Limerence Self-Assessment Questionnaire
  • Limerence Self-Assessment Questionnaire

  • 1. I find myself constantly thinking about this person, even when I try not to.*
  • 2. My mood significantly improves when I interact with or hear from this person.*
  • 3. I experience physical reactions (e.g., rapid heartbeat, sweating) when I see or think about this person.*
  • 4. I constantly check their social media or try to gather information about them.*
  • 5. I interpret their actions or words in ways that suggest they might reciprocate my feelings.*
  • 6. I have trouble concentrating on work or other tasks because thoughts of this person intrude.*
  • 7. I experience extreme emotional highs and lows based on this person's behaviour towards me.*
  • 8. I fantasise about a future relationship with this person, despite current circumstances.*
  • 9. I feel a strong need for this person to reciprocate my feelings.*
  • 10. I find myself changing my routines or habits in hopes of encountering this person.*
  • 11. I experience jealousy or anxiety when this person interacts with potential romantic rivals.*
  • 12. I replay past interactions with this person in my mind, analysing every detail.*
  • 13. I feel a sense of emptiness or loss when I'm unable to see or communicate with this person.*
  • 14. I idealise this person, focusing on their positive qualities and dismissing their flaws.*
  • 15. My desire for this person feels more intense than my past experiences of attraction or love.*
  • 16. I have trouble imagining being attracted to or in a relationship with someone else.*
  • 17. I experience intrusive sexual thoughts or fantasies about this person.*
  • 18. I feel a compelling need to express my feelings to this person, even if it might be inappropriate.*
  • 19. I find myself neglecting other relationships or interests because of my focus on this person.*
  • 20. I feel that my happiness is dependent on this person's attention or affection.*
  • Should be Empty: