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  • Couple's Compatibility Assessment

  • This assessment is designed to help you and your partner gain deeper insight into your relationship’s strengths and problem areas. By choosing to begin couples therapy, you’ve already taken an important step toward building a healthier, stronger connection. Your responses here will help guide our work together and create a clear roadmap for meaningful conversation, healing, and growth.

    The assessment is divided into six sections, each focused on a different aspect of relationship health. Your responses will help us quickly identify key themes and areas of focus for your counseling sessions. While it typically takes about 20 minutes to complete, you are encouraged to take your time and answer thoughtfully and honestly. There are no right or wrong answers — only your truth! 

  • Part I: Values and Lifestyle Alignment

    Shared values and compatible lifestyles make the daily grind and major life decisions easier to navigate. This section looks at alignment in areas like core beliefs, goals, family dynamics, spirituality, and routines.

    Rate your agreement with each statement based on how you experience the relationship.

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  • Part II: Emotional and Relational Dynamics

    Emotional intimacy, trust, and day-to-day connection are the backbone of a lasting relationship. This section gauges each partner's ability to show vulnerability, offer empathy, build safety, and recover from emotional injuries. Healthy emotional dynamics create security even during hard seasons.

    Rate your agreement with each statement based on how you experience the relationship.

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  • Part III: Communication and Conflict Management

    Strong relationships are built on clear, respectful communication and healthy conflict resolution. This section explores how each partner expresses themselves, handles disagreements, manages emotional intensity, and repairs after conflict.

    Rate your agreement with each statement based on how you experience the relationship.

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  • Part IV: Physical and Sexual Connection

    Physical touch and sexual intimacy are critical forms of connection for many couples. It's not just about sex—it's about feeling seen, wanted, and safe. This section assesses satisfaction, communication around needs, affection, and comfort levels with physical closeness. 

    Rate your agreement with each statement based on how you experience the relationship.

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  • Part V: Commitment and Growth Orientation

    Relationships thrive when both partners are willing to adapt, take accountability, and invest in long-term growth. This section measures resilience, teamwork, willingness to sacrifice, and the ability to bounce back after challenges.

    Rate your agreement with each statement based on how you experience the relationship.

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  • Part VI: Personal Reflections and Relationship Vision

    Beyond compatibility, relationships thrive when partners stay intentional about growth, self-awareness, and shared goals. This section invites deeper reflection on each individual’s contributions, needs, hopes, and vision for the future. Honest answers here can uncover hidden strengths, unmet needs, and dreams that deserve more attention.

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