INITIAL CONSULTATION DISCOVERY FORM
Please take your time to answer these questions honestly. There are no right or wrong answers. Your responses will help us explore your experiences together in our coaching session. All answers are kept confidential.
Name
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First Name
Last Name
Date of birth
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Month
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Day
Year
Date
Phone Number
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Email
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Preferred Contact Method
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Phone
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How did you hear about Victim 2 Victor Coaching, LLC?
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Website
Social Media
Referral
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What is your main reason for seeking coaching?
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Briefly describe the challenges or concerns you are currently facing?
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Have you ever worked with a coach or therapist before?
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Yes
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What do you hope to gain from this consultation?
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When you express your feelings, needs, or concerns, how does your partner (or the person in question) typically respond?
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Do you feel like you have to walk on eggshells around this person to avoid conflict or upsetting them?
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Yes, often
Sometimes
Rarely
No
If yes, can you describe a situation where you felt this way?
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Can you recall a time when they made you feel deeply loved, only to later criticize, devalue, or ignore you?
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Have you ever been blamed for things that were not your fault or made to feel guilty even when you did nothing wrong?
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Yes, all the time
Sometimes
Rarely
No
Can you give an example?
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Do you feel like this person isolates you from family, friends or other support systems?
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Yes, they discourage me from talking to others
Yes, but they do it subtly (eg making me feel guilty for seeing or talking to loved ones)
No, they encourage me to have relationships outside of them
If yes, how has this affected your life?
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When they hurt you emotionally (or physically), do they deny it, minimize it, or turn it around on you?
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Yes, they always deny doing anything wrong
Yes, but sometimes they apologize
No, they take full responsibility for their actions
Can you recall a specific instance?
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Have you noticed extreme highs and lows in your relationship with this person? (eg times when they shower you with affection, followed by periods of coldness or cruelty?)
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Yes, this happens a lot
Sometimes, but not extreme
No, they are consistent in their behavior
Describe how this pattern makes you feel
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Do you feel emotionally, mentally, or even physically drained after interactions with them?
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Yes, I feel exhausted and confused
Sometimes, but try to brush it off
No, I feel energized and supported
What do you notice in yourself after dealing with them?
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Have you ever doubted your own reality, memories, or felt like you were :going crazy" because of their words or actions?
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Yes, I often feel like I can't trust my own judgement
Sometimes, but I try to stay grounded
No, I feel confident in my perception of reality
If, yes, what kind of things do they say or do to make you feel this way?
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Does this person use alcohol or other substances? If so, how does their behavior change when they are under the influence?
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No, they do not use alcohol or substances
Yes, occasionally, but their behavior stays the same
Yes, frequently and their behavior changes drastically
If their behavior changes, describe how it affects you
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Are they physically abusive?
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Yes
No
Are there specific areas you would like to focus on? (Check all that apply)
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Recognizing the signs of narcissistic abuse
Healing from emotional and psychologocal trauma
Rebuilding self esteem and confidence after abuse
Setting and enforcing healthy boundaries
Breaking Trauma bonds and detaching from the narcissist
coping with gaslighting and manipulation
Understanding Narcissistic family dynamics
Co-parenting with a narcissisit
Recovering from Financial Abuse
Overcoming fear, guilt and self doubt
Other
Do you have any concerns about the coaching process?
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Yes
No
Are you currently experiencing any crises situations that require immediate attention?
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Yes
No
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