The American Association of Brazilian Candomblé and Culture (AABCC) is an organization that includes people with a variety of backgrounds, beliefs, and experiences. We aim to create an inclusive space that is accessible to and supports marginalized members of our community. In order to ensure this, we ask that at our events you:
Respect Others
Treat those around you with care and respect. This involves letting others express their autonomy, in other words, allowing them to have a say in how they want to approach their interactions. That means giving them room to feel, think, and act for themselves.
Consider the Context
Behavior and communication that could be appropriate in one context might not be acceptable in another. Think about the context in which you are acting and allow it to inform your actions. If you are not familiar with how something might work or fit in, watch what is going on around you and how others are acting.
Listen with Care
Create space for others to speak by not monopolizing conversation or punishing others for expressing themselves. Take what you hear in good faith. We cannot fully know the experience of another person. Often, the best resource we have is someone else’s account of what they’re feeling.
It is just as important to listen to yourself. Get in touch with how you are feeling. If something is bothering you, it’s alright to take a moment to think things over. If you feel something needs to change, advocate for yourself or seek help from others.
Assess Impact
Be aware of those around you. Notice how your actions affect them. If the impacts of your actions do not align with your intentions, take a step back and consider the reasons why that might be happening. Think about what you could do differently next time. Be receptive to feedback and open to learning.