In an effort to promote Biblical leadership and encourage the spiritual growth of the entire famliy, the Spirit of Oklahoma community strongly encourages the husband to attend a Tres Dias weekend before the wife. We understand there are extenuating circumstances that may make this difficult (incarceration, military deployment, medical conditions, non-believing spouse, etc.). These special exceptions will be addressed on a case-by-case basis. If you are married and your husband/fiance has not attended a Tres Dias or similar three-day weekend, please show your sponsor the confirmation page that will be sent to your email after you submit the application so they can initiate the exception process.