Should I Stay or Should I Go?

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You’ve had a rough day, and your partner asks how you’re doing. You say, 'I’m fine,' but they:

nod and say, 'Yeal alright. Cool,' and return to their game

see right through you, and says "Hmm, you want to talk about your day?"

say - Great! Now let me tell you about my day!

Respond, 'You’re always fine'. Why aren't you ever happy?"

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It’s your anniversary, and your partner’s idea of celebrating is:

Taking their clothes off

Do nothing because 'Anniversaries are just a trick to make you buy stuff'

Planning a surprise weekend getaway

Forget until you remind them at 10 PM

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You’re stuck in traffic, and your partner is in the passenger seat. They:

scroll through their phone, oblivious

find it to be the perfect time to go on a monologue they've been saving up

turn up the music, make up a road game to play with you

make angry and frustrated comments at you and other drivers

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You suggest a weekend getaway, and your partner:

Complains about cost and suggests absolutely nothing

Asks if they can bring their friend and their golf clubs

Says 'Sure. Why not.' and leaves all the planning to you

Gets excited, floats some ideas and plans it with you

Other

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You’ve had some bad news. Your partner:

Listens, and offers something of comfort, like food or a backrub

Frowns. Says 'That sucks! ' and quickly returns to doing their own thing

says - 'Ugh, wait you I tell you about my even worse day'

Asks you if you ever have any good news to share

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Discussing finances, your partner:

wants total control on all spending and so you leave it to them

shares your goals and budget views

has no idea what is happening and has never kept a budget

is always in a state of fear and lack

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Your family and friends would say that your relationship is:

pretty good but could use some focused attention

dangerous to your health

convenient, but you aren't really a match

a great match

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During disagreements, your partner:

says 'Agree to disagree?' before walking out

listens to you and validates some points while suggesting a solution

gets angry immediately

interrupts you every sentence

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Your partner’s reaction to your dreams or goals:

'You're amazing! How can I support?'

'What about my dreams?'

'Cool,' without interest

'Are you sure that’s realistic?'

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At a party, if your partner flirts with someone else, your move is to:

Communicate your feelings when you get home

ignore it but have your feelings hurt

trust them entirely. They're just having some fun and they'd never leave you.

confront them immediately and publicly

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Your partner’s idea of 'quality time' is:

Chatting together over tea

Fun night out or getaway

Silently scrolling your phones in the same room

Asking you for help with a task

Other

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You're upset because your partner made an insensitive comment and your partner's response to your complaint is to:

Get defensive and tell you how you made a comment last week

Ignore your feelings and hope you forget

Listen to your feelings, ask questions, and reassure you

Laughs and says it's ridiculous for you to be upset

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Your partner’s reaction to your achievements:

Downplays or compares them to others

They're my biggest cheerleader

Acknowledges them without making a big deal

Ignores them or maybe they hadn't even noticed?

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When you are both facing a stressful challenge together, you:

Run around frazzled until it somehow passes

Blame each other, argue more, get frustrated

Pretend that nothing's happening and don’t talk it through

Support each other in finding solutions to tackle the challenge as a team

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How your partner handles your boundaries:

Pushes against them and makes you feel guilty

Respects them but slips occasionally

Respects them without compromise

boundaries? What are those?

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Handling intimacy, you and your partner are:Emotional and physical intimacy

ugh, not that again.

completely disconnected. No deep connection is possible.

amazing. Super close emotionally, spiritually, and physically

Good enough. Don't fix it if it isn't broken right?

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Handling your friendships and outside relationships, your partner:

controls or limits your time with others since they wish you would stay with them

seems to always be disliked by them or dislike them

encourages your friendships and your time with them

is fine with them and doesn't know your friends names anyways.

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When it's time for apologies, you and your partner:

apologize sincerely and make corrections

apologize but then repeat mistakes in a cycle

never talk about it. We'd rather just disappear.

rarely apologize and we let resentment build up

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Your need time alone and your partner is:

fine. I'm alone a lot.

upset and takes it personally

somehow making you feel guilty

respectful and encourages your self-care

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When you think about the relationship, you feel:

Anxious, frustrated

Content, unsure

Happy, optimistic

Drained, toxic, or unhappy

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