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Autistic Sexual Intimacy Measure (ASIM-24)

This brief questionnaire is designed for individuals seeking insight into their level of understanding and comfortability when it comes to sexual intimacy. It measures knowledge, sensory comfort, consent skills, and relationship communication.
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    INSTRUCTIONS

    Read each statement and rate how well it applies to you. 

    All responses are confidential.

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    Understanding Scores in the Strong Foundation Range

    Your total score is: {total}, which falls into the Strong Foundation range (89–120).

    Score Breakdown

    24–56: High Support Needed

    57–88:
    Growth Zone

    89–120: Strong Foundation


    Your Score Suggests:

    • You have a solid and well-integrated understanding of intimacy.

    • You likely feel informed about your own sexual health, preferences, and responses.

    • You may have effective strategies for managing sensory input during intimacy and recognizing what feels pleasurable or overwhelming.

    • Your responses suggest you're not only aware of your needs and preferences but are able to communicate them in ways that support connection, safety, and mutual respect.


    How Therapy or Continued Growth Can Help

    Having a strong foundation means you're starting from a place of clarity, comfort, and competence. But growth doesn't stop here.

    • A neurodiversity-informed therapist can help you explore advanced or nuanced aspects of intimacy—like deepening mutual pleasure, navigating shifts in desire, or exploring intimacy through a trauma-informed lens.

    • Therapy can offer space to process past invalidation or pressure and continue shaping a version of intimacy that truly works for you.

    • This range reflects real strengths. Now may be the perfect time to build on them—with curiosity, celebration, and intentional exploration.
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    Understanding Scores in the Growth Zone Range

    Your total score is: {total}, which falls into the Growth Zone (57–88).


    Score Breakdown

    24–56: High Support Needed

    57–88: Growth Zone

    89–120: Strong Foundation


    Your Score Suggests:

    • You may have a good starting point in some areas of intimacy, but other areas could feel uncertain, unfamiliar, or inconsistent.

    • You might feel fairly comfortable with certain topics—like sexual health or communication—but find challenges in others, such as sensory regulation, setting boundaries, or understanding your body's responses.

    • It’s possible that past invalidation, a lack of tailored education, or unmet sensory needs have created gaps in knowledge or confidence.

    • Your responses suggest you’re in a great position to build clarity and skills with the right tools and support.



    How Therapy or Continued Growth Can Help

    • This score range is an opportunity—not a limitation. You already have a meaningful foundation to build from.

    • Therapy can provide a supportive space to unpack internalized messages about sex, relationships, or neurodivergence that may be impacting your confidence or comfort.

    • Therapy can also support you in developing language for your needs, processing mixed feelings about intimacy, and creating experiences that feel safe, affirming, and aligned with who you are.

    • You're not starting from scratch—you’re refining, exploring, and growing into your full sense of agency and comfort.
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    Understanding scores in the High Support Needed range

    Your total score is: {total}, which falls into the High Support Needed range (24–56).


    Score Breakdown

    24–56: High Support Needed

    57–88: Growth Zone

    89–120: Strong Foundation


    Your Score Suggests:

    • You may be facing multiple barriers when it comes to sexual self-understanding, sensory comfort, or relationship communication.

    • Some areas—such as expressing boundaries, understanding your body’s responses, or navigating consent—may feel confusing, overwhelming, or even distressing.

    • Sensory experiences related to touch, arousal, or physical closeness might be unpredictable or difficult to regulate.

    • You may also feel unsure about how to talk about intimacy, especially if you've had invalidating experiences or lacked access to neurodivergent-affirming education.

    • Your responses suggest that additional support, safety, and clarity are needed before intimacy can feel safe, empowering, or enjoyable.


    How Therapy or Additional Support Can Help

    You deserve relationships and intimate experiences that feel affirming—not confusing or draining. Support is available.

    • A neuro-informed therapist can help you slow things down, build safety, and explore intimacy on your terms—without pressure or shame.

    • Individual sessions can focus on psychoeducation, emotion regulation, and sensory mapping to help you understand what feels safe or dysregulating.
    • Therapy can also support safety planning or help set boundaries in existing relationships while you build internal clarity and self-trust.

    • This range doesn’t define your potential—it highlights where compassionate, customized support can help you grow toward confidence and connection.

     

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    Subscale Breakdown

    In addition to your Total Score, the Autistic Intimacy & Mindfulness Measure (AIM-24) explores four key areas of neurodivergent intimacy and relational insight. Each subscale score ranges from 6–30.


    Sexual Knowledge & Understanding 

    Your Score: {communicationampamp}

    6–12: High Support Needed– You may feel unsure about your body, sexual responses, or how to access reliable information that reflects your identity and experiences.

    13–17: Growth Zone– You have some awareness of sexual health and your own preferences but may benefit from more affirming, accessible education.


    18–30: Strong Foundation– You likely feel informed and confident about your sexual self—your responses, needs, and how to stay safe and connected during sexual experiences.


    Sensory Comfort & Regulation

    Your Score: {sensoryComfort}


    6–12: High Support Needed – Sensory input related to intimacy (e.g., touch, pressure, temperature) may feel unpredictable or overwhelming, and it might be hard to know what works for you.

    13–17: Growth Zone – You might feel comfortable with certain sensations or environments but still face challenges in others, depending on mood, setting, or trust.

    18–30: Strong Foundation – You likely have a clear sense of what sensory experiences feel good, neutral, or dysregulating—and can adjust accordingly to support safety and pleasure.


    Boundaries & Consent Self‑Advocacy

    Your Score: {boundariesampamp}


    6–12: High Support Needed– You may struggle to identify, express, or enforce boundaries and may feel pressure to go along with others’ expectations in intimate situations.

    13–17: Growth Zone – You are building skills in setting limits and expressing your needs but may still hesitate or feel anxious in high-stakes or unfamiliar situations.

    18–30: Strong Foundation – You likely feel equipped to set boundaries, communicate limits, and advocate for consent in ways that are clear, respectful, and self-protective.



    Relationship Communication Confidence

    Your Score: {communication}

    6–12: High Support Needed– Talking about needs, emotions, or intimate topics may feel confusing, intimidating, or prone to misunderstandings.


    13–17: Growth Zone – You may feel comfortable communicating in some situations but struggle with clarity, timing, or repair in others.

    18–30: Strong Foundation – You likely feel grounded and capable when expressing yourself in relationships, even when navigating emotional or vulnerable conversations.

     

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    Disclaimer:

    ​​This questionnaire is designed to offer helpful insights and promote self-reflection. It can be a useful starting point for understanding common patterns and challenges related to intimacy. Many individuals find it valuable for exploring their experiences and opening up meaningful conversations, whether with a partner, therapist, or coach.


    That said, this tool is still in development and has not been validated through formal scientific research. While the questions are grounded in commonly reported themes, the questionnaire’s reliability and accuracy have not been formally established. It should not be used as a diagnostic tool or a substitute for professional evaluation.

    For personalized guidance, we encourage you to consult with one of our clinicians.

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    What's Next?

    You will be sent a copy of your scores if you've provided your email address.

    If you marked that you are interested in counseling services, our Client Care Coordinator will be in touch within 24 hours to connect you with one of our experts.

    Please Note: If you provided an email address, you will be added to our mailing list. However, you can reach out to unsubscribe at any time.

    Please feel free to reach out to our Client Care Coordinator, Cassie Clayton, if you have any questions in the meantime!

    Email : clientcare@newpathfamily.com

    Text or Call: (408) 475-2746

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