Marriage Assessment Tool

Marriage Assessment Tool

How Are We Doing?
Introduction

At BizMarriage™, we use eight key business and leadership concepts to help marriages thrive. This assessment explores each of these concepts to evaluate how your marriage is doing in specific areas. By examining these eight concepts collectively, you'll gain a clearer picture of the overall health of your relationship. While no tool is perfect, the BizMarriage™ assessment serves as a valuable guide to help you take a fresh look at your marriage and identify areas for growth.

The eight BizMarriage™ concepts are: Strategic Planning, Relationship Engagement, Coaching, Branding, Identity, Culture, Creativity, and Transformational Leadership.

Answer the questions honestly without overthinking them. It’s best for both spouses to complete their own assessments individually, then compare answers together to foster meaningful discussion
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How Many Years Have You Been Married?
If you are not married, enter 0. If you are married less than 1 year enter 1.
How Many Years Have You Been in Your Career Field?
If less than 1 enter 1.
I'm Not In a Leadership PositionSupervisor/Assistant ManagerMiddle ManagerUpper/Senior ManagementC-Suite (CEO. COO, CMO, etc.) or Board
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Strategic Planning

For each statement below, please rate yourself on a scale from 1 to 5 based on how much you disagree or agree with the statement.

1 = Strongly Disagree 2 = Disagree 3 = Neutral 4 = Agree 5 = Strongly Agree
My spouse and I regularly discuss our long-term goals for the future.

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We have a clear vision for our marriage, and we both know the direction we want our relationship to take.

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We are intentional about setting and achieving our shared goals.

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Strategic Planning Section Score
Strategic Planning Interpretation
Relationship Engagement

For each statement below, please rate yourself on a scale from 1 to 5 based on how much you disagree or agree with the statement.

1 = Strongly Disagree 2 = Disagree 3 = Neutral 4 = Agree 5 = Strongly Agree
I feel actively engaged in our relationship, and I believe my spouse does too.

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We regularly take the time to appreciate and acknowledge the small things that contribute to our relationship.

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My spouse and I frequently communicate about how to improve our engagement in the marriage.

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Engagement Section Score
Engagement Interpretation
Coaching

For each statement below, please rate yourself on a scale from 1 to 5 based on how much you disagree or agree with the statement.

1 = Strongly Disagree 2 = Disagree 3 = Neutral 4 = Agree 5 = Strongly Agree
We provide each other with regular, constructive feedback to help each other grow.

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My spouse and I support each other’s personal and professional development.

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We have established trust so that we can be open about areas where we want to improve.

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Coaching Section Score
Coaching Interpretation
Branding

For each statement below, please rate yourself on a scale from 1 to 5 based on how much you disagree or agree with the statement.

1 = Strongly Disagree 2 = Disagree 3 = Neutral 4 = Agree 5 = Strongly Agree
Our communication with each other, both private and in public, is consistently respectful, positive, and affirming.

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We effectively utilize our individual strengths and competencies to complement each other and build a stronger partnership.

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We engage meaningfully with our community and actively contribute to the well-being of others as a couple.

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Branding Section Score
Branding Interpretation
Identity

For each statement below, please rate yourself on a scale from 1 to 5 based on how much you disagree or agree with the statement.

1 = Strongly Disagree 2 = Disagree 3 = Neutral 4 = Agree 5 = Strongly Agree
We have a shared, meaningful, and enduring purpose that provides motivation and unifies us as a couple.

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We consistently live out the values we have established for our marriage in our daily interactions and decisions.

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We actively work together to achieve continuous improvement in our relationship, aligning our actions with our shared vision.

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Identity Section Score
Identity Interpretation
Culture

For each statement below, please rate yourself on a scale from 1 to 5 based on how much you disagree or agree with the statement.

1 = Strongly Disagree 2 = Disagree 3 = Neutral 4 = Agree 5 = Strongly Agree
We have established a healthy culture in our marriage, centered around trust, commitment, and forgiveness.

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My spouse and I have developed habits and behaviors that reinforce a positive culture in our relationship.

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When conflicts arise, we work through them in a way that strengthens our marriage’s culture.

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Culture Section Score
Culture Interpretation
Creativity

For each statement below, please rate yourself on a scale from 1 to 5 based on how much you disagree or agree with the statement.

1 = Strongly Disagree 2 = Disagree 3 = Neutral 4 = Agree 5 = Strongly Agree
We use creativity to find solutions to challenges in our marriage.

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My spouse and I make an effort to keep things exciting and fresh in our relationship.

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We regularly brainstorm new ways to strengthen our connection and build positive memories together.

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Creativity Section Score
Creativity Interpretation
Transformational Leadership

For each statement below, please rate yourself on a scale from 1 to 5 based on how much you disagree or agree with the statement.

1 = Strongly Disagree 2 = Disagree 3 = Neutral 4 = Agree 5 = Strongly Agree
I feel that my spouse and I both inspire each other to grow and improve.

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We motivate each other to work toward shared goals.

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Our relationship focuses on creating positive changes, not just maintaining the status quo.

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Transformational Leadership Section Score
Transformational Leadership Interpretation
Total Assessment Score
Overall Interpretation
Strong
13-15 POINTS (Strong)

You are highly competent in this area, and it is likely a strength in your marriage. Consider how you can use this strength to help other marriages grow and flourish.
Moderate
9-12 POINTS (Moderate)

You are doing well in this area, but there are areas for improvement. Consider working through the BizMarriage™ Workbook on this topic to help strengthen your marriage and allow it to truly thrive.
Weak
3-8 POINTS (Weak)

Significant improvement is needed in this area. Together, you and your spouse can benefit from using the BizMarriage™ Workbook related to this topic.
Strong Overall
104-120 (Strong): You demonstrate characteristics consistent with strong marriages! Keep up the good work through continuous improvement. Consider using the BizMarriage™ Creativity or Coaching Workbooks to stay strong.
Moderate Overall
72-103 (Moderate): You have some strengths, but there are opportunities for improvement. Review your weakest sections and consider using the appropriate BizMarriage™ Workbook to help you develop in that area.
Weak Overall
24-71 (Weak): Your responses suggest that there are significant areas for improvement. But don’t despair! Help is available through the BizMarriage™ Workbook Series. Consider starting with the workbook for your weakest area. If one area doesn't stand out, start with either Identity or Engagement.
SP Number for Monday
Engagement # for Monday
Coaching # for Monday
Branding # for Monday
Identity # for Monday
Culture # for Monday
Creativity # for Monday
Leadership # for Monday
Total Score # for Monday
Location Widget for Monday
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