Abundance Blockage Decoder
1. How do you usually feel when money enters your life unexpectedly?
A. Excited but guilty
B. Grateful but worried it won’t last
C. Like I have to immediately use it for someone else
D. Anxious and unsure what to do with it
E. Like it’s premature — I haven’t done enough to deserve it yet.
2. What’s your relationship with receiving compliments or help?
A. I deflect or make a joke
B. I say thanks but feel uncomfortable
C. I immediately try to give something in return
D. I prefer to do things alone
E. I feel awkward and think I need to “earn it” first.
3. When you imagine having total financial freedom, what emotion surfaces first?
A. Doubt
B. Fear
C. Pressure
D. Disbelief
E. Guilt
4. How did your caregivers model money growing up?
A. Money = worth or success
B. Money = danger or instability
C. Money = sacrifice or people-pleasing
D. Money = control and restriction
E. Money = sacrifice or years of hard work.
5. What belief feels most familiar?
A. “I have to earn my worth.”
B. “If I have too much, something bad might happen.”
C. “It’s selfish to want more when others have less.”
D. “I can’t let go or things will fall apart.”
E. “I can have what I want… once I’ve done more healing/growth.”
6. How do you feel about investing in yourself?
A. I hesitate — am I worth it?
B. I feel nervous about what could go wrong
C. I think about who else I could help with that money
D. I need to be 100% certain and in control first
E. I tell myself I’ll do it later — once I’m more ‘ready’ or ‘proven.’
7. What’s your reaction to an unexpected opportunity?
A. “Do I really deserve this?”
B. “What’s the catch?”
C. “How can I repay this?”
D. “Let me double-check everything first”
E. “This is great, but I need to fix some things before I can say yes.”
8. When something good happens, what’s your follow-up thought?
A. “Don’t celebrate too much…”
B. “What if this doesn’t last?”
C. “Who do I need to thank?”
D. “What do I need to fix now?”
E. “I hope I’ve earned this. Maybe I should wait before celebrating.”
9. What do you fear most about abundance?
A. Being judged
B. Losing it suddenly
C. Becoming selfish or disconnected
D. Losing control or being vulnerable
E. That I’ll sabotage it by not being ready enough when it arrives.
10. When it comes to your goals…
A. I worry I’m not good enough
B. I hold back from dreaming too big
C. I prioritize everyone else’s needs first
D. I overanalyze and wait for “the perfect time”
E. I plan and plan — but rarely let myself take big leaps.
11. What area feels most tense in your body when thinking about money?
A. Heart or chest
B. Stomach or lower back
C. Shoulders or neck
D. Head or jaw
E. Solar plexus — like I’m holding back my power and momentum.
12. What role have you played in your family dynamics?
A. The achiever or peacekeeper
B. The sensitive or anxious one
C. The helper or caretaker
D. The independent or strong one
E. The “good one” who doesn’t rock the boat or get too bold.
13. Which affirmation makes you squirm a little?
A. “I am inherently worthy of wealth.”
B. “It is safe to receive more.”
C. “I can receive without giving.”
D. “I trust the universe to support me.”
E. “I can have it now. I don’t need to wait or earn it.”
14. If money were a person, how would you describe your relationship?
A. Distant and conditional
B. Hot and cold
C. One-sided
D. Controlled and transactional
E. A helpful friend I keep postponing plans with.
15. Complete the sentence: Receiving more would mean…
A. I have to become more perfect.
B. I’m putting myself at risk.
C. I owe something to someone.
D. I lose structure and stability.
E. I’ve skipped steps — and that feels wrong somehow.
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