• Welcome to the Relationship Readiness Assessment


    This isn’t your average quiz—this is a strategic and spiritual assessment designed by Coach Vee of The New Love Collective. In just a few minutes, you’ll gain insight into how prepared you are—mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and practically—for a healthy and intentional relationship.
    Be honest, take your time, and prepare to be seen. 

    It only takes a few minutes. Let's go!

  • Do you feel as if you finally know what you desire AND deserve in a man?*
  • Do you know your absolute deal breakers and requirements?*
  • Would you compromise on those if you met a good man?*
  • Why do you desire to be in a relationship?*
  • Do you feel complete and content as a single woman?*
  • Which matters more in a relationship: love or being in love?*
  • Are you aware of and currently walking in your purpose?*
  • What’s your attachment style?*
  • How quickly do you attach upon meeting a guy?*
  • Can you recognize a pattern in the last 3 men you were involved with?*
  • Do you fear commitment in any way?*
  • Would you say you’re a people pleaser?*
  • Have you ever been called selfish?*
  • Would you consider yourself open-minded?*
  • How well do you accept criticism from others?*
  • Do you have any unresolved trauma?*
  • How long has it been since your last serious relationship?*
  • Are you still emotionally tied to an ex?*
  • Have you ever tried to fix or save a man you were dating?*
  • Is there room in your life for a relationship?*
  • Do you feel like you need help or rescuing right now?*
  • Do you consider yourself content and satisfied in your current work?*
  • How is your prayer life and relationship with God?*
  • How do you feel about submission in relationships?*
  • What do you believe is the biggest reason you're still single right now?*
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  • 💡Healing Is Your First Priority 💡

    Your answers reveal deep pain, patterns, or beliefs that need attention before you enter your next relationship.

    This isn’t a setback—it’s a sacred starting point. Now is the perfect time to heal your heart, renew your mind, and build a new foundation for love.

    Start with healing. Grab a copy of my book No More Lonely Nights here to kick start your healing journey, or learn more about the Breakout Program—a 6-month journey to emotional reset and romantic readiness here. It's time to get you where you need to be!

  • 🔥You’re Closer Than You Think 🔥

    You're making real progress! Your heart and mind are opening—but a few blind spots, patterns, or wounds may still be slowing you down.

    Before diving into your next dating situation, let’s build your confidence, strengthen your discernment, and align your strategy with your values.

    Let’s identify what’s keeping you stuck and get you aligned for healthy love. Book your Love Transformation Meet-Up  now, or check out New Heart Academy for heart-work and clarity here.

  • 💙 You're Relationship Ready! 💙

    You've done the work—and it shows. Your answers reflect clarity, confidence, and the emotional + spiritual maturity it takes to thrive in a Kingdom relationship.

    This doesn't mean you're perfect. But it does mean you're ready to date intentionally and attract the kind of love that aligns with your vision.

    Book your Love Transformation Meet-Up now to get personalized guidance for your next steps—whether coaching or matchmaking. 

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