At Need: My Memorial Guide

  • A Guide for Families After Loss

    Losing a loved one is overwhelming, and handling the necessary details can be challenging. This guide provides essential steps and important information to help you navigate this difficult time. Our funeral home is here to support you, ensuring you have the guidance needed to honor your loved one with care and clarity. Please note that this form can be edited so you can come back to it and fill out information you may not have when first filling it out.

  • Section 1 - Death Certificate Information Needed

    Gathering essential information for the death certificate, such as full name, date of birth, Social Security number, and parents' names, ensures accurate records and prevents delays in final arrangements.
  • 2.) Date of Birth
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  • 3.) Sex
  • 4.) Date of Death
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  • Is Residence Within The City Limits?
  • 8.c) Current Locality (check the box that describes the location)
  • 11.) Decdent's Highest Level of Education
  • 12.) Race/Heritage (if Asian, list nationality ie. Chinese, Filipino, Asian Indian, etc. under "other"), mark all that apply.
  • 13.b) Hispanic Origin (yes/no)
  • 14.) Was Decedent Ever In The Armed Forces?
  • 17.) Marital Status
  • Spouse - Living or Deceased?

  • Parent Information

  • Father - Living or Deceased?
  • Mother - Living or Deceased?
    • Next...Information to Assist In The Writing Obituary  

    • Early Information

    • Marital Information

    • Family Relations

    • Military Information

    • Military Service
    • War Time
    • Discharge Papers (DD 214) Available?
    • Next...Membership, Clubs, Hobbies, Etc. Information 

    • Membership, Clubs, Hobbies, Etc. Information

    • Next...Disposition and Type of Service  

    • Choose The Type Of Disposition and Service

      Planning your loved one’s final arrangements is a meaningful way to honor their life and provide a space for family and friends to gather and remember. This section will guide you through important choices, including burial or cremation, selecting a casket or urn, and deciding on the type of service, such as a visitation, funeral, or graveside ceremony. These decisions help create a personal and respectful farewell.
    • Type of Disposition - Burial or Cremation?
    • Casket or Cremation Container (visit our online showroom for options at www.charlesrlux.com/page/merchandise)

    • Type of Service

      These selections will help your family during a challenging time to finalize the arrangements you want.
    • Location of Funeral Service
    • Visitation Location
    • Visitation Details
    • Viewing Details
    • Reception Details
    • Special Service Options Available
    • Other Service Options
    • Music
    • Casket Bearer Transportation
    • Next...Graveside Committal and Information 

    • Graveside Committal Information

    • Graveside Committal
    • Do You Want/Need A Burial Plot?
    • Do You Want/Need a Headstone/Grave Marker?

    • Casket Preference

      Visit our online showroom at https://www.charlesrlux.com/page/merchandise to see our selection of caskets and urns.
    • Casket Material Preference
    • Casket To Be Closed
    • Burial Vault
    • Urn Material Preference
    • Next...Special Requests and Instructions 

    • Special Requests and Instructions

      Flower and Color Preferences, Jewelry, Clothing, Instruction for Ashes, Etc.
    • Next...Person Financially Responsible For Final Arrangements 

    • Person Financially Responsible For Final Arrangements

    • Format: (000) 000-0000.
    • Should be Empty: