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Blended Family-Child-Adaptation and Well‐Being Scale (BF-Child‐AWBS-24)

This brief questionnaire is designed for minor and adult children in blended families. It measures their adjustment and emotional well-being across four subscales: Relationship with Biological Parent, Relationship with Stepparent, Family Identity & Cohesion, and Emotional Security & Adaptation.
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    INSTRUCTIONS

    Read each statement and rate how strongly you agree or disagree based on your current experiences in your family.

    All responses are confidential.

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    Severe Challenges in Blended Family Life

    Your total score is: {total}, which falls into the Severe Challenges in Blended Family Life range (24–57)

    Score Breakdown

    24–57: Severe challenges in blended family life

    58–91: Moderate challenges in blended family life

    92–120: Mild challenges in blended family life


    Your Score Suggests:

    • You might be feeling distant or misunderstood in your blended family right now.

    • It could be hard to talk openly with your biological parent or stepparent, and you may feel like no one really “gets” what you're going through.

    • You may not feel like a real part of the family, or like you’re being left out, ignored, or not taken seriously. It’s also possible that the changes in your family have made home feel tense, stressful, or unpredictable.

    • If there’s a lot of arguing or tension in your home, it can feel exhausting—like there’s nowhere safe to just be yourself or relax.

    How Therapy Can Help

    • Feeling this way doesn't mean something is wrong with you—it means you’re dealing with something really difficult, and you deserve support.

    • Therapy gives you a space to talk things through without judgment. A therapist can help you figure out what you’re feeling, how to say what you need, and how to deal with stress or conflict in healthier ways.

    • You're not alone in this. Many people in blended families struggle with big emotions and hard changes. With support, things can get better—at home and inside yourself.

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    Moderate Challenges in Blended Family Life

    Your total score is: {total}, which falls into the Moderate Challenges in Blended Family Life range (58–91)


    Score Breakdown

    24–57: Severe challenges in blended family life

    58–91: Moderate challenges in blended family life

    92–120: Mild challenges in blended family life


    Your Score Suggests:

    • Some parts of your blended family life may be going smoothly, but other areas might still feel uncertain or stressful at times.

    • You might occasionally struggle to connect or communicate with your biological parent or stepparent in the way you'd like.

    • There may be moments when you feel left out, not fully understood, or unsure about your role in the family.

    • While things aren’t extremely difficult, there are likely areas where more support, understanding, or change could help you feel more comfortable and connected at home.


    How Therapy Can Help

    • You don’t have to wait until things feel overwhelming to ask for support—therapy can be helpful even when the challenges feel “in the middle.”

    • A therapist can help you talk through what’s working, what isn’t, and how to handle difficult emotions or situations in your family.

    • You can learn new ways to communicate and feel more heard by both your biological parent and stepparent.

    • With support, it’s possible to build stronger family bonds and feel more confident in your place at home.
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    Mild Challenges in Blended Family Life

    Your total score is: {total}, which falls into the Mild Challenges in Blended Family Life range (92–120)


    Score Breakdown

    24–57: Severe challenges in blended family life

    58–91: Moderate challenges in blended family life

    92–120: Mild challenges in blended family life


    Your Score Suggests:

    • You seem to be adjusting well to life in your blended family and may feel generally supported and understood at home.

    • Your relationships with your biological parent and stepparent likely feel stable, respectful, and open.

    • You may feel a sense of belonging and connection with your family, even if occasional conflicts or tough days still come up.

    • While every family has challenges, your responses suggest you’ve found ways to cope, communicate, and feel emotionally safe.


    How Therapy Can Help:

    • Even when things are going well, therapy can still be a space to check in, strengthen relationships, or explore your feelings more deeply.

    • You might want support with changes in school, friendships, or other parts of life that affect how you feel at home.

    • Therapy can also help you build on what’s working—like communication or emotional coping—so you continue to feel strong and supported.

    • If future challenges come up, you’ll already have tools and strategies to help you stay grounded and connected.
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    Subscale Breakdown

    In addition to providing a Total Score, the Blended Family-Child-Adaptation and Well-Being Scale (BF-Child-AWBS-24) explores four key areas of a child’s adjustment to blended family life: Relationship with Biological Parent, Relationship with Stepparent, Family Identity & Cohesion, and Emotional Security & Adaptation.


    1. Relationship with Biological Parent
    Your Score: {communicationampamp}

    6–13: Severe Strain – You may feel misunderstood, distant, or disconnected from your biological parent, with communication or emotional support being limited.

    14–22: Moderate Strain – While some positive communication may exist, you might still struggle to feel truly understood or supported by your biological parent.

    23–30: Mild Strain – You likely share a close, supportive, and open relationship with your biological parent, with frequent meaningful communication and emotional connection.


    2. Relationship with Stepparent
    Your Score: {stepparentRelationship}

    6–13: Severe Strain – You may feel uncomfortable or distant from your stepparent, with limited communication or difficulty building a trusting relationship.

    14–22: Moderate Strain – Some positive interactions may exist, but emotional closeness or trust might still be a work in progress with your stepparent.

    23–30: Mild Strain – You and your stepparent likely have a strong and positive relationship, characterized by mutual respect, open communication, and emotional support.



    3. Family Identity & Cohesion
    Your Score: {familyCohesion}

    6–13: Severe Strain – You might feel excluded or disconnected from the family, struggling to see yourself as part of the blended unit, and experiencing tension or conflict.

    14–22: Moderate Strain – You may feel partially included, but there may still be moments of exclusion or uncertainty about your role and place within the family.

    23–30: Mild Strain – You likely feel a strong sense of belonging and connection with your blended family, enjoying quality time together and feeling supported by family members.



    4. Emotional Security & Adaptation
    Your Score: {emotionalSecurity}

    6–13: Severe Strain – You may feel unsafe or stressed at home, with emotional conflicts or a lack of support during tough times.

    14–22: Moderate Strain – While you might generally feel safe, you may still experience stress or anxiety about family changes or conflicts that impact your emotional well-being.

    23–30: Mild Strain – You likely feel secure and supported at home, with your family helping you through tough times and providing emotional stability.



    Next Steps

    Reflect on Your Results:

    Look at the subscales where you scored the lowest—these areas may need more attention. Whether it's improving communication with your biological parent or stepparent, or working on feeling more connected to your family, focusing on these areas can improve your overall well-being.

    Consider Support:

    Navigating blended family life can be tough, and it’s okay to ask for help. Therapy can support you in improving relationships with your biological parent, stepparent, or other family members. It can also help you develop better ways to communicate and feel more emotionally secure.

    Track Your Progress:

    Family dynamics evolve, and your relationships may shift as time goes on. Consider retaking this assessment after focusing on key areas to measure your growth, or whenever significant family changes happen, to track your emotional well-being and adaptation.

     

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    What's Next?

    You will be sent a copy of your scores if you've provided your email address.

    If you marked that you are interested in counseling services, our Client Care Coordinator will be in touch within 24 hours to connect you with one of our experts.

    Please feel free to reach out to our Client Care Coordinator, Cassie Clayton, if you have any questions in the meantime!

    Email : clientcare@newpathfamily.com

    Text or Call: (408) 475-2746

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    Disclaimer:

    ​​This questionnaire is designed to offer helpful insights and promote self-reflection. It can be a useful starting point for understanding common patterns and challenges in blended-family dynamics. Many individuals find it valuable for exploring their experiences and opening up meaningful conversations, whether with a partner, therapist, or coach.


    That said, this tool is still in development and has not been validated through formal scientific research. While the questions are grounded in commonly reported themes, the questionnaire’s reliability and accuracy have not been formally established. It should not be used as a diagnostic tool or a substitute for professional evaluation.

    For personalized guidance, we encourage you to consult with one of our clinicians.

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