Code of Conduct
Trinity Church’s Code of Conduct outlines specific expectations of staff, volunteers and individuals in the church for all ministries and programs.
Abuse or Mistreatment
Trinity’s top priority is keeping all persons safe with special regard to children, youth and vulnerable adults. Any form of abuse, mistreatment, verbal or emotional abuse, inappropriate sexual activity, or bullying of or between employees, volunteers, members, constituents, visitors or guests of any age, race or religion is prohibited.
Use of abusive language, obscene or profane language, including racial, religious or sexual references directed at other people will not be tolerated.
It is important to treat others as you would like to be treated.
Appropriate Verbal Interactions for Children and Youth:
Appropriate jokes • Encouragement • Praise
Inappropriate Verbal Interactions for Children and Youth:
Name-calling • Bullying • Ridicule or Humiliation • Discussing sexual encounters • Cursing • Hazing • Off-color or sexual jokes • Shaming • Belittling • Derogatory remarks • Harsh language that may frighten, threaten, or humiliate other consumer • Derogatory remarks about another consumer or his/her family • Inappropriate games like Truth or Dare and Never Have I Ever
Appropriate Physical Interactions for Children and Youth:
Side hugs/ Shoulder-to-shoulder or “temple” hugs/ Pats on the shoulder or back/ Handshakes/High-fives and hand slapping/ Verbal praise/ Pats on the head when culturally appropriate/ Touching hands, shoulders, and arms/ Arms around shoulders
Inappropriate Physical Interactions for Children and Youth:
Full-frontal hugs • Kisses • Showing affection in isolated areas • Lap sitting • Wrestling • Piggyback rides • Tickling • Exposing oneself • Any type of massage given by or to a consumer • Any form of affection that is unwanted by the consumer or the staff or volunteer • Compliments relating to physique or body development • Touching bottom, chest, or genital areas • Hitting • Spanking • Shaking • Slapping • Unnecessary restraints • Viewing or showing others pornographic materials
Personal Relationships
Appropriate personal relationships between youth are encouraged. However, Trinity strongly discourages romantic relationships between youth participants while in programming. Youth are not permitted to hold hands, sit on others’ laps, use full-frontal hugs, or kiss other youth participants while in programming. There should never be, under any condition, a romantic or otherwise personal relationship between a youth participant and an employee or volunteer.
One-on-one Interactions
Most abuse occurs when an adult is alone with a child, youth or vulnerable adult, or when a child, youth or vulnerable adult is alone with another child, youth or vulnerable adult. Trinity aims to eliminate or reduce these situations and prohibits private one-on-one interactions. If you observe one-on-one interactions between employees or volunteers and a child, youth or vulnerable adult, you should report it immediately to:
- The Program or Ministry Director/Supervisor
- The Church Administrator
- The Pastor
- Anyone on the Leadership Council
Electronic Communication
All communication between employees/volunteers and a child, youth or vulnerable adult must be approved by the parents/guardians and must be in an open electronic environment. The “Rule of Three” must be observed in all electronic communications between children, youth and vulnerable adults and employees/volunteers. For example, there should be two employees/volunteers included in text messages and emails with a child, youth or vulnerable adult. Direct, private messaging between a child, youth or vulnerable adult and employees/volunteers is not allowed.
Youth will comply with the organization’s policies governing the use of personal mobile communication devices. Alcohol, Drugs, and Tobacco Possession and/or use of alcoholic beverages, drugs and tobacco products while on the property of Trinity Church is strictly prohibited. Youth will not be permitted to participate in any church ministry or program while under the influence of alcohol, drugs, or illicit substances. Parents/guardians will be notified as appropriate.
Weapons
We want Trinity Church to be a safe place for all. Weapons and items that may be considered weapons are prohibited with the exception of authorized security personal. Parents/guardians, and/or the authorities will be notified as appropriate.
Violence
Trinity Church seeks to provide a safe environment for individuals in our community. Violence and threats of violence will not be tolerated on our grounds, in the church building, in other facilities being utilized by any of our groups or ministries, or during Trinity Church sponsored activities and events. Employees and Ministry Volunteers are available to assist in the resolution of differences.
Disruptive Behavior
We take pride in the appearance of our church property and we always want to ensure all people are safe. Inappropriate or disruptive behavior is not permitted in our church or on the property. This includes, but is not limited to, graffiti, littering, spitting, or throwing objects that could intentionally or unintentionally harm others or cause disorder.
Bullying
Trinity Church will not tolerate the mistreatment or abuse of one person by another person. Bullying is aggressive behavior that is intentional, is repeated over time, and involves an imbalance of power or strength. Bullying can take on various forms including:
1. Physical bullying – when one person engages in physical force against another person, such as by hitting, punching, pushing, kicking, pinching, or restraining another.
2. Verbal bullying – when someone uses their words to hurt another, such as by belittling or calling another hurtful name.
3. Nonverbal or relational bullying – when one person manipulates a relationship or desired relationship to harm another person. This includes social exclusion, friendship manipulation, or gossip. This type of bullying also includes intimidating another person by using gestures.
4. Cyberbullying – the intentional and overt act of aggression toward another person by way of any technological tool, such as email, instant messages, text messages, digital pictures or images, or website postings (including blogs).
Cyberbullying can involve:
1. Sending mean, vulgar, or threatening messages or images.
2. Posting sensitive, private information about another person.
3. Pretending to be someone else in order to make that person look bad;
4. Intentionally excluding someone from an online group.
5. Hazing – an activity expected of someone joining or participating in a group that humiliates, degrades, abuses, or endangers that person regardless of that person’s willingness to participate.
6. Sexualized bullying – when bullying involves behaviors that are sexual in nature. Examples of sexualized bullying behaviors include sexting, bullying that involves exposures of private body parts, and verbal bullying involving sexualized language or innuendos.
Anyone who sees an act of bullying, and who then encourages it, is engaging in bullying. This policy applies to all persons at the church including but not limited to, employees, and volunteers.
Reporting
Because our church is dedicated to maintaining zero tolerance for abuse, it is imperative that everyone actively participates in keeping others safe. In the event that you observe any suspicious or inappropriate behaviors and/or policy violations, it is your personal responsibility to immediately report your observations.
Examples of Suspicious or Inappropriate Behaviors Between Employees/Volunteers and Persons at the church with special attention to children, youth and vulnerable adults:
- Violation of any abuse prevention policies outlined by the organization
- Seeking private time or one-on-one time with a child, youth or vulnerable adult
- Buying gifts for individual child, youth or vulnerable adult
- Making suggestive comments to anyone in the church or church property
- Picking favorites
People are encouraged to report concerns or complaints about any suspicious or inappropriate behaviors they observe at the church or on church property to:
- The Program or Ministry Director/Supervisor
- The Church Administrator
- The Pastor
- Anyone on the Leadership Council