You can always press Enter⏎ to continue
Apply To Play
You are taking the first step in being considered to Play with Mistress Ashadar. Follow all directions and answer all questions clearly and thoroughly to receive a reply back.
47
Questions
START
1
Let’s break the ice! What’s your first and last name?
*
This field is required.
Previous
Next
Submit
Press
Enter
2
What is your email address?
*
This field is required.
This is how I will contact you.
Previous
Next
Submit
Press
Enter
3
What is your phone number?
*
This field is required.
No blocked, fake, or burner numbers. This is only for reference, I will not call or text unless agreed upon.
Previous
Next
Submit
Press
Enter
4
What is your age and gender?
*
This field is required.
Previous
Next
Submit
Press
Enter
5
Introduce yourself. Who are you outside of kink?
*
This field is required.
Example: work, hobbies, favorite ways to unwind.
Previous
Next
Submit
Press
Enter
6
Have you served a Pro-Domme before?
*
This field is required.
Yes
No
Previous
Next
Submit
Press
Enter
7
Why do you want to Serve Me in particular?
*
This field is required.
It is good to be truthful.
Previous
Next
Submit
Press
Enter
8
What is your level of BDSM experience?
*
This field is required.
Be honest and do not overstate your experience or limits.
None
Some (Just getting started or infrequent play)
Medium (I engage with BDSM when I can)
High (Very experienced and frequent play)
Previous
Next
Submit
Press
Enter
9
What is your Kink History? You will list particular activities in a later question:
*
This field is required.
How did you first discovery your kinky side and how has it progressed over time?
Previous
Next
Submit
Press
Enter
10
Tell me about your Best and Worst BDSM experience. Explain why for both.
*
This field is required.
Your experiences matter to Me.
Previous
Next
Submit
Press
Enter
11
Which do you identify with?
*
This field is required.
Check all that apply:
Naturally Submissive- I thrive on taking orders and want complete guidance
Want to be made to Submit- Submission is not automatic and I need to be led or forced into it
Masochist- I show devotion by taking pain
Painslut- I love pain, please more pain
Feminization/Cross-dressing/ Sissy- I am not man enough for you so maybe I can be a good girl for you
Chore Whore- Put me to work cleaning, cooking and serving You
Peasant- I am far beneath You and need to be degraded like the lowly man I am
Pet- I have a specific animal I like to emulate
Fetishist- I am only interested in my specific fetish and will submit only as a means to an end
Roleplay- I have a specific role-play scenario I love
Object- I want to be a mindless object like a stool or table, no need to interact or acknowledge me
Not Sure- I am excited to learn and explore
Previous
Next
Submit
Press
Enter
12
Which demeanor(s) do you most enjoy?
*
This field is required.
Check all that apply:
Sensual
Merciless
Strict Discipline
Teasing
Sadistic
Motivating
Serious
Mean
Fun & Playful
Erotic
Sacred
Romantic
Humiliating & Degrading
Ritualistic
Previous
Next
Submit
Press
Enter
13
I learn best through:
*
This field is required.
Check all that apply:
Physical punishment
Reward/ flattery
Psychological punishment
Encouragement/ coaching
Financial punishment
Being ignored/ put in timeout
Previous
Next
Submit
Press
Enter
14
Session Interests:
What BDSM interests do you enjoy? YES please= your favorites. Curious/ Maybe interests will always be discussed first and slowly introduced if agreed upon. NO = hard limits that will never happen in session.
YES please!
Curious/Maybe
NO.
Restraints/ Bondage
Row 0, Column 0
Row 0, Column 1
Row 0, Column 2
Collar/ Leash
Row 1, Column 0
Row 1, Column 1
Row 1, Column 2
Handcuffs
Row 2, Column 0
Row 2, Column 1
Row 2, Column 2
Rope
Row 3, Column 0
Row 3, Column 1
Row 3, Column 2
Chains
Row 4, Column 0
Row 4, Column 1
Row 4, Column 2
Spreader Bar
Row 5, Column 0
Row 5, Column 1
Row 5, Column 2
Blind Fold
Row 6, Column 0
Row 6, Column 1
Row 6, Column 2
Mouth Gag
Row 7, Column 0
Row 7, Column 1
Row 7, Column 2
Power Exchange
Row 8, Column 0
Row 8, Column 1
Row 8, Column 2
Asian Fetish
Row 9, Column 0
Row 9, Column 1
Row 9, Column 2
CFNM
Row 10, Column 0
Row 10, Column 1
Row 10, Column 2
Slut Training
Row 11, Column 0
Row 11, Column 1
Row 11, Column 2
Service Training
Row 12, Column 0
Row 12, Column 1
Row 12, Column 2
Give Foot Massage
Row 13, Column 0
Row 13, Column 1
Row 13, Column 2
Give Back Massage
Row 14, Column 0
Row 14, Column 1
Row 14, Column 2
Serve You Tea
Row 15, Column 0
Row 15, Column 1
Row 15, Column 2
Dance/ Perform for You
Row 16, Column 0
Row 16, Column 1
Row 16, Column 2
Spanking
Row 17, Column 0
Row 17, Column 1
Row 17, Column 2
Flogging
Row 18, Column 0
Row 18, Column 1
Row 18, Column 2
Caning
Row 19, Column 0
Row 19, Column 1
Row 19, Column 2
Bastinado
Row 20, Column 0
Row 20, Column 1
Row 20, Column 2
Rubber Band Snapping
Row 21, Column 0
Row 21, Column 1
Row 21, Column 2
Face Slapping
Row 22, Column 0
Row 22, Column 1
Row 22, Column 2
Cock/ Ball Slapping
Row 23, Column 0
Row 23, Column 1
Row 23, Column 2
Sensation Play
Row 24, Column 0
Row 24, Column 1
Row 24, Column 2
Edge Play
Row 25, Column 0
Row 25, Column 1
Row 25, Column 2
Fear Play
Row 26, Column 0
Row 26, Column 1
Row 26, Column 2
Knife Play (no cutting)
Row 27, Column 0
Row 27, Column 1
Row 27, Column 2
Wax Play
Row 28, Column 0
Row 28, Column 1
Row 28, Column 2
Breath Play
Row 29, Column 0
Row 29, Column 1
Row 29, Column 2
Sensual Domination
Row 30, Column 0
Row 30, Column 1
Row 30, Column 2
Soft Fur/ Feathers
Row 31, Column 0
Row 31, Column 1
Row 31, Column 2
Electric Play/ Violet Wand
Row 32, Column 0
Row 32, Column 1
Row 32, Column 2
Electric Shock/ Cattle Prod
Row 33, Column 0
Row 33, Column 1
Row 33, Column 2
Nipple Play/ Sensation
Row 34, Column 0
Row 34, Column 1
Row 34, Column 2
Nipple Clamps
Row 35, Column 0
Row 35, Column 1
Row 35, Column 2
Pinwheel
Row 36, Column 0
Row 36, Column 1
Row 36, Column 2
Nibbles/ Bites
Row 37, Column 0
Row 37, Column 1
Row 37, Column 2
Sucking Dildo
Row 38, Column 0
Row 38, Column 1
Row 38, Column 2
Face Fucking
Row 39, Column 0
Row 39, Column 1
Row 39, Column 2
Gagging/ Choking
Row 40, Column 0
Row 40, Column 1
Row 40, Column 2
Face Spitting
Row 41, Column 0
Row 41, Column 1
Row 41, Column 2
Spit in Mouth
Row 42, Column 0
Row 42, Column 1
Row 42, Column 2
Sensory Deprivation
Row 43, Column 0
Row 43, Column 1
Row 43, Column 2
Mummification
Row 44, Column 0
Row 44, Column 1
Row 44, Column 2
Sensory Overload
Row 45, Column 0
Row 45, Column 1
Row 45, Column 2
Tickling
Row 46, Column 0
Row 46, Column 1
Row 46, Column 2
Rough Handling
Row 47, Column 0
Row 47, Column 1
Row 47, Column 2
Trampling
Row 48, Column 0
Row 48, Column 1
Row 48, Column 2
Medical Fetish
Row 49, Column 0
Row 49, Column 1
Row 49, Column 2
Sploshing
Row 50, Column 0
Row 50, Column 1
Row 50, Column 2
Pantyhose Worship
Row 51, Column 0
Row 51, Column 1
Row 51, Column 2
Leg Worship
Row 52, Column 0
Row 52, Column 1
Row 52, Column 2
Clean Feet Worship
Row 53, Column 0
Row 53, Column 1
Row 53, Column 2
Smelly Feet Worship
Row 54, Column 0
Row 54, Column 1
Row 54, Column 2
High Heel Worship
Row 55, Column 0
Row 55, Column 1
Row 55, Column 2
Boot Worship
Row 56, Column 0
Row 56, Column 1
Row 56, Column 2
Underarm Smelling
Row 57, Column 0
Row 57, Column 1
Row 57, Column 2
Role Play
Row 58, Column 0
Row 58, Column 1
Row 58, Column 2
Human Furniture
Row 59, Column 0
Row 59, Column 1
Row 59, Column 2
Objectification
Row 60, Column 0
Row 60, Column 1
Row 60, Column 2
Abandonment/ Ignoring
Row 61, Column 0
Row 61, Column 1
Row 61, Column 2
Pet Play
Row 62, Column 0
Row 62, Column 1
Row 62, Column 2
Age Play
Row 63, Column 0
Row 63, Column 1
Row 63, Column 2
Mommy Domme
Row 64, Column 0
Row 64, Column 1
Row 64, Column 2
Mommy/ Aunty Fetish
Row 65, Column 0
Row 65, Column 1
Row 65, Column 2
Sissification/ Crossdressing
Row 66, Column 0
Row 66, Column 1
Row 66, Column 2
Forced Feminization
Row 67, Column 0
Row 67, Column 1
Row 67, Column 2
Forced Health
Row 68, Column 0
Row 68, Column 1
Row 68, Column 2
Forced Fitness
Row 69, Column 0
Row 69, Column 1
Row 69, Column 2
MindFuck
Row 70, Column 0
Row 70, Column 1
Row 70, Column 2
Hypnosis/ Neurolinguistic Programing
Row 71, Column 0
Row 71, Column 1
Row 71, Column 2
Forced Behavior Modification
Row 72, Column 0
Row 72, Column 1
Row 72, Column 2
Emotional Sadism
Row 73, Column 0
Row 73, Column 1
Row 73, Column 2
Consensual Non Consent
Row 74, Column 0
Row 74, Column 1
Row 74, Column 2
Humiliation
Row 75, Column 0
Row 75, Column 1
Row 75, Column 2
Verbal Abuse
Row 76, Column 0
Row 76, Column 1
Row 76, Column 2
Feeling Silly/ Fun
Row 77, Column 0
Row 77, Column 1
Row 77, Column 2
Feeling Slutty/ Sloppy
Row 78, Column 0
Row 78, Column 1
Row 78, Column 2
Feeling Used
Row 79, Column 0
Row 79, Column 1
Row 79, Column 2
Feeling Punished
Row 80, Column 0
Row 80, Column 1
Row 80, Column 2
Feeling Stupid/ Dumb/ Can't get it right
Row 81, Column 0
Row 81, Column 1
Row 81, Column 2
Feeling Bad/ Wrong
Row 82, Column 0
Row 82, Column 1
Row 82, Column 2
CBT
Row 83, Column 0
Row 83, Column 1
Row 83, Column 2
Sounding
Row 84, Column 0
Row 84, Column 1
Row 84, Column 2
Edging
Row 85, Column 0
Row 85, Column 1
Row 85, Column 2
Chastity/ Orgasm Control
Row 86, Column 0
Row 86, Column 1
Row 86, Column 2
Cock Cage
Row 87, Column 0
Row 87, Column 1
Row 87, Column 2
Cock Humiliation
Row 88, Column 0
Row 88, Column 1
Row 88, Column 2
Restraints/ Bondage
Collar/ Leash
Handcuffs
Rope
Chains
Spreader Bar
Blind Fold
Mouth Gag
Power Exchange
Asian Fetish
CFNM
Slut Training
Service Training
Give Foot Massage
Give Back Massage
Serve You Tea
Dance/ Perform for You
Spanking
Flogging
Caning
Bastinado
Rubber Band Snapping
Face Slapping
Cock/ Ball Slapping
Sensation Play
Edge Play
Fear Play
Knife Play (no cutting)
Wax Play
Breath Play
Sensual Domination
Soft Fur/ Feathers
Electric Play/ Violet Wand
Electric Shock/ Cattle Prod
Nipple Play/ Sensation
Nipple Clamps
Pinwheel
Nibbles/ Bites
Sucking Dildo
Face Fucking
Gagging/ Choking
Face Spitting
Spit in Mouth
Sensory Deprivation
Mummification
Sensory Overload
Tickling
Rough Handling
Trampling
Medical Fetish
Sploshing
Pantyhose Worship
Leg Worship
Clean Feet Worship
Smelly Feet Worship
High Heel Worship
Boot Worship
Underarm Smelling
Role Play
Human Furniture
Objectification
Abandonment/ Ignoring
Pet Play
Age Play
Mommy Domme
Mommy/ Aunty Fetish
Sissification/ Crossdressing
Forced Feminization
Forced Health
Forced Fitness
MindFuck
Hypnosis/ Neurolinguistic Programing
Forced Behavior Modification
Emotional Sadism
Consensual Non Consent
Humiliation
Verbal Abuse
Feeling Silly/ Fun
Feeling Slutty/ Sloppy
Feeling Used
Feeling Punished
Feeling Stupid/ Dumb/ Can't get it right
Feeling Bad/ Wrong
CBT
Sounding
Edging
Chastity/ Orgasm Control
Cock Cage
Cock Humiliation
YES please!
Row 0, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 0, Column 1
NO.
Row 0, Column 2
YES please!
Row 1, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 1, Column 1
NO.
Row 1, Column 2
YES please!
Row 2, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 2, Column 1
NO.
Row 2, Column 2
YES please!
Row 3, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 3, Column 1
NO.
Row 3, Column 2
YES please!
Row 4, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 4, Column 1
NO.
Row 4, Column 2
YES please!
Row 5, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 5, Column 1
NO.
Row 5, Column 2
YES please!
Row 6, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 6, Column 1
NO.
Row 6, Column 2
YES please!
Row 7, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 7, Column 1
NO.
Row 7, Column 2
YES please!
Row 8, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 8, Column 1
NO.
Row 8, Column 2
YES please!
Row 9, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 9, Column 1
NO.
Row 9, Column 2
YES please!
Row 10, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 10, Column 1
NO.
Row 10, Column 2
YES please!
Row 11, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 11, Column 1
NO.
Row 11, Column 2
YES please!
Row 12, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 12, Column 1
NO.
Row 12, Column 2
YES please!
Row 13, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 13, Column 1
NO.
Row 13, Column 2
YES please!
Row 14, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 14, Column 1
NO.
Row 14, Column 2
YES please!
Row 15, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 15, Column 1
NO.
Row 15, Column 2
YES please!
Row 16, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 16, Column 1
NO.
Row 16, Column 2
YES please!
Row 17, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 17, Column 1
NO.
Row 17, Column 2
YES please!
Row 18, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 18, Column 1
NO.
Row 18, Column 2
YES please!
Row 19, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 19, Column 1
NO.
Row 19, Column 2
YES please!
Row 20, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 20, Column 1
NO.
Row 20, Column 2
YES please!
Row 21, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 21, Column 1
NO.
Row 21, Column 2
YES please!
Row 22, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 22, Column 1
NO.
Row 22, Column 2
YES please!
Row 23, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 23, Column 1
NO.
Row 23, Column 2
YES please!
Row 24, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 24, Column 1
NO.
Row 24, Column 2
YES please!
Row 25, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 25, Column 1
NO.
Row 25, Column 2
YES please!
Row 26, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 26, Column 1
NO.
Row 26, Column 2
YES please!
Row 27, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 27, Column 1
NO.
Row 27, Column 2
YES please!
Row 28, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 28, Column 1
NO.
Row 28, Column 2
YES please!
Row 29, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 29, Column 1
NO.
Row 29, Column 2
YES please!
Row 30, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 30, Column 1
NO.
Row 30, Column 2
YES please!
Row 31, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 31, Column 1
NO.
Row 31, Column 2
YES please!
Row 32, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 32, Column 1
NO.
Row 32, Column 2
YES please!
Row 33, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 33, Column 1
NO.
Row 33, Column 2
YES please!
Row 34, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 34, Column 1
NO.
Row 34, Column 2
YES please!
Row 35, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 35, Column 1
NO.
Row 35, Column 2
YES please!
Row 36, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 36, Column 1
NO.
Row 36, Column 2
YES please!
Row 37, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 37, Column 1
NO.
Row 37, Column 2
YES please!
Row 38, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 38, Column 1
NO.
Row 38, Column 2
YES please!
Row 39, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 39, Column 1
NO.
Row 39, Column 2
YES please!
Row 40, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 40, Column 1
NO.
Row 40, Column 2
YES please!
Row 41, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 41, Column 1
NO.
Row 41, Column 2
YES please!
Row 42, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 42, Column 1
NO.
Row 42, Column 2
YES please!
Row 43, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 43, Column 1
NO.
Row 43, Column 2
YES please!
Row 44, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 44, Column 1
NO.
Row 44, Column 2
YES please!
Row 45, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 45, Column 1
NO.
Row 45, Column 2
YES please!
Row 46, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 46, Column 1
NO.
Row 46, Column 2
YES please!
Row 47, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 47, Column 1
NO.
Row 47, Column 2
YES please!
Row 48, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 48, Column 1
NO.
Row 48, Column 2
YES please!
Row 49, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 49, Column 1
NO.
Row 49, Column 2
YES please!
Row 50, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 50, Column 1
NO.
Row 50, Column 2
YES please!
Row 51, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 51, Column 1
NO.
Row 51, Column 2
YES please!
Row 52, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 52, Column 1
NO.
Row 52, Column 2
YES please!
Row 53, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 53, Column 1
NO.
Row 53, Column 2
YES please!
Row 54, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 54, Column 1
NO.
Row 54, Column 2
YES please!
Row 55, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 55, Column 1
NO.
Row 55, Column 2
YES please!
Row 56, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 56, Column 1
NO.
Row 56, Column 2
YES please!
Row 57, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 57, Column 1
NO.
Row 57, Column 2
YES please!
Row 58, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 58, Column 1
NO.
Row 58, Column 2
YES please!
Row 59, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 59, Column 1
NO.
Row 59, Column 2
YES please!
Row 60, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 60, Column 1
NO.
Row 60, Column 2
YES please!
Row 61, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 61, Column 1
NO.
Row 61, Column 2
YES please!
Row 62, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 62, Column 1
NO.
Row 62, Column 2
YES please!
Row 63, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 63, Column 1
NO.
Row 63, Column 2
YES please!
Row 64, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 64, Column 1
NO.
Row 64, Column 2
YES please!
Row 65, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 65, Column 1
NO.
Row 65, Column 2
YES please!
Row 66, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 66, Column 1
NO.
Row 66, Column 2
YES please!
Row 67, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 67, Column 1
NO.
Row 67, Column 2
YES please!
Row 68, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 68, Column 1
NO.
Row 68, Column 2
YES please!
Row 69, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 69, Column 1
NO.
Row 69, Column 2
YES please!
Row 70, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 70, Column 1
NO.
Row 70, Column 2
YES please!
Row 71, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 71, Column 1
NO.
Row 71, Column 2
YES please!
Row 72, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 72, Column 1
NO.
Row 72, Column 2
YES please!
Row 73, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 73, Column 1
NO.
Row 73, Column 2
YES please!
Row 74, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 74, Column 1
NO.
Row 74, Column 2
YES please!
Row 75, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 75, Column 1
NO.
Row 75, Column 2
YES please!
Row 76, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 76, Column 1
NO.
Row 76, Column 2
YES please!
Row 77, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 77, Column 1
NO.
Row 77, Column 2
YES please!
Row 78, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 78, Column 1
NO.
Row 78, Column 2
YES please!
Row 79, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 79, Column 1
NO.
Row 79, Column 2
YES please!
Row 80, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 80, Column 1
NO.
Row 80, Column 2
YES please!
Row 81, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 81, Column 1
NO.
Row 81, Column 2
YES please!
Row 82, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 82, Column 1
NO.
Row 82, Column 2
YES please!
Row 83, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 83, Column 1
NO.
Row 83, Column 2
YES please!
Row 84, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 84, Column 1
NO.
Row 84, Column 2
YES please!
Row 85, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 85, Column 1
NO.
Row 85, Column 2
YES please!
Row 86, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 86, Column 1
NO.
Row 86, Column 2
YES please!
Row 87, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 87, Column 1
NO.
Row 87, Column 2
YES please!
Row 88, Column 0
Curious/Maybe
Row 88, Column 1
NO.
Row 88, Column 2
1
of 89
Previous
Next
Submit
Press
Enter
15
Session Interests:
*
This field is required.
What BDSM interests do you love or might be curious to try? Check all that apply:
Abandonment/ ignoring
Age play
Asian fetish
Bastinado
Bondage
Boot worship
Breath play
Cock cage
Caning
CBT
Chastity
Collar and leash
Crossdressing
CFNM
Discipline
Electric play/ Violet wand
Edging
Fear play
Foot Worship (clean)
Foot Worship (smelly)
Forced Behavior Modification
Forced Feminization
Forced Fitness
Forced Health
Henti
High heel worship
Human Furniture
Humiliation (light)
Humiliation (heavy)
Hypnosis/ NeuroLinguistic Programming
Impact Play
Leg Worship
Medical Fetish
Mean Boss/ Coach
MindFuck
Mommy/ Aunty Fetish
Mummification
Nipple Torture
Knife Play
Pantyhose Worship
Pet Play
Power Exchange
Role Play
Romantic Sadism
Sensory Deprivation
Sensory Overload
Sensual Domination
Sissification
Slut Training
Sounding
SPH
Sploshing
Tentacles
Tickle torture
Trampling
Underarm Smelling
Verbal Abuse
Wax play
Previous
Next
Submit
Press
Enter
16
Premium Session Interests:
*
This field is required.
Premium interested are unlocked at Mistress Ashadar's discretion. Available with additional tribute.
Body worship
Clothed smothering
Strap On Fantasy
FTT
Golden Showers
Forced Bi Fantasy
Forced Intox Fantasy
Forced Feeding (feederism)
Cucking
Ethical Financial Domination
Keyholding
Heavy/ Extreme Impact
Platinum Lifestyle Offerings
Shamanic BDSM
Chemical Submission
Corporal Absolution
Trauma Dearmoring
Kidnapping/ Break In
Erotic Domination
NONE
Other
Previous
Next
Submit
Press
Enter
17
Describe your selected session interests in as much detail as possible.
*
This field is required.
Domination does not involve sex or any unlawful acts. Do not ask for illegal solicitations, intimate touching, nudity, or sex. Do not ask for play involving animals, minors, switching, or fully scripted role play. Beyond this, let your fantasies run wild.
Previous
Next
Submit
Press
Enter
18
Clothing style request:
*
This field is required.
Please note if I do not own something you're dying to see Me wear, you may have to purchase it for Me.
Previous
Next
Submit
Press
Enter
19
How do you like to be addressed/ called during a session?
*
This field is required.
Examples: slave, submissive, slut, bad boy. Can also be specific name or phrase.
Previous
Next
Submit
Press
Enter
20
Desired level of pain:
*
This field is required.
Check all that apply:
No pain
Light pain
Moderate pain
Heavy pain
Previous
Next
Submit
Press
Enter
21
Limits for physical marks and bruises:
*
This field is required.
Check all that apply:
No marks at all
Light marks ok
Heavy marks ok
Only marks concealed under clothing
Visible marks please
I bruise easily
I bruise quickly (within an hour)
I am difficult to bruise
Previous
Next
Submit
Press
Enter
22
Hard limits, fears, or triggers: What sorts of activities, tasks, names, and/or situations are off-limits for you?
*
This field is required.
Examples: humiliation, being called a slave, piercing the skin.
Previous
Next
Submit
Press
Enter
23
Physical Health: Do you have any of the following injuries, medical considerations, or currently take the relevant medications?
*
This field is required.
Check all that apply:
Current injuries (bad back, rolled ankle)
Old injuries (old knee injury, shoulder that dislocates)
Past surgeries (hip replacement, knee repair)
Medical devices (pacemaker, hearing aid, insulin pump)
Blood sugar issues (diabetes, low blood sugar)
Positional issues (can't kneel/ stand/ have arms above head for too long)
High or Low blood pressure
Circulation issues
Fainting
NONE
Other
Previous
Next
Submit
Press
Enter
24
Mental Health: Do you have any of the following mental or psychological considerations?
*
This field is required.
Check all that apply:
Depression
Anxiety
Claustrophobia
Mental or emotional trauma
Sexual trauma
BDSM trauma (someone didn't stop, limits were disregarded)
NONE
Other
Previous
Next
Submit
Press
Enter
25
Medications: Do you currently take any of the following medications?
*
This field is required.
Check all that apply:
Blood thinners /blood pressure medication
Insulin
Antidepressants/ Anti-anxiety medication
NONE
Other
Previous
Next
Submit
Press
Enter
26
Health: If you selected any health issues above, please tell Me more about your relevant physical, mental or psychological considerations. Please also list your relevant medications:
*
This field is required.
Previous
Next
Submit
Press
Enter
27
Have you ever experienced post-session "drop"?
*
This field is required.
Check all that apply:
Mild drop
Never
Medium drop
No idea what "drop" is
Heavy drop
Previous
Next
Submit
Press
Enter
28
How many minutes of aftercare would you like to budget in our session? What kind of aftercare and post session integration feels good after a scene?
*
This field is required.
Examples: 10 minutes, wrapped in a blanket, head rubs, a simple hug.
Previous
Next
Submit
Press
Enter
29
References:
*
This field is required.
Please provide references from verifiable providers you've seen in the last 2 years (pro-Domme, escort, sensual massage, etc). If you have never seen a provider before, enter "NEW" and be prepared to submit further identification verification. If you do not wish to submit an ID with your application, you MUST submit 3 references. Be sure to include: 1) Name of Provider. 2) Provider's Website/Social Media links and email address. 3) Name they know you by.
Previous
Next
Submit
Press
Enter
30
How did you find Me?
*
This field is required.
Check all that apply:
Internet Search
Tryst
Backpage
X
Dickie Virgin
Loyal Fans
Word of Mouth
Discord
Instagram
Other
Previous
Next
Submit
Press
Enter
31
If you were referred by Word of Mouth, what is their first and last name or scene name?
*
This field is required.
Previous
Next
Submit
Press
Enter
32
If you found Me on LoyalFans, Discord or X, what is your username(s):
*
This field is required.
Previous
Next
Submit
Press
Enter
33
Which session type are you requesting:
*
This field is required.
Check all that apply:
Virtual Session
In Person- Denver
In Person- At a scheduled, upcoming Tour
In Person- Fly Me to you
In Person Request- Please tour my city
Previous
Next
Submit
Press
Enter
34
Virtual Session Request:
*
This field is required.
Check all that apply:
Happy Hour Virtual Session- 1 hour
Happy Hour Virtual Session- 2 hours
Happy Hour Virtual Session- 3 hours
Taste of Keyholding- weekend
Taste of Keyholding- week
Taste of Keyholding- month
BDSM coaching
Long Term Domination or Keyholding
Executive Men's Domme Advisor / The Domme Oracle
The Diamond Collar Club
Previous
Next
Submit
Press
Enter
35
In Person Denver Session Request:
*
This field is required.
Sessions of 2+ hours are highly recommended for a fully immersive experience, as pre-session negotiations and post-session aftercare typically take 5-15 minutes of the total time. Check all that apply:
In Person Dungeon Session- 1 hour
In Person Dungeon Session- 2 hour
In Person Dungeon Session- 3 hour
In Person Dungeon Session- 4 hour
Corporal Absolution- 1.5 hours
Corporal Absolution- 3 hours
Trauma Dearmoring- 1.5 hours
Trauma Dearmoring- 3 hours
Dinner and Domination Date Night- 4 hours
Dinner and Domination Date Night- 6 hours
Chemical Submission- 4 hours
Break In and/ or Kidnap Fantasy- 4 hours
Break In and/ or Kidnap Fantasy- 6 hours
A Torture of Mistresses Weekend Retreat- 2 day, 1 night
A Torture of Mistresses Weekend Retreat- 3 day, 2 night
Long Term Domination or Keyholding
Executive Men's Domme Advisor / The Domme Oracle
The Diamond Collar Club (By invitation only)
Previous
Next
Submit
Press
Enter
36
Scheduled Tour Session Request:
*
This field is required.
Touring fees are listed to help differentiate from non-tour pricing. Check all that apply:
Taste of Keyholding- weekend [$200]
Taste of Keyholding- week [$600]
Taste of Keyholding- month [$2200]
In Person Dungeon Session- 1 hour [$500]
In Person Dungeon Session- 2 hour [$1000]
In Person Dungeon Session- 3 hour [$1500]
In Person Dungeon Session- 4 hour [$2000]
Dinner and Domination- 4 hours [$2000]
Dinner and Domination- 6 hours [$3000]
Corporal Absolution- 1.5 hours [$900]
Corporal Absolution- 3 hours [$1800]
Trauma Dearmoring- 1.5 hours [$900]
Trauma Dearmoring- 3 hours [$1800]
Break In and/ or Kidnap Fantasy- 4 hours [$3600]
Break In and/ or Kidnap Fantasy- 6 hours [$5600]
Long Term Domination or Keyholding [starts at $1500/mo]
Executive Men's Domme Advisor / The Domme Oracle [starts at $2500/mo]
The Diamond Collar Club [starts at $5000/mo, by invitation only]
Other
Previous
Next
Submit
Press
Enter
37
Fly Me To You session request:
*
This field is required.
FMTY fees are listed to help differentiate from local pricing. I only fly to you for a minimum of $5,000 in total session fees. Feel free to mix/ match. Check all that apply:
In Person Dungeon Session- 4 hour [$2000]
Corporal Absolution- 1.5 hours [$900]
Corporal Absolution- 3 hours [$1800]
Trauma Dearmoring- 1.5 hours [$900]
Trauma Dearmoring- 3 hours [$1800]
Dinner and Domination- 4 hours [$2000]
Dinner and Domination- 6 hours [$3000]
Break In and/ or Kidnap Fantasy- 4 hours [$3600]
Break In and/ or Kidnap Fantasy- 6 hours [$5600]
Long Term Domination or Keyholding [starts at $1500/ month]
Executive Men's Domme Advisor / The Domme Oracle [starts at $2500/ month]
The Diamond Collar Club [starts at $5000/ month, by invitation only]
Previous
Next
Submit
Press
Enter
38
Please Tour My City session request:
*
This field is required.
Touring fees are listed to help differentiate from non-tour pricing. Check all that apply:
In Person Dungeon Session- 2 hour [$1000]
In Person Dungeon Session- 3 hour [$1500] MINIMUM OPTION FOR MY SERIOUS CONSIDERATION
In Person Dungeon Session- 4 hour [$2000]
Corporal Absolution- 1.5 hours [$900]
Corporal Absolution- 3 hours [$1800]
Trauma Dearmoring- 1.5 hours [$900]
Trauma Dearmoring- 3 hours [$1800]
Dinner and Domination- 4 hours [$2000]
Dinner and Domination- 6 hours [$3000]
Break In and/ or Kidnap Fantasy- 4 hours [$3600]
Break In and/ or Kidnap Fantasy- 6 hours [$5600]
Long Term Domination or Keyholding [starts at $2500/ month]
Executive Men's Domme Advisor / The Domme Oracle [starts at $2500/ month]
The Diamond Collar Club [starts at $5000/ month, by invitation only]
Previous
Next
Submit
Press
Enter
39
Special Location Request:
*
This field is required.
What city are you hoping to see Me in?
Previous
Next
Submit
Press
Enter
40
Session Date & Time Requested:
*
This field is required.
- Session requests should be made at least one week or more in advance to budget time for a pre-session call. - Provide at least 3 best days, dates & times. (ie- weekends before 5, this Tuesday, 07/07, from 2-5pm, Mondays or Wednesdays after 5) - LAST MINUTE REQUESTS (UNDER 48 HRS) will only be considered with an additional $250 session fee. Entire session cost must be paid in full to book (pre session call + session fee +last minute request fee). Not applicable when I am on tour.
Previous
Next
Submit
Press
Enter
41
How flexible are these requested dates?
*
This field is required.
If you are requesting specific dates or very late hours, it is customary to gift additional $ tribute when submitting the pre-session fee as a way to procure My attention.
Previous
Next
Submit
Press
Enter
42
To finalize your Session Request, submit to the following agreements:
*
This field is required.
I understand that I am not in control.
I understand all session requests and session interest are at Mistress Ashadar’s discretion.
I understand I will be required to submit identity verification OR 3 solid references.
I understand that a Pre-Session call is required for first-time sessions. It will begin the process of forming a connection and assessing our compatibility.
I understand that a Pre-Session tribute of $50 USD must be paid BEFORE hitting submit on this form.
Previous
Next
Submit
Press
Enter
43
Let’s finalize your session application. Which option would you like for our Pre-Session Call?
*
This field is required.
Required for all first time clients.
Phone Call, $50 USD
Video Call, $50 USD
Previous
Next
Submit
Press
Enter
44
Which form of payment would you like to use for your $50 deposit?
*
This field is required.
Required for first time clients.
Throne: https://throne.com/wickedsurrender
Bitcoin: bc1qc2x95w7v9mxa9mcrxt90gvuymr83fnqxtutm9s
CashApp: $bumblebeeink (put "DINNER" on memo)
Previous
Next
Submit
Press
Enter
45
Moment of Truth
*
This field is required.
Take a moment and make your payment right now. When finished, verify that you have paid the pre-session tribute for Me to read this form. Click the BACK button if you need to see your payment options again.
Clicking here means I am obedient and verify that payment has ALREADY been made.
I have not paid. Ignore my submission and throw it in the trash. I like fantasizing without commitment and do not want a response back.
Previous
Next
Submit
Press
Enter
46
I understand that if I did NOT make payment but verified that I did, my behavior will be shared with local and nationwide Domme Directories, and I added on the blacklist as a disobedient time waster. I enjoy ruining my reputation with reputable Dommes.
*
This field is required.
You are not the exception to the rule. No payment = no response.
I understand, and I verify that I have made payment.
Previous
Next
Submit
Press
Enter
47
Terms and Conditions
*
This field is required.
Previous
Next
Submit
Press
Enter
48
Emergency Contact:
This is only for the most dire circumstances like a heart attack. I will NOT contact this unless you have been incapacitated and taken to the hospital.
Previous
Next
Submit
Press
Enter
Should be Empty:
Apply To Play
[Edit]
Question Label
1
of
48
See All
Go Back
Submit