The People Pleaser
Hidden Belief: “My worth depends on others"
You’re the helper. The one who shows up, who anticipates needs, who says “yes” even when you're running on empty. You genuinely care, but deep down, there’s a thread of fear: What if I let someone down? What if I’m not liked?
You’ve learned to put others first, even when it costs you your time, energy or boundaries. You twist yourself into shapes to be what others need and then wonder why you feel so lost, so unseen, so far from yourself.
You may find your identity wrapped up in being liked, needed or seen as “good.” You seek external reassurance to validate your worth, which leaves you at the mercy of other people’s opinions, moods or expectations.
This belief may have formed early, at a time when love felt conditional or when approval kept you safe. Now, your worth feels tied to keeping the peace and keeping others happy.
What you need most: To reclaim your voice and know that your needs are just as valid as anyone else’s. You don’t need to prove your goodness or earn your worth through self-sacrifice. Boundaries are not rejection, they’re acts of self-respect.
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