In memory of Ruth Melrose Shead (née Asham), April 25, 1915 – May 8, 2012
At just nine years old, Ruth was among the first students to attend the Elkhorn Indian Residential School, alongside two of her siblings. She remained there for three years. Reflecting on her time, Ruth later wrote in her memoirs: “I did not like that place. You can believe what things you hear are all true.”
Ruth rarely spoke of her experiences at Elkhorn, and when she did, it was only with fellow former students. Even then, they often avoided recounting the full weight of what they had endured, instead choosing to reminisce about lighter moments or the mischief they got into.
Despite those early hardships, Ruth went on to build a joyful life with her husband, Harry Shead. Together, they raised seven children. Ruth is fondly remembered for her sharp wit, positivity, infectious laughter, and the deep love she had for her family.
She would be immensely proud of the achievements of her grandchildren and great-grandchildren today. More than anything, Ruth would hold hope and confidence in the potential of Indigenous youth to shape a better future for all.