THE EXPERIENCES IN CLOSERELATIONSHIPS-REVISED (ECR-R)QUESTIONNAIRE

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INSTRUCTIONS

The statements in this assessment explore general relationship satisfaction.

When answering, choose a number between 1 to 5 to indicate how much you agree or disagree with the statement.

All responses are confidential.
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1. How often does your partner meet your needs?* This field is required.
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2. In general, how satisfied are you with your relationship?* This field is required.
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3. How good is your relationship compared to most?* This field is required.
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4. How often do you wish you hadn't gotten in this relationship?* This field is required.
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5. To what extent has your relationship met your original expectations:* This field is required.
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6. How much do you love your partner?* This field is required.
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7. How many problems are there in your relationship?* This field is required.
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Satisfaction
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Understanding Your Score

Your score of {satisfaction} indicates low relationship satisfaction (0-14).

Scoring Breakdown

High Satisfaction: Scores between 22 - 35

Moderate Satisfaction: Scores between 15 - 21

Low Satisfaction: Scores below 15

What This Means:

You may be feeling deeply emotionally disconnected from your partner, which can create a painful sense of isolation even when you're together.

Persistent dissatisfaction may be signaling that important emotional or relational needs have gone unmet for some time, leaving you frustrated, discouraged, or even hopeless.

Low scores often point to ongoing struggles with trust, intimacy, or vulnerability—challenges that, if left unaddressed, can erode the foundation of the relationship.

Therapy can be a powerful step toward healing; with the right support, couples can better understand each other, navigate difficult patterns, and begin to reconnect in meaningful ways.

Want Help?

If you are interested increasing intimacy and satisfaction in your relationship, one of our clinicians would love to talk to you.

Click the "Next" button for more information about getting started.
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Understanding Your Score

Your score of {satisfaction} indicates moderate relationship satisfaction (15-21).

Scoring Breakdown

High Satisfaction: Scores between 22 - 35

Moderate Satisfaction: Scores between 15 - 21

Low Satisfaction: Scores below 15

What This Means:

You may find that while your relationship has some positive aspects, there are recurring patterns or unresolved issues that leave you feeling uncertain or unfulfilled.

Emotional connection might come and go, creating moments of closeness followed by stretches of distance or tension that feel hard to explain.

A sense of “settling” can emerge—where things function well enough on the surface, but deeper needs for intimacy, trust, or shared meaning aren’t fully met.

Therapy can help strengthen what's already working while addressing the areas that feel stuck, helping your relationship grow from stable to deeply satisfying.

Want Help?

If you are interested increasing intimacy and satisfaction in your relationship, one of our clinicians would love to talk to you.

Click the "Next" button for more information about getting started.
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Understanding Your Score

Your score of {satisfaction} indicates high relationship satisfaction (22-35).

Scoring Breakdown

High Satisfaction: Scores between 22 - 35

Moderate Satisfaction: Scores between 15 - 21

Low Satisfaction: Scores below 15

What This Means:

You likely experience a strong emotional connection, mutual respect, and a sense of partnership that brings fulfillment to both of you.

Communication tends to feel open and supportive, allowing you to navigate challenges together without feeling disconnected or misunderstood.

There’s a sense of shared meaning and trust in the relationship, creating a solid foundation for both day-to-day life and long-term goals.

Want Help?

Even in satisfying relationships, therapy can be a valuable space to deepen intimacy, strengthen resilience, and proactively support continued growth.

If you are interested in learning more about our counseling options, one of our experts would love to speak with you!
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What services are you interested in?* This field is required.
Couples Counseling
Neurodiverse Couples Counseling
Individual Counseling
Nothing, just send my scores please
Nothing, just send my scores to my therapist and me
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Select your therapist's name so we can send them your scores:
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Adela Stone
Amanda Buckman
Blaze Lazarony
Dan Chung
Danielle Grossman
Dre Meller
Colleen Kahn
Harry Motro
Heather Emerson-Young
Inna Kuchmenko
Joseph Kaiser
Jory Wilson
Lauren Florio
Lea Choi
Leila Pirnia
Lisa Marie Anzaldua
Liz McClanahan
Malori Evans
Maring Higa
Megan Mance
Monica Attia
Nancy Rushing
Robin Greenblat
Stephen Robertson
Tamala Takahashi
Whitney Schneider
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Where do you live? (This impacts what services are available to you)* This field is required.
California
Not in California
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Session fees vary by experience and qualifications. Share what you can pay, and we’ll match you with the right professional.* This field is required.
$300 and up
$250 to $300
$200 to $250
$150 to $200
$100 to $150 - considered "Sliding Scale". Appointments at this price are limited and may not be available.
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My name is:* This field is required.
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Email* This field is required.
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Phone Number
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What's Next?

You will be sent a copy of your scores if you've provided your email address.

If you marked that you are interested in counseling services, our Client Care Coordinator will be in touch within 24 hours to connect you with one of our experts.

Please feel free to reach out to our Client Care Coordinator, Cassie Clayton, if you have any questions in the meantime!

Email : clientcare@newpathfamily.com

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