4 Kinky Friends presents Kink Fest Chicago
Hosted by Goddess Honey B, Miss Leela, Nyx Noir, and Papa Osiris
Vetting Form
This is a vetting form to attend Kink Fest hosted by 4 Kinky Friends in Chicago, IL, June 20-22, 2025. Hosts will review submissions on a rolling basis and applicants will be notified via email about the status of their submission.
Legal Name
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First Name
Last Name
Your Email
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example@example.com
Cell Number
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Format: (000) 000-0000.
Scene Name
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If people in the kink community know you by a scene name, or if you'd like to be acknowledged by a name other than your legal or vanilla life name, put that here.
Pronouns
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She/Her
They/Them
He/Him
She/They
He/They
Other
What is your gender identity?
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Kink Fest is explicitly queer and trans inclusive. All genders are welcome here.
How old are you?
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Attendees must be 25 or older. No exceptions.
How would you describe your sexual orientation?
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How do you identify in terms of BDSM archetypes?
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i.e. Dom, sub, switch, voyeur, evolving, newbie, pet, rigger, rope bunny, etc.
How long have you been knowingly/intentionally practicing kink?
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< 1 year
1 - 2 years
2 - 5 years
5 - 10 years
> 10 years
Is this your first kinky event hosted by any of the event organizers?
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Yes!
NAWL. I'm not new to this, I'm true to this!
What is your social media handle(s)?
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Include IG or FB social handle(s). This will be used for vetting purposes only.
What are the most recent kink events that you have attended? Please include the host(s) info, if possible.
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Please provide contact information i.e. social media of at least one person in the Black kink community who can serve as a reference for you? NOTE: if you are new to the scene and do not have references, you will need to do a follow up one-on-one with the host(s) in addition to completing this form
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Please include their scene name and social handle(s), if applicable.
What does consent mean to you, and how does it show up in your kink or sex life?
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What is one thing you can commit to as an attendee to help ensure we are creating a space that is safe and affirming for all our guests?
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By clicking this box, I affirm that I will comply with the Four Kinky Friends' no tolerance policy around consent violation. I acknowledge that failure to comply with the house rules may result in my automatic removal and being banned from future for Four Kinky Friends events.
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I agree
I am committed to playing safely. I understand that the hosts believe in the de-stigmatization of sexually transmitted infections (STIs), and that control of our sexual health lies with each of us. To that end, testing for transmittable infections is encouraged, and I may be asked by people I'm sexually intimate with about my status, regardless of condom use.
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I agree
I understand that this event centers consent-based pleasure as a practice. In practice, this means that if it is not consensual, it is not pleasurable. If it is not a clear, un-coerced "YES" then it is a NO. If a person cannot respond, it is a NO. If I am unsure, it is a NO.
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I agree
I understand that regardless of my own gender identity, sexual orientation, or who I choose to play with, that Four Kinky Friends Events are explicitly safe places for ALL Black people, including queer and trans Black folks. I understand that homophobic and transphobic bullshit will not be tolerated.
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I agree
I understand that this is ONE of TWO parts of the weekend's safety and consent process. I understand that for Saturday's party I must be on time for the group safety and consent conversation in order to remain at the venue, and that if I cannot make it before doors close, I forfeit my ticket.
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I agree
Submit
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