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Let’s break the ice! What’s your first and last name?
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What is your preferred name if any?
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What is your email address?
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This is how I will contact you.
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What is your phone number?
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No blocked, fake, or burner numbers. This is only for reference, I will not call or text unless agreed upon.
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What is your age and gender?
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Which is your preferred method of contact?
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This will be the method of contact after submitting your form.
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Introduce yourself. Who are you outside of kink?
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Example: work, hobbies, favorite ways to unwind.
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Have you served a Pro-Domme before?
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Why do you want to Serve Me in particular?
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It is good to be truthful.
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What is your level of BDSM experience?
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Be honest and do not overstate your experience or limits.
None
Some (Just getting started or infrequent play)
Medium (I engage with BDSM when I can)
High (Very experienced and frequent play)
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What is your Kink History? You will list particular activities in a later question:
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How did you first discovery your kinky side and how has it progressed over time?
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Which do you identify with?
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Check all that apply:
Naturally Submissive- I thrive on taking orders and want complete guidance
Want to be made to Submit- Submission is not automatic and I need to be led or forced into it
Masochist- I show devotion by taking pain
Painslut- I love pain, please more pain
Feminization/Cross-dressing/ Sissy- I am not man enough for you so maybe I can be a good girl for you
Chore Whore- Put me to work cleaning, cooking and serving You
Peasant- I am far beneath you and need to be degraded like the lowly man I am
Pet- I have a specific animal I like to emulate
Fetishist- I am only interested in my specific fetish and will submit only as a means to an end
Roleplay- I have a specific role-play scenario I love
Object- I want to be a mindless object like a stool or table, no need to interact or acknowledge me
Not Sure- I am excited to learn and explore
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Which demeanor do you prefer? Check all that apply:
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Sensual
Merciless
Strict
Teasing
Sadistic
Motivating
Uplifting
Mean
Playful
Degrading
Erotic
Sacred
Romantic
Humiliating
Ritualistic
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I learn best through:
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Physical punishment
Reward/ flattery
Psychological punishment
Encouragement/ coaching
Financial punishment
Being ignored/ put in timeout
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Desired level of pain:
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No pain
Light pain
Moderate pain
Heavy pain
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Session Interests:
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Abandonment/ ignoring
Age play
Asian fetish
Bastinado
Bondage
Breath play
Cock cage
Caning
CBT
Chastity
Collar and leash
Crossdressing
CFNM
Discipline
Electric play
Edging
Fear play
Foot Worship (clean)
Foot Worship (smelly)
Forced Behavior Modification
Forced Feminization
Forced Fitness
Forced Health
Henti
Human Furniture
Humiliation (light)
Humiliation (heavy)
Hypnosis/ NeuroLinguistic Programming
Impact Play
Leg Worship
Medical Fetish
Mean Boss/ Coach
MindFuck
Mommy/ Aunty Fetish
Mummification
Nipple Torture
Pantyhose Worship
Pet Play
Power Exchange
Role Play
Romantic Sadism
Sensory Deprivation
Sensory Overload
Sensual Domination
Sissification
Slut Training
Sounding
SPH
Sploshing
Tentacles
Tickle torture
Trampling
Underarm Smelling
Verbal Abuse
Wax play
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Premium Session Interests:
Premium interested are unlocked after initial session(s) at Mistress Ashadar's discretion. Available with additional tribute.
Body worship
Clothed smothering
Strap On Fantasy
FTT
Golden Showers
Forced Bi Fantasy
Forced Intox Fantasy
Forced Feeding (feederism)
Cucking
Ethical Financial Domination
Keyholding
Heavy/ Extreme Impact
Platinum Lifestyle Offerings
Shamanic BDSM
Chemical Submission
Corporal Absolution
Trauma Dearmoring
Kidnapping/ Break In
Other
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Describe your selected session interests in as much detail as possible.
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Domination does not involve sex or any unlawful acts. Do not ask for illegal solicitations, intimate touching, nudity, or sex. Do not ask for play involving animals, minors, switching, or fully scripted role play. Beyond this, let your desires run wild.
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Tell me about your best & your worst session. Explain why for both.
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Your experiences matter to Me.
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How do you like to be addressed/ called during a session?
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Examples: slave, submissive, slut, bad boy. Can also be specific name or phrase.
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Clothing style request:
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Please note if I do not own something you're dying to see Me wear, you may have to purchase it for Me.
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Hard limits, fears, or triggers: What sorts of activities, tasks, names, and/or situations are off-limits for you?
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Examples: humiliation, being called a slave, piercing the skin.
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Limits for physical marks and bruises:
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No marks at all
Light marks ok
Heavy marks ok
Visible marks please
Only marks concealed under clothing
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How does your body bruise?
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Bruise easily
Difficult to bruise
Bruise quickly (within an hour)
Bruise over time (over days)
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Physical Health: Do you have any of the following injuries, medical considerations, or currently take the relevant medications?
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Current injuries (bad back, rolled ankle)
Old injuries (old knee injury, shoulder that dislocates)
Past surgeries (hip replacement, knee repair)
Medical devices (pacemaker, hearing aid, insulin pump)
Blood sugar issues (diabetes, low blood sugar)
Positional issues (can't kneel/ stand/ have arms above head for too long)
High or Low blood pressure
Circulation issues
Fainting
NONE
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Mental Health: Do you have any of the following mental or psychological considerations?
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Depression
Anxiety
Claustrophobia
Mental or emotional trauma
Sexual trauma
BDSM trauma (someone didn't stop, limits were disregarded)
NONE
Other
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Medications: Do you currently take any of the following medications?
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Blood thinners /blood pressure medication
Insulin
Antidepressants/ Anti-anxiety medication
NONE
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Health: If you selected any health issues above, please tell Me more about your relevant physical, mental or psychological considerations. Please also list your relevant medications:
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Have you ever experienced post-session "drop"?
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Mild drop
Medium drop
Heavy drop
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No idea what "drop" is
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How many minutes of aftercare would you like to budget in our session? What kind of aftercare and post session integration feels good after a scene?
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Examples: 10 minutes, wrapped in a blanket, head rubs, a simple hug.
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References:
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Please provide 2 or more references from verifiable providers you've seen in the last 2 years (pro-Domme, escort, sensual massage, etc). If you have never seen a provider before, enter "NEW" I may require additional identification verification. Be sure to include: 1) Name of Provider. 2) Provider's Website/Social Media links and email address. 3) Name they know you by.
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How did you find Me?
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Internet Search
Tryst
Backpage
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Dickie Virgin
Loyal Fans
Word of Mouth
Discord
Instagram
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If you were referred by Word of Mouth, what is their first and last name or scene name?
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If you found Me on LoyalFans, Discord or X, what is your username(s):
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Which session type are you requesting:
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Virtual Session
In Person- Denver
In Person- At a scheduled, upcoming Tour
In Person- Fly Me to you
In Person Request- Please tour my city
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Virtual Session Request:
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Happy Hour Virtual Session- 1 hour
Happy Hour Virtual Session- 2 hours
Happy Hour Virtual Session- 3 hours
Taste of Keyholding- weekend
Taste of Keyholding- week
Taste of Keyholding- month
BDSM coaching
Long Term Domination or Keyholding
Executive Men's Domme Advisor / The Domme Oracle
The Diamond Collar Club
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In Person Denver Session Request:
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In Person Dungeon Session- 1 hour
In Person Dungeon Session- 2 hour
In Person Dungeon Session- 3 hour
In Person Dungeon Session- 4 hour
Dinner and Domination- 4 hours
Dinner and Domination- 6 hours
Whole Day or Evening- 8 hours
Weekend Retreat- 2 day, 1 night
Weekend Retreat- 3 day, 2 night
Corporal Absolution- 1.5 hours
Corporal Absolution- 3 hours
Trauma Dearmoring- 1.5 hours
Trauma Dearmoring- 3 hours
Chemical Submission- 4-6 hours
Long Term Domination or Keyholding
Executive Men's Domme Advisor / The Domme Oracle
The Diamond Collar Club (By invitation only)
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Scheduled Tour Session Request:
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Touring fees are listed to help differentiate from non-tour pricing. Check all that apply:
Taste of Keyholding- weekend [$200]
Taste of Keyholding- week [$600]
Taste of Keyholding- month [$2200]
In Person Dungeon Session- 1 hour [$500]
In Person Dungeon Session- 2 hour [$1000]
In Person Dungeon Session- 3 hour [$1500]
In Person Dungeon Session- 4 hour [$2000]
Dinner and Domination- 4 hours [$2000]
Dinner and Domination- 6 hours [$3000]
Corporal Absolution- 1.5 hours [$900]
Corporal Absolution- 3 hours [$1800]
Trauma Dearmoring- 1.5 hours [$900]
Trauma Dearmoring- 3 hours [$1800]
Whole Day or Evening- 8 hours [$4000]
Weekend Retreat- 2 day, 1 night [$8000]
Weekend Retreat- 3 day, 2 night [$12,000]
Long Term Domination or Keyholding [starts at $2500/mo]
Executive Men's Domme Advisor / The Domme Oracle [starts at $2500/mo]
The Diamond Collar Club [starts at $5000/mo, by invitation only]
Other
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Fly Me To You session request:
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FMTY fees are listed to help differentiate from local pricing. Check all that apply:
In Person Dungeon Session- 3 hour [$1500] MINIMUM FOR FMTY
In Person Dungeon Session- 4 hour [$2000]
Corporal Absolution- 1.5 hours [$900]
Corporal Absolution- 3 hours [$1800]
Trauma Dearmoring- 1.5 hours [$900]
Trauma Dearmoring- 3 hours [$1800]
Dinner and Domination- 4 hours [$2000]
Dinner and Domination- 6 hours [$3000]
Whole Day or Evening- 8 hours [$4000]
Weekend Retreat- 2 day, 1 night [$8000]
Weekend Retreat- 3 day, 2 night [$12,000]
Long Term Domination or Keyholding [starts at $2500/ month]
Executive Men's Domme Advisor / The Domme Oracle [starts at $2500/ month]
The Diamond Collar Club [starts at $5000/ month, by invitation only]
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Please Tour My City session request:
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Touring fees are listed to help differentiate from non-tour pricing. Check all that apply:
In Person Dungeon Session- 1 hour [$500]
In Person Dungeon Session- 2 hour [$1000]
In Person Dungeon Session- 3 hour [$1500] MINIMUM OPTION FOR MY SERIOUS CONSIDERATION
In Person Dungeon Session- 4 hour [$2000]
Corporal Absolution- 1.5 hours [$900]
Corporal Absolution- 3 hours [$1800]
Trauma Dearmoring- 1.5 hours [$900]
Trauma Dearmoring- 3 hours [$1800]
Dinner and Domination- 4 hours [$2000]
Dinner and Domination- 6 hours [$3000]
Whole Day or Evening- 8 hours [$4000]
Weekend Retreat- 2 day, 1 night [$8000]
Weekend Retreat- 3 day, 2 night [$12,000]
Long Term Domination or Keyholding [starts at $2500/ month]
Executive Men's Domme Advisor / The Domme Oracle [starts at $2500/ month]
The Diamond Collar Club [starts at $5000/ month, by invitation only]
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Special Location Request:
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What city are you hoping to see Me in?
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Session Date & Time Requested:
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- Session requests should be made at least one week or more in advance to budget time for a pre-session call. - Provide at least 3 best days, dates & times. (ie- weekends before 5, this Tuesday, 07/07, from 2-5pm, Mondays or Wednesdays after 5) - LAST MINUTE REQUESTS (UNDER 48 HRS) will only be considered with an additional $250 session fee. Entire session cost must be paid in full to book (pre session call + session fee +last minute request fee). Not applicable when I am on tour.
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How flexible are these requested dates? Are you local to Denver, or do you need to schedule specific dates because you're traveling through?
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To finalize your Session Request, submit to the following agreements:
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I understand that I am not in control.
I understand all session requests and session interest are at Mistress Ashadar’s discretion.
I understand I may be required to submit identity verification.
I understand that a Pre-Session call is required for first-time sessions. It will begin the process of forming a connection and assessing our compatibility.
I understand that a pre-session tribute of $50 USD must be paid BEFORE hitting submit on this form.
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Let’s finalize your session application. Which option would you like for our pre-session call?
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Required for first time clients.
Phone Call, $50 USD
Video Call, $50 USD
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Which form of payment would you like to use for your $50 deposit?
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Throne: https://throne.com/wickedsurrender
Bitcoin: bc1qt8s7rnlzwvkpnmeay36dgzmf4qpwc5vct96eta
CashApp: $bumblebeeink (put "DINNER" on memo)
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Moment of Truth
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Take a moment and make your payment right now. When finished, verify that you have paid the pre-session tribute for Me to read this form. Click the BACK button if you need to see your payment options again.
Clicking here means I am obedient and verify that payment has ALREADY been made.
I have not paid. Ignore my submission and throw it in the trash. I like fantasizing without commitment and do not want a response back.
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I understand that if I did NOT make payment but verified that I did, my behavior will be shared with local and nationwide Domme Directories, and I added on the blacklist as a disobedient time waster. I enjoy ruining my reputation with reputable Dommes.
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You are not the exception to the rule. No payment = no response.
I understand, and I verify that I have made payment.
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Terms and Conditions
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Emergency Contact:
This is only for the most dire circumstances like a heart attack. I will NOT contact this unless you have been incapacitated and taken to the hospital.
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