Life-Controlling Issues
Life Controlling Issues, simply put, are any issues that controls your life and decision-making other than the Lord. It can be any issue that might jeopardize a person relationships with family, work, friends, or even God. Examples of serious life-controlling issues are...
Spiritual issues, physical abuse, depression, anger, substance abuse, intimacy disorders, abandonment, shame / guilt, addictions - (alcohol, drugs, work, food, social media, sports, etc.), insecurities, stress, worthlessness / self-loathing, eating disorders, obsessive/compulsive disorder, mental health disorders, pornography / sexual addiction, sexual impurity, anxiety / worry, fear, pride, family issues, gambling, codependency, and more.
We understand that your relationship and communication with this applicant is personal, private, and confidential with regard to life-controlling issues. If you have knowledge of any life-controlling issues, we would encourage you to speak to the applicant and encourage them to seriously consider communicating directly with our leadership about any issues that would effect their commitment, our community, or their participation in the program. This communication would be very important before entering a commitment to serve as a leader in Christian community.