Indecision Cost Diagnostic

Indecision Cost Diagnostic

This quick diagnostic will help you see the real impact of your divorce indecision across different areas of your life.

✅ You’ll be presented with a series of statements about your major life areas.
✅ Simply rate each statement on a scale from 1 to 5:

1️⃣ = Not Accurate at All / Strongly Disagree
5️⃣ = Most Accurate / Strongly Agree

There are no right or wrong answers. Just go with the first number that comes to mind—it’s often the most accurate.

📌 This will take only about 10 minutes.

💡 Completing it before our Clarity Consult is important because it will give you instant insights into how indecision is affecting your life—and will also help me be better prepared to focus on what matters most to you.

Mental Focus

1. I think about whether to divorce or not several times a day.*

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2. I have a hard time focusing or concentrating on daily tasks.*

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3. I have a hard time planning for my future, even for the short term.*

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Mental Focus Score

Feelings/Emotions

4. I often feel stressed.*

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5. I often feel depressed.*

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6. I often feel anxious.*

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7. I don’t have something to look forward to when I think about the future.*

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8. I feel I’m just going through the motions, surviving instead of thriving.*

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Feelings/Emotions Score

Sleep/Energy

9. I have trouble sleeping properly (hard time falling asleep, waking up in the middle of the night and not falling back asleep, etc.)*

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10. I feel tired almost all the time.*

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11. I have a hard time motivating myself to do everything that needs to be done in the house.*

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12. I have a hard time motivating myself to do even fun activities.*

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Sleep/Energy Score

Self/Self-Esteem

13. I feel fake/inauthentic, and that I have to put a mask on to hide what I really feel.*

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14. When I look at myself in the mirror, I feel I have lost who I really am/my True Self.*

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15. I feel like a failure for not being able to figure out what to do with my relationship.*

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16. My self-esteem has gone or is going down.*

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Self/Self-Esteem Score

Work

17. I get distracted at work or have a hard time focusing because I think about my relationship.*

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18. I’m afraid my work colleagues, supervisors, or clients may notice/have noticed a decrease in my performance.*

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19. I have a hard time motivating myself to take initiative at work or developing my business or new ideas.*

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Work Score

Social Interactions/Relations

20. I dread coming back home if I know my spouse is at home.*

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21. I avoid spending time with my spouse by either avoiding coming home or isolating myself in a room in the house.*

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22. I have stopped doing activities that used to bring me joy.*

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23. I have withdrawn socially or interact less with my extended family and/or friends.*

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Interactions/Social Relations Score

Health Habits

24. I exercise less than I used to.*

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25. I take care of myself less than I used to.*

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26. My eating habits have degraded (eat more/less, eat worse/comfort food).*

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27. I realize I’m often drinking more than I should to cope with my stress.*

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Health Habits Score

Physical/Mental Health

28. I have changed weight (gained or lost) because of my stress.*

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29. I have physical health issues that I believe are related to or aggravated by my stress.*

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30. I take medication for depression or anxiety.*

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Physical/Mental Health Score

Kids

I have kids living with me.*

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31. I’m not fully present with my kids when I interact with them.*

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32. I don’t engage with my kids as much as I would want to.*

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33. I have a shorter fuse or am snappier with my kids.*

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34. My kids often sense something is going on with me when I’m with them (even if they don’t verbalize it).*

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35. I feel guilty because I cannot fully be the mom I want to be for my kids.*

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Kids Score

Contact Information

You will receive an email with your answers, Total Score, and a link to your full results page. I will also receive a copy so I can review your results in advance and be fully prepared to help you during our Clarity Consult. 🔒 Your privacy matters. All your answers are strictly confidential.
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Indecision Cost Diagnostic

Mental Focus

Feelings/Emotions

Sleep/Energy

Self/Self-Esteem

Work

Social Interactions/Relations

Health Habits

Physical/Mental Health

Kids

Contact Information