Anorexia - 50 Questions for Self-Diagnosis

Sex and Love Addiction - Am I Anorexic?

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50 Questions for Self-Diagnosis

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1. Do you go for long periods of time without being involved in a sexual or romantic relationship?2. Do you go without social activities for extended periods of time?3. Although in a relationship, have you found that, for a long while, you have not experienced: romance? sexuality? intimacy? friendship?4. Are you alone more than you want but think you are unable to change that?5. At work do you have trouble developing relationships?6. Do you avoid relationships with people of certain genders?7. Do you stay distant when in groups?8. Are you afraid of being noticed?9. Does being with others wear you out even if you like them?10. Is it your habit to panic or push people away when they start getting too close?11. Do you usually try to withdraw from or completely control emotions?12. Do you feel uncomfortable when offered comfort or support?13. Do you fear spending time with someone you find attractive?14. Do you feel safer when a relationship remains at the level of flirting and intrigue?15. Do you think you will never have a lasting, intimate relationship?16. Are you continually attracted to people who don’t meet your needs?17. Are you afraid to relax around people because you fear it might lead to a sexual situation?18. Do you fantasize about having a relationship without actually going after one?19. Do some of your sexual behaviors, such as masturbation or anonymous sex, keep you from relationships?20. Do you often avoid giving or receiving pleasure?21. Do you often ignore your physical and emotional need for others?22. Is it difficult for you to play and have fun with others?23. Is it so difficult for you to set healthy boundaries that you avoid others entirely?24. Does everything about your life or another person have to be perfect before you get involved?25. Do you envy people who are more outgoing?26. When you express emotion does it feel like you’re not being sincere or real?27. Does shame about your life cause you to avoid relationships?28. Do you set yourself apart from others because you think you are superior or inferior to them?29. Do you think that no healthy, attractive person or group of people would want someone like you?30. Is it difficult to let people know you care about them?31. Do you think you are not enough—smart enough, attractive enough, old enough, young enough, successful enough, healthy enough, enough to deserve a relationship?32. Do you stay in relationships because you think you don’t deserve anything better or can’t have anything different?33. Do you find it nearly impossible to show emotion or to tell the truth to someone you wish to be involved with?34. Do you drive others away through cold, aggressive, or fearful behavior?35. Do you choose to be alone, rather than question the choices that keep you alone?36. Is your fear of rejection or of looking foolish so intense that you seem to be permanently stuck?37. Do you think your ability to share intimacy with another is damaged or dead?38. Do you have an overwhelming fear of being taken advantage of socially, sexually, or emotionally?39. Do you usually feel resentful or envious toward people who have intimate relationships or active social lives?40. Do you find sex repulsive?41. Do you feel sex is only for healthy people and will never be for you?42. Are you more open with people you cannot be sexually close to?43. When you do date someone, do you set a time limit beforehand on how long you will date that person?44. Are you tied to your family of origin to the exclusion of others?45. Are you mainly attracted to unavailable people?46. Do you consider it not worth the trouble to engage with others because past experiences have been threatening or painful—especially if others want to get close to you?47. Do you feel more comfortable or more in control when you decline sex, relationships, or social invitations?48. Are you more open with strangers than those you are close to?49. Are you afraid you are so different from others that no one can care about you or understand you?50. Does it seem that love is missing from your life, and you don’t know what to do about it?
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Sex and Love Addiction - Am I Anorexic?

50 Questions for Self-Diagnosis