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  • PARENTAL BURNOUT ASSESSMENT

    This assessment has been designed to accurately indicate your current level of Parental Burnout Syndrome.
  • There are 20 multiple-choice questions that should take 3-5 minutes to complete. Your results will be shown at the end and a copy will be sent directly to your inbox.

    INSTRUCTIONS:

    Think about your life as a parent over the past six weeks. Read each statement and choose HOW OFTEN you would agree with each one.

  • QUESTION 1/20

  • I feel physically, mentally and emotionally depleted by parenting.
  • You feel physically, mentally and emotionally depleted by parenting.*
  • QUESTION 2/20

  • My parental exhaustion is deeper than just needing to take a break or to get more sleep.
  • Your parental exhaustion is deeper than just needing to take a break or sleep more.*
  • QUESTION 3/20

  • Just thinking about spending another day caring for my kids puts my stomach in knots.
  • Just thinking about spending the day caring for your kids puts your stomach in knots.*
  • QUESTION 4/20

  • I feel fine when I'm away from my kids, but parenting drains all of my energy.
  • You feel fine when you're away from your kids, but parenting drains your energy.*
  • QUESTION 5/20

  • My kids irritate me like never before. I wish they would leave me alone.
  • Your kids irritate you like never before. You wish they would leave you alone.*
  • QUESTION 6/20

  • Even if my kids are happy and having fun, I feel saturated in agitation with them.
  • Even if your kids are happy and having fun, you feel saturated in agitation with them.*
  • QUESTION 7/20

  • When my child whines, my whole body tenses up and I just need silence.
  • When your child whines, your whole body tenses up and you just need silence.*
  • QUESTION 8/20

  • I long for more personal space without kids and their hot skin touching me.
  • You long for more personal space without kids and their hot skin touching you.*
  • QUESTION 9/20

  • Even when my kids are hurt or upset, I no longer feel any empathy for them.
  • Even when your kids are hurt or upset, you no longer feel any empathy for them.*
  • QUESTION 10/20

  • My kids will not cooperate with me and it makes me feel like a total failure.
  • Your kids will not cooperate with you and it makes you feel like a total failure.*
  • QUESTION 11/20

  • It makes me furious when my  child acts out. I respond too harshly.
  • It makes you furious when your child acts out. You respond too harshly.*
  • QUESTION 12/20

  • I  don't want to yell at my kids and I try not to. But I can't help it and start yelling.
  • You don't want to yell at your kids and you try not to, but you can't seem to help it.*
  • QUESTION 13/20

  • I don't enjoy spending time with my kids anymore, and you avoid it whenever I can.
  • You don't enjoy spending time with your kids anymore, and you avoid it if you can.*
  • QUESTION 14/20

  • Being a parent no longer brings me any pleasure, pride or life satisfaction.
  • Being a parent no longer brings you any pleasure, pride or life satisfaction.*
  • QUESTION 15/20

  • I want to live, laugh and enjoy life, but instead I feel like a drowning parent.
  • You want to live, laugh and enjoy life, but instead you feel like a drowning parent.*
  • QUESTION 16/20

  • I  resent the fact that I'm burning out as a parent while others enjoy their freedom.
  • You resent that you're burning out as a parent while others enjoy their freedom.*
  • QUESTION 17/20

  • I don't like myself anymore for the kind of parent I've become.
  • You don't like yourself anymore for the kind of parent you've become.*
  • QUESTION 18/20

  • My deep sense of failure as a parent makes me feel guilty and ashamed.
  • Your deep sense of failure as a parent makes you feel guilty and ashamed.*
  • QUESTION 19/20

  • I feel like a bad parent and wonder if my family would be happier if I left.
  • You feel like a bad parent and wonder if your family would be happier if you left.*
  • QUESTION 20/20

  • I wish I didn't have to be a parent anymore and I fantasize about leaving my kids.
  • You wish you didn't have to be a parent anymore and fantasize about escaping.*
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