Kelly's Dreamland

Step 1: duration (5-9 minutes)

Our Process

There are three steps to becoming a member to our private community of 4k+ members.

1. Vetting (5–9 minutes)
- Identity verification
- Lifestyle alignment
- Safety and substance use screening
- Consent, conduct, and community standards
- Scenario based awareness
- Purpose for participation
2. Membership Registration (10 minutes)
- Review of community policies
- Membership tier selection
- One time membership fee ($25)
3. Event Access (5–7 minutes)
- Purchase of event user fee
- Pricing varies by membership tier
Personal Verification
Legal Full Name*

First NameLast Name
E-mail*
example@example.com
Phone Number*

Area CodePhone Number
Preferred Pronouns*
Occupation*
Date of Birth*

MonthDayYear
Date
Were you referred by anyone, if so who?*
Please upload a photo of you with your ID card. If it is blurry or covered your vetting will be declined.*
Social Media Account*
Social Media Account Screen Name*
Social Media Account*
Social Media Account Screen Name*
Lifestyle Identity
If approved, what is your preferred lifestyle name?*
How do you identify in the lifestyle? (select up to 5)*

Unknown - Day 1KinksterVanillaSensualistExhibitionistVoyeurDominant (Dom/Domme)Submissive (Sub)SwitchMaster/MistressSlavePrimalPetOwner/HandlerLittleDaddy/MommyMonogamousNon-MonogamousSwingerPolyamorousSolo PolyEducatorCuratorObserverRiggerRope BunnySadistMasochistService-OrientedBratCaregiverLifestyle Enthusiast24/7 LifestylerRitualistic PractitionerQueer KinksterBIPOC LifestylerNeurodivergent LifestylerOther
What is your status in the lifestyle?*

Day Oneunder 6 months6 months to a year1-2 years3-6 years6-10 years10+ plus years
Have you ever been to an alternative lifestyle event or play party?*

yesno
Critical Safety Screening
Have you ever been accused or reported for violating consent or safety within a lifestyle or kink setting?*

yesno
Have you ever been convicted of a sexual offense or are you currently on a sex offender registry?*

yesno
Have you ever been removed or banned from a lifestyle event or community for misconduct?*

yesno
Have you ever been accused or convicted of assault or domestic violence?*

yesno
Are there any pending legal matters or investigations against you that could impact your participation in events?*

yesno
Substance Use
Which best describes your relationship with alcohol or recreational substances?*

I do not use substances and prefer sober environments.I occasionally drink socially but do not rely on substances.I regularly use alcohol or substances at events and consider it part of my experience.I have a history of use but am sober/in recovery.Other
Consent & Community
Which best matches your understanding of consent?*

Ongoing, mutual agreement where anyone can say no at any time.Clear “yes” is required, but once given, it can’t be revoked.Consent is implied in long-term relationships.Consent is only needed with new partners.
How important is inclusivity within a lifestyle community?*

Very important — I actively support inclusive spaces.Important — I value inclusivity.Somewhat important — not a strong focus for me.Not important.
Personal Conduct & Safety
How comfortable are you communicating boundaries?*

Very comfortable.Comfortable.Still learning.Not comfortable.
How do you approach community rules?*

I strictly follow rules — safety depends on them.I generally follow rules.I follow rules loosely.Rules feel optional to me.
Are you familiar with safer sex practices and committed to following them?*

Yes, fully.Somewhat, and open to learning.Not very familiar.Not a priority.
Scenarios
Which of the following is acceptable behavior in a lifestyle community?*

Asking for consent before engaging in playTouching someone without askingSharing someone’s personal detailsPressuring someone after they decline
If you witness consent being revoked, what is the first thing you do?*

Stop immediatelyWait to see if they’re jokingIgnore it, it's not your businessOnly check body language
Do you agree to respect confidentiality, practice safety, and accept removal without refund for violations?*

yesno
Do you prioritize regular STI testing and sexual health?*

yesno
Final Question
What would you like to experience or gain from joining Kelly’s Dreamland?*
Should be Empty:

Personal Verification

Lifestyle Identity

Critical Safety Screening

Substance Use

Consent & Community

Personal Conduct & Safety

Scenarios

Final Question