We are all in the process of being healed more each day by Jesus. For a leader, seeking personal healing is the first work before sharing their testimony. A testimony loses its power when a leader resists the journey of becoming whole in Christ. In other words, if a story reveals little growth at the heart level, it may appear that Christ’s work is ineffective—or worse, that the testimony points more to the person than to the victory of Christ in their life.
Sadly, many good Christian men and women, because of unhealed wounds, attempt to love others from a place of “lack.” As a result, they fight bravely but fall quickly, sometimes building ministries or relationships that bring unintended harm to themselves and to those entrusted to their care.
We often forget that Paul spent over a decade in preparation—consenting to God’s healing and formation—before beginning his legendary ministry. In the same way, every leader must humbly take the lowest seat (Luke 14:7–11), open the door of their heart to Christ (Revelation 3:20), and allow Him to bring healing. We must become the work of God before we do the work of God.
Does this disqualify you from leadership? Absolutely not. Leaders are called to share their story—but not from their story. The difference is crucial: when we share our story, we share it from the posture of how God is healing us every day, so that Christ’s victory is on display. If we share from our story, however, our unhealed wounds may overshadow Christ’s redemptive work.
This is how “hurt people” can encourage other “hurt people” in the faith—not by pretending to have arrived, but by testifying: “I’m not where I want to be, but I’m not where I used to be—all because of Christ.”
Guidelines for Sharing Your Testimony
Seek Healing First
Your first responsibility as a leader is to pursue your own healing in Christ. Let Him work in your heart before you speak from it.
Point to Christ, Not Yourself
Share your story in a way that highlights Christ’s victory, not your wounds or your own efforts.
Share 'From Healing,' Not 'From Hurt'
Tell your story as one being renewed daily in Christ. Avoid speaking in a way that makes your woundedness louder than His redemption.
Be Honest About the Process
It’s okay to say, “I’m not where I want to be, but I’m not where I used to be—all because of Christ.” This kind of humility encourages others.