Blended Family Assessment

This assessment gives couples a clear and actionable picture of their blended family dynamics, empowering them to celebrate strengths and work on areas for growth.

Communication and Conflict Resolution*

	Always	Sometimes	Rarely	Never
1. Do family members feel comfortable expressing their thoughts and feelings openly?
2. Are conflicts in your family resolved constructively, focusing on solutions rather than blame?
3. Do you and your partner communicate effectively about blended family challenges?

Relationship with Ex-Partners*

	Always	Sometimes	Rarely	Never
1. Have you and your partner established clear boundaries with ex-partners to reduce tension?
2. Is co-parenting with ex-partners focused on the children’s well-being rather than personal grievances?
3. Do ex-partners respect the role of the bonus parent in your household?

Integration of Children*

	Always	Sometimes	Rarely	Never
1. Do the children in your blended family show respect and acceptance toward the bonus parent?
2. Are biological parents fostering positive relationships between their children and the bonus parent?
3. Do all children feel equally loved and valued in the household, regardless of biological ties?

Support and Protection*

	Always	Sometimes	Rarely	Never
1. Does your partner actively support and defend you when challenges arise with the ex or children?
2. Do you and your partner present a united front when addressing family issues?
3. Are boundaries respected to ensure everyone feels safe and supported in the household?

Family Harmony*

	Always	Sometimes	Rarely	Never
1. Is your household atmosphere generally peaceful and welcoming for everyone?
2. Are conflicts with ex-partners or extended family minimized to reduce stress within the home?

Personal Reflection*

	Always	Sometimes	Rarely	Never
1. Do you feel confident and satisfied with your role in the blended family?

Scoring:

Always: 3 points
Sometimes: 2 points
Rarely: 1 point
Never: 0 points

Total Points

Results:

40–45 points: Your blended family is thriving! Celebrate your successes and keep building on your strong foundation.
30–39 points: You’re doing well, but there’s room for improvement. Focus on communication and teamwork to strengthen your family bond.
20–29 points: Significant challenges exist. Address the key issues and consider seeking guidance to build a more harmonious dynamic.
Below 20 points: Your family may be struggling. Professional support and intentional efforts can help create a healthier, more loving environment.

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