SWFLBN | Singles Event 9/13/24

Sign up for our first Singles Meet and Greet Event.

DATE: Meeting Friday the 13th of September
TIME: 5:30 PM to 7:00 PM
WHERE: Beef O' Brady's in the Cape, Santa Barbara, and Veterans Parkway.

Address: 2514 Santa Barbara Blvd, Cape Coral, FL 33914

Questions? Call Katrina at 239-470-5611.

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Which is your most natural source of Mental Energy?
Every person has two faces. One is directed toward the outer (e) world of activities, excitements, people, and things. The other is directed inward to the Inner (I) world of thoughts, interests, ideas, and imagination. While these are two different but complementary sides of our nature, most people naturally prefer energy from the outer or inner world. Thus, one of their faces, Extraverted (e) or Introverted (I), takes the lead in their personality development and plays a more dominant role in their behavior.

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Do you act first, think, and reflect later?Or do you think/reflect first, then act?

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Do you feel deprived when cut off from interaction with the outside world?Or do you regularly require an amount of “private time” to recharge your batteries?

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Are you usually open and motivated by an outside world of people and things?Or are you more motivated internally? Your mind is sometimes so active that it is “closed” to the outside world.

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Do you enjoy a wide variety and change in your people relationships?Or do you prefer one-to-one communication and relationships?

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Which way of Perceiving or Understanding is most “automatic” or natural?
The sensing (S) side of our mind notices sights, sounds, smells, and all the sensory details of the present. It categorizes, organizes, records, and stores the specifics from the here and now. It is reality-based, dealing with “what is.” It also provides the specific details of memory & recollections from past events.

The intuitive (N) side of our mind seeks to understand, interpret, and form overall patterns of all the information collected and records these patterns and relationships. It speculates on possibilities, including looking into and forecasting the future. It is imaginative and conceptual.

While both kinds of perceiving are necessary and used by all people, we instinctively tend to favor one over the other.

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Do you mentally live in the Now, attending to present opportunities?Or do you mentally live in the Future, attending to future possibilities?

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Is using common sense and creating practical solutions automatic and instinctual?Or is using your imagination to create and invent new possibilities automatic and instinctual?

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Is memory recall rich in details of facts and past events?Or is your memory recall emphasizing patterns, contexts, and connections?

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Do you like clear and concrete information and dislike guessing when facts are “fuzzy”?Or are you comfortable with ambiguous, fuzzy data and guessing its meaning?

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Which way of forming Judgements and Making Choices is most natural?

The thinking (T) side of our mind analyzes information in a detached, objective fashion. It operates from factual principles, deduces, and forms conclusions systematically. It is our logical nature. The feeling (F) side of our mind forms conclusions attached and globally based on likes/dislikes, impact on others, and human and aesthetic values. It is our subjective nature. While everyone uses other means of forming conclusions, everyone has a natural bias towards one over the other, so when they give us conflicting directions, one side is the natural trump card or tiebreaker.

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Do you instinctively search for facts and logic in a decision situation?Or do you instinctively employ personal feelings and impact on people in decision situations?

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Do you naturally notice tasks and work to be accomplished?Or are you naturally sensitive to people's needs and reactions?

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Are you easily able to provide an objective and critical analysis?Or do you naturally seek consensus and popular opinions?

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Do you accept conflict as a natural, normal part of relationships with people?Or are you unsettled by conflict and have almost a toxic reaction to disharmony?

What is your Action Orientation towards the outside world?
All people use both judging (thinking and feeling) and perceiving (sensing and intuition) processes to store information, organize thoughts, make decisions, take action, and manage their lives. Yet one of these processes (Judging or Perceiving) tends to lead our relationship with the outside world while the other governs our inner world. A judging (J) style approaches the outside world with a plan and is oriented towards organizing one’s surroundings, being prepared, making decisions, and reaching closure and completion. A perceiving (P) style takes the outside world as it comes and is adopting and adapting, flexible, open-ended, and receptive to new opportunities and changing game plans.

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Do you instinctively search for facts and logic in a decision situation?Or do you instinctively employ personal feelings and impact on people in decision situations?

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Do you plan many of the details in advance before moving into action?Or are you comfortable moving into action and planning on the go?

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Do you focus on task-related action, completing meaningful segments before moving on?Or do you like to multitask, have a variety, mix work and play?

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Do you work best and avoid stress when you are able to keep ahead of deadlines?Or are you naturally tolerant of time pressure and work best close to the deadline?

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Do you naturally use targets, dates, and standard routines to manage life?Or do you instinctively avoid commitments which interfere with flexibility, freedom, and variety?

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