Romance Scam

Section 1

Background Context
Age group at time of request
Gender
Type of Scam you experienced
Section 2

How it began
Where did the scammer first contact you?
Facebook, Instagram, WhatsApp, dating app, email
Did the scammer request you to move to a different platform to chat?
e.g. Telegram, Discord
What made you trust this person or believe their story initially?
e.g., emotional connection, fake credentials, pictures, shared interests
How long did the interaction last before they asked for money or made a threat?
What was the story or situation they used to ask for money or threaten you?
e.g., medical emergency, military deployment, work accident, threat to release private images
Section 3

Financial & Emotional Impact
Approximately how much money did you lose?
Indicate in local currency or USD
How were funds transferred? (check all that apply)

Other
Were you asked to send any personal images, videos, or sensitive documents?
If yes, were those materials later used to threaten or extort you?
How did you feel during and after the scam?
Please share as much as you're comfortable with — emotions, self-blame, fear, anger, confusion, etc.
Section 4

Reporting & Recovery
Did you report the scam to anyone?
If you reported it, was any action taken?
What helped you begin the healing or recovery process?
e.g., talking to someone, therapy, time, support group, etc.
Section 5

Advice & Awareness
Looking back, were there any red flags or warning signs you missed?
e.g., refusing video calls, inconsistent stories, asking for secrecy
What advice would you give to others to avoid falling victim to a similar scam?
Is there anything else you'd like to share about your experience that you think could help others?
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