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Trust/Betrayal Scale for Partners

This 20 question self-screener is designed for people who have experienced betrayal as a result of their partner's infidelity or compulsive sexual behavior (such as sex or pornography addiction). It explores the areas of trust that may have been impacted and the degree to which you feel betrayed. We understand these topics can be sensitive and your results will be kept confidential. 
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    INSTRUCTIONS

    The statements in this assessment explore the feelings and dynamics that currently exist within your relationship.

    When answering, simply choose how much you agree with each statement.

    All responses are confidential.

     

     

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    Understanding Severe Trust Disruption

    Your score is: {yourScore}, which falls into the Severe Trust Disruption Range (0-26)

    Score Breakdown 

    0–26: Severe Trust Disruption

    27–53: Moderate Trust Disruption

    54–80: Low or No Trust Disruption

    Your Score Suggests:

    • You may feel deeply unsafe or unsure in your relationship, with trust feeling shattered or extremely difficult to rebuild.

    • The betrayal may have triggered intense emotional distress, including feelings of abandonment, confusion, hypervigilance, or loss of self-worth.

    • You might experience difficulty distinguishing between past trauma and present behavior, leading to heightened sensitivity or fear around honesty and transparency.

    • The impact of your partner’s behavior—whether infidelity or compulsive sexual behavior—may feel like a core rupture in the relationship, leaving you unsure if or how healing is possible.

    How Therapy Can Help

    • Therapy can provide a safe, supportive space to process the betrayal, validate your pain, and begin healing at your own pace.

    • Rebuild your sense of self, and reconnect with your needs, boundaries, and inner strength.

    • In couples therapy, we help partners repair emotional ruptures, rebuild safety, and engage in the vulnerable, work of restoring trust—if both partners are willing.

    • While healing may take time, there is hope: with the right support, many individuals and couples are able to move from rupture to resilience, creating stronger, more honest connections.

    Next Steps

    If the trust in your relationship has been severely disrupted, remember that healing is possible. Our compassionate, non-judgmental experts are here to help you take the first step.

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     Understanding Moderate Trust Disruption

    Your score is: {yourScore}, which falls into the Moderate Trust Disruption Range (27-53)

     

    Score Breakdown 

    0–26: Severe Trust Disruption

    27–53: Moderate Trust Disruption

    54–80: Low or No Trust Disruption

     

    Your Score Suggests:

    • You may feel uncertain or conflicted about trusting your partner, with moments of connection followed by doubt or emotional withdrawal.

    • There may be lingering hurt or suspicion, even if the relationship feels somewhat stable or efforts at repair have begun.

    • You might find yourself wanting to move forward but feeling emotionally stuck, unsure how to fully rebuild trust or let your guard down.

    • The betrayal has likely impacted specific areas of the relationship, such as emotional intimacy, communication, or sexual safety—even if not every part feels broken.


    How Therapy Can Help

    • Therapy can help you name and validate the pain you’re carrying, even when it feels confusing or hard to access.

    • Individual sessions offer a space to clarify your needs and boundaries, and begin working through emotional blocks or trauma responses.

    • Couples therapy supports both partners in rebuilding trust gradually, learning how to repair, stay accountable, and co-create emotional safety.

    • With time and guidance, therapy can help you move from uncertainty to clarity, fostering growth, connection, and resilience.


    Next Steps

    If you're hoping to regain trust in your partner and start the path toward healing your relationship, our therapists are here to support you with compassion, clarity, and care.

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     Understanding Low or no Trust Disruption

    Your score is: {yourScore}, which falls into the Low to No Trust Disruption Range (54-80).

     

    Score Breakdown 

    0–26: Severe Trust Disruption

    27–53: Moderate Trust Disruption

    54–80: Low or No Trust Disruption

     

    Your Score Suggests:

    • You may feel relatively safe, connected, or emotionally grounded in your relationship, even in the aftermath of difficult experiences.

    • While there may have been hurt or disappointment, you likely maintain a sense of trust or openness, either through repair, honesty, or personal healing.

    • You might feel resilient in your ability to cope, emotionally regulated, and able to reflect without becoming overwhelmed by distress.

    • Some areas of the relationship may still feel tender or in progress, but trust feels largely intact or is actively being rebuilt.


    How Therapy Can Help

    • Therapy can support you in continuing to strengthen trust and emotional safety, even if things already feel relatively stable.

    • Individual work can help you process any remaining layers of hurt, reduce emotional reactivity, and stay connected to your inner wisdom.

    • Couples therapy can be a valuable space to deepen communication, enhance intimacy, and reinforce the positive repair work already underway.

    • Even when trust feels solid, therapy offers an opportunity to build long-term resilience and connection, especially after betrayal or relational strain.


    Next Steps

    If you're in a place of low or minimal trust disruption, therapy can help you continue healing, deepen intimacy, and strengthen the foundation you’re already rebuilding—on your own or with your partner by your side.

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    Subscale Breakdown

    The Trust/Betrayal Scale also measures and provides scores across 4 subscales, which reflect the different dimensions of trust that may be impacted by betrayal.

    1. Emotional Safety & Support (0–20)

    Your Score: {emotionalSafety}

    0–6: Severe Disruption – Your sense of emotional safety and support is severely disrupted. A high level of emotional insecurity, feelings of being misunderstood, and/or a lack of connectedness is present in the relationship. 

    7–13: Moderate Disruption – You may experience some moments of emotional connection with your partner, but still frequently doubt your emotional safety or whether your needs will be met.

    14–20: Low to No Disruption – You are experiencing a growing or consistent sense of emotional safety. You are confident that your partner is prioritizing your needs and has the ability to meet them.

    2. Honesty, Transparency, & Accountability (0–24)

    Your Score: {honestytransparencyScore}

    0–8: Severe Disruption– You may feel deeply distrustful of your partner, having frequent doubts about their honesty, transparency, or ability to take meaningful accountability for their actions. The lack of clarity or follow-through may feel ongoing and emotionally overwhelming.

    9–16: Moderate Disruption– Efforts toward truth-telling and openness are evident, but not yet consistent enough to fully ease hypervigilance or mistrust.

    17–24: Low Disruption– You’re likely noticing a clear pattern of honesty, openness, and follow-through from your partner. As a result, you may feel more able to relax, let your guard down, and begin trusting their words and actions again.

     

    3. Sexual Safety & Fidelity (0–20)

    Your Score: {fidelityScore}

    0–6: Severe Disruption– Frequent fears about relapse, betrayal, and/or sexual secrecy are present; trust in this area remains fragile or unstable.

    7–13: Moderate Disruption– Some reassurance or improvement is present, but doubts about sexual fidelity or safety still arise.

    14–20: Low Disruption – Confidence in sexual trust is strong; open communication and boundaries around intimacy feel respected and secure.

     

    4. Residual Betrayal Impact (0–16)

    Your Score: {residualBetrayal}

    0–5: Severe Disruption – Betrayal-related pain (e.g., fear, shame, isolation) remains intense and present in daily life.

    6–10: Moderate Disruption– Emotional wounds are still felt but may be softening; the betrayal is no longer at the center of everyday experience.

    11–16: Low Disruption– Lingering effects have begun to heal; the individual feels more like themselves again and less defined by the betrayal.

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    What's Next?

    You will be sent a copy of your scores if you've provided your email address.

    If you marked that you are interested in counseling services, our Client Care Coordinator will be in touch within 24 hours to connect you with one of our experts.

    Please feel free to reach out to our Client Care Coordinator, Cassie Clayton, if you have any questions in the meantime!

    Email : clientcare@newpathfamily.com

    Text or Call: (408) 475-2746

     

    DISCLAIMER:

    This assessment is intended for informational and self-reflection purposes only.

    It was developed by our clinical team as a tool to help individuals better understand their current experience of trust disruption following betrayal in a relationship.

    It is not a diagnostic tool and does not replace professional mental health care, therapy, or medical advice. Results should be interpreted with care and may not reflect all aspects of your situation or relationship dynamics.

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