The LOVE IS KIND Relationship Pledge

THE LOVE IS KIND PLEDGE

For Platonic, Romantic, and Sexual Relationships
I, blankscommit to fostering safe, healthy, and respectful relationships, both platonic and romantic. I recognize the value of safety in all forms of interaction and pledge to uphold the principles of respect, communication, and non-violence in every relationship I form. Whether it’s with friends, family, or a romantic partner, I understand the importance of cultivating environments where trust, safety, and mutual care are paramount.
1. I Pledge to Promote Safety and Respect in All Relationships: I commit to creating a respectful atmosphere where everyone feels valued and secure, whether they are a friend, partner, or family member. I will strive to communicate openly and clearly, avoiding assumptions and allowing others the space to express their boundaries, feelings, and needs.*

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2. I Pledge to Honor Boundaries in Romantic and Sexual Relationships: In my romantic and sexual relationships, I commit to honoring personal boundaries and ensuring that all interactions are consensual. I pledge to regularly check in with my partner to ensure comfort and agreement, allowing for open discussions about boundaries and desires. I will never pressure, manipulate, or coerce someone into any activity—physical, emotional, or sexual—that they are uncomfortable with.*

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3. I Pledge to Prioritize Consent: I pledge to treat consent as an ongoing, essential part of every romantic and sexual relationship. Consent means enthusiastic agreement without pressure or influence. I understand that consent can be withdrawn at any time and that respecting this is fundamental to maintaining a healthy, safe relationship. I will check in regularly with my partner to make sure they feel safe, comfortable, and valued in all our interactions.*

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4. I Pledge to Address Conflict with Care and Compassion: In moments of conflict, I will approach my partner with kindness and a willingness to understand their perspective, avoiding behavior that could be harmful or disrespectful. I commit to finding solutions that prioritize our emotional well-being rather than resorting to manipulation or aggression. I will respect my partner’s right to space or time away if needed to process emotions or de-escalate tense situations.*

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5. I Pledge to Build Non-Violent Environments in All Interactions: I commit to fostering a space where neither I nor my partner feels fear, guilt, or shame. This includes avoiding behaviors like guilt-tripping, silent treatment, or threats in romantic and sexual relationships. I understand that emotional safety is as essential as physical safety and pledge to maintain an environment of positivity and encouragement.*

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6. I Pledge to Take Accountability for My Actions in Romantic and Sexual Relationships: If I hurt my partner, I pledge to take responsibility, acknowledge my impact, and work toward amending my behavior with humility. I will strive to be open to feedback, recognizing that my partner’s feelings are valid and addressing any areas where I may need to grow or change. My commitment to accountability is central to maintaining respect and trust in any relationship, romantic or otherwise.*

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7. I Pledge to Be a Positive Influence and an Active bystander: I commit to being mindful of how my actions in my own relationships affect my community and those around me. I will set a positive example of what healthy, respectful romantic and sexual relationships look like. If I witness others engaging in harmful or disrespectful behavior, I will intervene safely and provide support to anyone who may be affected by the behavior.*

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8. I Pledge to Educate Myself and Others on Relationship Safety: I recognize that fostering safe and respectful relationships requires ongoing learning and growth. I commit to educating myself on the topics of consent, boundaries, and healthy communication in both platonic and romantic relationships. I will share what I learn with friends and loved ones, encouraging a community of respect, awareness, and mutual support.*

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9. I Pledge to Support Survivors: I pledge to support survivors of abuse and violence by listening without judgment and believing their stories; providing resources or encouraging them to seek help, whether through shelters, hotlines, or counseling services; and offering compassion and understanding while respecting their choices on how they wish to handle their situation.*

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10. Conclusion: By taking this pledge, I commit to creating relationships built on trust, consent, respect, safety, and continuous learning in every interaction—whether platonic, romantic, or sexual. I strive to make a positive impact in my relationships and community by fostering connections that are supportive, kind, and deeply respectful of each person’s autonomy and well-being.Please type your name to say you've read and are completely committed to living out this pledge!
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THE LOVE IS KIND PLEDGE