How healed are you really?
  • Where are you in the Narcissistic Abuse Cycle?

    How healed are you really? This 10-question quiz is designed to help you understand your current position in the narcissistic abuse cycle. Please answer honestly to gain insights into your situation.
  • 1. I still find myself replaying painful conversations with my narcissistic parent or ex in my mind.*
  • 2. I feel guilty when I set a boundary or say “no.”*
  • 3. I question my own memory or reality after disagreements (“Maybe it really was my fault”).*
  • 4. I feel like I have to earn love or approval by being perfect.*
  • 5. I still feel responsible for other people’s feelings, even when they’ve hurt me.*
  • 6. I sometimes miss or crave the attention of the person who hurt me.*
  • 7. I have trouble trusting new people or fear being vulnerable again.*
  • 8. I know how to recognize red flags and take action when I see them. *
  • 9. I believe I deserve peace, respect, and healthy love. *
  • 10. I feel calm, confident, and grounded most days. *
  • Should be Empty: