Coaching Application Form

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If you’re reading this, you’re probably dealing with thoughts about your partner’s past that keep coming back—no matter how much you try to move past them.

You might be:

- feeling like you can't stop thinking about it

- asking questions (or wanting to ask questions) you later regret

- going in circles trying to “figure it out” on your own

If that’s you, you’re in the right place.

A few things to know:

- This is the most direct way to work with me

- We focus on identifying and interrupting the pattern driving these thoughts

- This is structured, focused work—not open-ended or casual

I’m currently taking on 4 new 1:1 clients before May. After that, applications will move to a waitlist.

Next step

If your application looks like a fit, you’ll be invited to book a short discovery call.

We’ll use that time to:

- Understand your situation clearly

- Identify how you’re currently stuck

- Decide whether working together makes sense

Don’t overthink your answers. Clear, honest responses make this process more useful for both of us.

Talk soon,

Zachary
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Name:* This field is required.
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What are you struggling with most right now?* This field is required.
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Roughly how much time per day are you spending thinking about this?* This field is required.
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How is this currently impacting your life and relationship?* This field is required.
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What have you already tried to solve this problem?* This field is required.
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Why is now the right time to address this, rather than 6–12 months from now?* This field is required.
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If this problem were fully resolved, what would be different for you?* This field is required.
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If we both decide this is a good fit, when are you prepared to start?* This field is required.
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For important professional and ethical reasons, I cannot work with clients who have been diagnosed with generalized anxiety disorder, clinical depression, and/or suicidal ideation. Have you ever been diagnosed with these symptoms?* This field is required.
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If we decide this is a fit, do you currently have the funds available to invest in mid-four-figure private coaching (USD)?* This field is required.
Yes, the funds are available now
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Please select the statement that best reflects where you are right now:* This field is required.
I understand the investment level and am ready to move forward immediately if this feels like the right fit.
I want help, but I’m not financially prepared for this level of coaching right now.
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If you decide to invest in one-on-one coaching, how are you hoping that I can help you?* This field is required.
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On a scale from 1-10, with 10 being the highest, how committed are you to reaching your goals and solving these problems?* This field is required.
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Is there anything else you'd like me to know?
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Depending on your needs, please note that an investment in a dedicated 1:1 coaching program starts in the mid-four-figures (USD). Which of the following statements applies to you?* This field is required.
I am financially secure, ready to commit, and eager to invest in a better future. Let's do this!
I am financially secure and eager to make an investment like this, but I have a few questions first.
I am unable to invest in 1:1 coaching. I'm looking for a self-guided option.
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