• TheraPrep

    Organize your experience whether you bring it to a therapist or not.

    P.S. I don't want your data. No need to ever hit "submit" or share your identity.
  • How much are you struggling or feeling overwhelmed right now?*
  • Disclaimer

    This app is not a substitute for healthcare. The statements made here have not been evaluated by the Food and Drug Administration or equivalent agency of any country. This app is for educational purposes only and not intended to diagnose, treat, cure or prevent any disease.

    • Why this app exists (click to read) 
    • Purpose & Use

      • You have tremendous internal resources that may be clogged or interfering with each other right now. This app can help discover such things.
      • There is a lot you can do before meeting with a specialist and this app can help make a checklist of topics and observations about your experience. 
      • This app or website is a tool designed to educate you on how to organize your own understanding of things that are occurring in your mind, body, soul, and spirit. This can help you know how to talk to yourself and others about what you are going through.
      • By better understanding and labeling what is occurring within you RIGHT NOW, you might find yourself making better, more deliberate, and less reactive choices.
      • This tool can be used as a daily guide for self exploration of experiences like anger, worry, sadness, stumbling, and relationship upsets.
      • It is not a personality test or any other kind of test. There are no interpretations given by us. We do not use mental health diagnoses.
      • This is not a single-use app. By repeated use you will likely become better at using these tools without needing the app as often later on.
      • We are not a crisis service. You are responsible for seeking any needed help or emergency services.
      • We will not react to (or likely even see or read) your responses, darkest thoughts, urges, temptations, etc. 
      • You are free to use your discoveries from this app in your work with a therapist, coach, sponsor, clergy, guru, yoga instructor, friends, family, nutritionist, parole officer, or other confidantes.
      • You are free to enter as few or as many responses as you want. Only initial consents are a mandatory condition of using the app. 

      I DO NOT WANT YOUR DATA, NO NEED TO IDENTIFY YOURSELF OR EVER HIT SUBMIT. You can choose to delete, abandon, or submit responses. You are encouraged to save your work. The "save" button initially requests an email address but this can be BYPASSED; instead you can copy a secure link (HTTPS) for completing your thoughts later. The User is responsible for the privacy of their link. WORKS IN PROGRESS and SUBMITTED RESPONSES ARE KEPT SECURE THE SAME WAYS BANKS DO IT (256 bit SSL). They are stored on secure European GDPR-compliant servers for STRICTEST PRIVACY. All submitted responses are DE-INDENTIFIED ASAP AND WITHIN 48 HOURS AFTER SUBMISSION. If you submit and change your mind later you may email us and we will delete your responses if we can identify them when we talk; include a way to reach you by phone or WhatsApp but be discreet about the issue in your email to incapazman at gmail.

      Our Beliefs

      • Many people seem to benefit from naming and differentiating emotions and physical sensations. This app offers opportunities to practice and improve in that.
      • We believe that movement from acknowledgement of one's experience to actively organizing it via these exercise promotes growth.
      • This is also a space for you to explore old patterns and consider possible things to change or look further into.

      It's your story, organize it and expand your life from there!

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      This and more also available at inCAPABLES.org

  • Use this app 1) to help recognize various kinds of "load" you might be carrying and, 2) to organize how you might discuss your struggles with a supportive other person.

  • What HAPPENED or is going on RIGHT NOW?*
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  • You're clearly going through a lot right now.

    What's going on inside?

    Pick what helps express your experience, skip what doesn't.

    • PHYSICALLY / BODILY 
    • Can you detect any of these in yourself?
    • HOPELESSNESS / TIREDNESS 
    • Have you been feeling some of these?
    • IRRITATION / ANGER 
    • Identify levels of irritation or anger towards self or others.
    • SELF-DOUBT / DISGUST  
    • Identify things that bother you about yourself.
    • CONFLICT / ISOLATION 
    • I am feeling...
    • ANXIETY / WORRY 
    • Feeling any of these?
    • URGES / ADDICTION / COMPULSIONS 
    • I am also struggling with these or at least tempted to act toward them.
    • REPEATING CYCLE  
    • Which have a history for you?
    • BIG DECISION / DILEMMA? 
    • Are there big decisions or dilemmas involved? Harsh judgments about where you're at or how you got here?
    • ADDED PRESSURES? 
    • What circumstances might be making things harder? Feeling...
    • (Click to close sections above.) 
  • Part 2. Am I Crazy?

    • OBJECTIVITY 
    • What might a really supportive and compassionate person say to me?
    • CATCHING ASSUMPTIONS 
    • Might I be staying stuck, in part, because of any these?
    • (Click to close sections above.) 
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  • Part 3. Actions & Inspirations

    Identify immediate and long-term things to do to improve your life.
    • PHYSICAL RELIEFS 
    • Many self-help books, philosophers, and therapists throughout history have recommended sometimes doing the OPPOSITE of what you feel like doing. Are you willing to try some of these?
    • SOCIAL IMPROVEMENT 
    • Do I tend to isolate? Do I "invest" in time with people even when I'm not in crisis? Which of these am I willing to do?
    • SPIRITUAL TASKS 
    • Which of these am I willing to try or do more of?
    • LONG-TERM CHANGES 
    • Which of these am I willing to make more time for on some regular basis? When in the day can such activities or reflections fit? What is my backup plan for days I can't get to it at the time of day I thought I could?
    • VALUES / INSPIRATIONS 
    • What are some of your beliefs that you want to use as anchors and a compass? "At the end of the day, no matter what else I screwed up, I always tried to live these..."
    • (Click to close sections above.) 
  • Re-Assess

    Re-Assess

    Ideally you have used the prior sections to explore and organize your mind, heart, experience, and perception of self and others. Hopefully you've also looked at your values, goals, history, resources, cycles, and more. Now take a moment to re-evaluate how you are feeling. Make notes about anything you want to discuss with someone or to look further into later.
  • How much are you struggling or feeling overwhelmed right now?*
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  • Final Steps

    There is no need to send us your responses. You can simply SAVE A PDF ON YOUR DEVICE below. However, any anonymous responses we receive could be helpful in improving our efforts to understand and help people. You simply enter an email and click Submit to share your responses. We will de-identify them as quickly as possible (within 48 hours at the latest).
    • Demographics 
    • If willing, please enter any of these aspect of your identity.
    • Open if considering harm to self or others. 
    • The next 2 questions are about self-harm, suicide, and violence toward others so we can learn more about that. We are NOT a crisis service. We will NOT reach out to you or to authorities. We strongly encourage you to reach out to mental health or other services in you locale if you are in distress. By the time we see these responses your email will have been removed (responses will be de-identified).

    • Optional Submission Process 

    • We will remove your email address from your responses, making them anonymous. May we keep your email to send updates about our efforts to help humankind? If not we will delete your email permanently.
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    • Seeking a Referral?

      Would you like help finding a therapist or other form of person to talk to or support group? Email us at incapazman at gmail dot com. Or phone or text at 646-481-5115.

    • Optional Donation 
    • Donations are not required but certainly appreciated if you find the app useful. We hope this and other projects will help free people from dungeons of despair, hopelessness, and stuckness.

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