of a church. It need not necessarily be City of Hope Church, but you need to prove evidence of such membership and the contact details of the priest/minister or pastor of your church for verification. If you are not currently a member of a church, you must join City of Hope as a member and worship regularly with us for a period of six months before you can apply for the dedication of your child.

2. We usually have baby dedications 3 times a year, on designated dates at the 9amSunday Service. These dates are pre-set at the beginning of the year to follow the Baby Dedication Preparation Program .We do not ordinarily dedicate on random dates at the convenience of an applicant, unless there is good reason to do so.

3. You must agree to attend all sessions of the Baby Dedication Preparation Programme.

4. You must have an interview with the Pastor.

Guidelines 

Our Baby Blessing & Dedication is a public declaration of the parent or parents before God and man acknowledging with gratitude that the child is a gift from God.

Recognizing that as parents you need God's wisdom and help in raising your child and with His help you will do your best to set the example for this child to follow in the way of the LORD

Baby Blessing & Dedication at COH is a family time when parents publicly commit themselves to abiding by Biblical principles and raising their children according to God's standards. Not only are you dedicating your child to God, but you are also dedicating yourselves as parents to God.

Environment and Responsibilities

You are committing yourselves to maintaining a Christian home in which Christ is honoured and the Word of God is held in reverence. Christian parents are to do all they can to "set apart" their child to God until that child can make his or her own choice regarding a relationship with Jesus Christ.

The responsibilities God has entrusted to Christian parents include continuously praying for their children (Job 1:5), instructing them in the way of the Lord (Proverbs 22:6), setting a Godly example (Proverbs 20:7), and disciplining them as the Lord would discipline us (Proverbs 29:15,17; 13:24 These responsibilities can only be fulfilled in Christ's strength (Philippians 4:13

This is not baptism

The Baby Blessing & Dedication at COH does not involve baptism. We believe that baptism is meant to take place at a time when an individual makes a personal decision to follow Christ and is old enough to repent and confess Jesus publicly.

Conditions

Only a couple committed to Christ and married (a man and a woman) or a Single Parent committed to Christ and not living with someone may participate in the ceremony. Parents who have not placed their faith in Jesus Christ as Savior and Lord will be unable to submit their children to God's will and His ways, because they themselves do not know the ways of the Lord. As a result, we must decline any requests to involve an unbelieving parent in the dedication of a child.

As a parent, your devotion to God-or lack of it-will make a resounding impression on your child.

We believe that unmarried parents living together do not set a Christ-like example. Therefore, unmarried parents will be advised to separate or wait until they are married to dedicate their child.

A believing parent may dedicate a child independently of an unbelieving spouse. Single parents who dedicate their children may not have boyfriends or girlfriends present with them on the platform. We recognize that not every parent is committed to living a Christ-centered lifestyle. However, the Pastoral staff at COH will bless every child that is brought to the office.

 

Frequently Asked Questions

Why should I dedicate my child?

The Bible provides an example for us in that Mary and Joseph took baby Jesus to the temple to be dedicated to God. As followers of Christ, we also should want to make the public declaration to our family, and our church. It is invaluable to be able to tell your children as they are growing up that they belong to Jesus and that you have asked God to use them in a formal declaration.

Where in the Scripture does it say to dedicate your child?

Scripture does not mention anything about dedication of children; however, Hannah dedicated her son Samuel to the Lord (1 Samuel 1:27, 28

Jesus was dedicated to the Lord as a baby (Luke 2:22) and baptized as an adult (Matthew 3:13-17

In Mark 10:11-13 we read: "People were bringing little children to Jesus to have Him touch them, but the disciples rebuked them. When Jesus saw this, He was indignant.He said to them, 'Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of God belongs to such as these. I tell you the truth; anyone who will not receive the kingdom of God like a little child will never enter it'. And He took the children in His arms, put His hand on them and blessed them." It is primarily from this passage of Scripture that we model our service of dedication and present a child to the Lord.

How old should the child be?

While there is no set age for a child to be presented to the Lord, children are generally presented within the first year or two of their life. Can I as a grandparent dedicate my grandchild?

Can I as grandparent dedicate my child?

Yes, if you have full custody and the child lives with you. The person making a public vow should be the child's caretaker who is responsible for the upbringing of the child.

What about godparents?

There is nothing mentioned in the Bible about Godparents. Parents themselves have the responsibility to raise up their children in the things of the Lord. Some parents may like to call witnesses to confirm their commitment.

These may be relatives or loved ones who know the parents well and who themselves are Christians and faithful to the Lord. While godparents are welcome to attend the ceremony, they may stand with the parents as witnesses.

What if I am a believer but my spouse is not?

If only one parent is a believer, the dedication of the child can be done if the unbelievingparent has given permission.

What if I am not married but I live with the child’s father/mother?

Dedication is actually a declaration (vow) where the parents dedicate themselves to bring their children up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord. It is very difficult tomake such a declaration when living in opposition to the Word of God. We are verysupportive of parents and do encourage them to make their union legal and thenproceed with the Baby Dedication.

What happens during the actual ceremony?

During the ceremony, the Pastor will ask the parents to bring their children to the platform. You will then stand in front the pastor and congregation and God, much like wedding vows, committing to raise your child in the Christian faith, that you will be his or her example, and that you will train your child in Christian disciplines: Prayer, Biblereading, church attendance, etc. You will then receive your child’s Dedication Certificateand be seated following the minister’s concluding prayer.

Should the child be dressed a special way?

No need. You can dress the child in whatever clothes you wish.

Can we take pictures during the ceremony?

Picture taking is permissible if done orderly and without interference. The vows beingmade at this time are important and serious to the Lord. Please make sure that your guests are aware that they should use great discretion when taking pictures during the ceremony.

What is expected of me after I dedicate my child?

Dedication is a pledge to cultivate a spiritual atmosphere in the home. One must never underestimate the incredible influence a parent has on the faith of their children. Infant dedication expresses the intention and faith of the parents to do everything they can to lead their child to salvation. It is a public pledge to circle the child with a positive environment that will nurture the child’s faith in God. Scripture tells us that we are to train a child in the way he should go (Proverbs 22:6). This includes meeting together regularly as Christians to spur one another on to love and good deeds (Hebrews 10:23-24). Dedication of children to God is a promise to model a Christian lifestyle to the children while worshipping with a church family regularly. This is important for the spiritual growth and development of the child and the family.In a sense, a Christian Dedication of a child is a dedication of the parents to be godly rolemodels. 2 Timothy 1:5 states, “When I call to remembrance the genuine faith that is in you which dwelt first in your grandmother Lois and your mother Eunice, adn I am persuaded is in you also.

 

 

Why do I need to meet these requirements and guidelines?

It is sad to see parents who go through the process of a baby dedication who have not even dedicated themselves to the Lord, much less their children. This makes a mockery of the whole event and it loses its significance. Therefore, we would expect that those parents who want to publicly dedicate their child to the Lord meet the requirements and guidelines stated above and below.

I meet the guidelines. What do I need to do to dedicate my child?

Complete and submit the registration form on the details included. Await confirmation from our pastoral staff to confirm your registration. You may need to meet with a minister for a scheduled appointment prior to the ceremony and for confirmation of the dedication date.

Should you have any questions, you may contact us on the details below.

 

Senior Pastor Chris Kleinsmith

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If you are dedicating more than one child, please complete application(s) accordingly