Are you really ready for a healthy, joyful relationship?

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Current Age* This field is required.
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Gender* This field is required.
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Sexual Orientation* This field is required.
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Are you currently in a romantic relationship?* This field is required.
No, I"m single
It's new or undefined
Yes, and we're happy
Yes, but things feel off or disconnected
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How confident do you feel about dating/relationships right now?* This field is required.Scale: 1 (Anxious and unsure) to 10 (Grounded and confident)
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Anxious & Unsure
Grounded & Confident
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How well are you taking care of yourself physically and emotionally?* This field is required.
I’m thriving: consistent routines, therapy/growth work, good boundaries
I'm stable but inconsistent
I feel scattered, overwhelmed, or avoidant
I'm not sure what taking care of myself even looks like
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How do you feel about dating right now?* This field is required.Your inner vibe counts most!
Excited and open
Cautiously optimistic
Tired or discouraged
Anxious or overwhelmed
Disconnected or unsure why I’m even trying
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What best describes your dating mindset?* This field is required.Your inner vibe counts most!
I know my worth and what I want
I want connection but struggle with trust or vulnerability
I want a relationship, but commitment feels scary
I keep repeating patterns that don’t serve me
I’m still figuring out if I want to date
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What's your emotional energy like these days?* This field is required.Your inner vibe counts most!
Grounded and grateful
Curious but cautious
Emotionally foggy or flat
Raw, tender, or still healing
Confident and full of joy
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When dating doesn’t go the way you hoped, how do you usually respond?* This field is required.
I bounce back — it’s all part of learning
I reflect and use it to grow
I spiral into overthinking or shutdown
I question my worth or blame myself
I feel numb and move on fast
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What are you craving most in your life right now?* This field is required.
Fun and lightness
Emotional safety and depth
Confidence and clarity
A true partner to build with
Time to reflect or re-center
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How do you usually show up on dates or in new connections? * This field is required.
Present, playful, and open
Friendly but guarded
Anxious or people-pleasing
Distracted or overly self-conscious
Calm, curious, and self-aware
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Which one of these is true?* This field is required.
I’m starting to date or re-entering after a break
I’ve dated a lot but feel frustrated or stuck
I’m actively working on myself while dating
I’ve met someone I’m excited about
I’m not dating right now — I’m healing or reflecting
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What's your current dating strategy?* This field is required.
I mostly use apps
I meet people through friends or real life
I try events or hobbies with connection in mind
I barely meet anyone — I feel stuck or avoidant
I’m in something undefined right now
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What belief do you hold (maybe unconsciously) about love?* This field is required.
Love takes effort and alignment
If it’s meant to be, it should feel easy
I’m too much / not enough
I’m not sure I’ll ever find my person
Healthy love is possible, even if I’ve never had it
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What's your current relationship with yourself?* This field is required.
I deeply trust myself
I’m learning to show up for myself more consistently
I’m often hard on myself
I’m still learning what self-worth feels like
I feel lost in my own needs and desires
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How would you describe the emotional energy in your relationship?
Warm, playful, and growing
Safe and steady
A little off — we’re not fully connecting
Tense, distant, or uncertain
I’m not sure how I feel
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What are you most craving in your partnership right now?
More fun and lightness
Emotional depth or spiritual connection
Physical closeness and affection
Clarity and alignment
Space and understanding
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What happens when you and your partner face conflict or disconnection?
We communicate openly and repair quickly
We try, but it often gets messy or unresolved
One or both of us shuts down
I avoid it, or fear rocking the boat
We don’t fight much, but there’s a quiet distance
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How emotionally seen and understood do you feel by your partner?
Consistently — I feel known and accepted
Sometimes, but I often feel misunderstood
Rarely — I long for deeper connection
I’m not sure — I don’t fully share myself
It’s growing — we’re learning how
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Which of these feels most true?
Our relationship is strong and supportive
We’re growing but have work to do
We’re in a tender or quiet season
I feel unsure if we’re still aligned
I want more but don’t know how to get there
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What belief do you (maybe unconsciously) hold about love?* This field is required.
It grows through effort, honesty, and care
It should feel easy if it’s right
I have to hold it all together
Love always fades eventually
I want to believe healthy love is possible
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How do you take care of your emotional and physical needs within this relationship?* This field is required.
I’m grounded in routines and self-care
I’m learning how to prioritize myself
I often put my needs last
I rely on my partner to meet most needs
I’ve disconnected from my own needs
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What kind of growth would you love to experience together?* This field is required.
More emotional intimacy
Shared goals and vision
Playfulness and laughter
Honest conversations and healing
I’m not sure — I just want to feel closer
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How do you feel about your relationship's future?* This field is required.
Hopeful and inspired
Grounded and committed
Uncertain but open
Anxious or disconnected
I want to rekindle or repair
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What's something you haven't expressed but wish your partner understood? * This field is required.
Huge
Large
Normal
Small
Ok
Ok
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How connected do you feel to friends, family, or community right now?
Very connected; I have people I can rely on
Moderately connected; I have some close relationships
Somewhat isolated; I’m missing connection
Very isolated; I feel alone most of the time
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What matters most to you in your romantic life right now?
Clarity, healing, and building trust in myself
Fun, excitement, and trying new things
Playfulness, connection, and emotional intimacy
Security, stability, and deepening a committed relationship
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Are you open to support, tools, or community that could help you grow in love - either solo or together?* This field is required.
Yes - I'd love guidance
Maybe - I'm exploring
I'm more of a self-starter
Not right now
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Single Season Calculation
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Relationship Season Calculation
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